Normally I am a dominant to my pet. But occasionally I let her top me because I do enjoy being being the bottom or submissive sometimes. It has been quite a long time since we last did this and I'm learning to my detriment that she is tougher than I expected.
Her instructions: "I don't care if what you post is humiliating for you or not. I don't care if it's uncomfortable. I want to know what you prefer, what you'd like to experience, what you want, how you're feeling through this. You are not going to hide the fact that you are a switch and that normally you're the dominant in a relationship with a slave."
I call her MIstress or Goddess. The more she humiliates me or uses me, the better.