So…you want to spice things up in the bedroom. You don’t feel adventurous enough for group play and you most certainly don’t feel comfortable figuring out a threesome. Or aren’t you? Rather than your partner feeling like your vibrator is the enemy or you feeling as if your vibe is the “other guy in your life that you CAN cheat with”, why not bring it all together? Oh sure, it can be scary for both sides thinking about the idea of toy play; but it doesn’t have to be scary, it can be very fun. You can start off easy with a vibrating cock ring. It leaves everyone’s hands free to explore while you both get an extra buzz while gettin it on. Don’t be afraid to get close and get your grind on. The more you grind, the more you ladies get extra buzzing love for your clit for a big O moment. I’ve found some very fun ones at Adult Fun Store that have a steady place in my toy box at home for when me and my guy want to add something extra to our sexy time. Adding some toys into playtime with your partner doesn’t have to be extreme like Fifty Shades of Grey, no need for a Red Room of Pain. If you’re too shy to go to a sex shop in person, go online and do some exploring. Start small or go bigger and have fun!