October 18, 2014

uvos-blog asked: Hi! I know you're skeptical of the idea of different romantic/sexual orientations, but I just wanted to let you know that they're most likely a valid thing--the people we want in the bedroom can be different than the people we want to take on a date or spend our lives. It sounds like sexual immorality to some people, I'm not sure if that's your angle. As someone who experiences this, it took me a long time to understand and find my own sexuality so I understand the confusion! best wishes

and you say this with what evidence…?

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  1. vuthranir-blog said: Sounds like they want to marry one person, but sleep with someone else? Must be a great date. “Hey, I had a great time honey, now I’m off to sleep with someone I actually find sexually attractive.”
  2. nazunalika said: If you have a preference of what kind of person you want, then that’s a preference, NOT a “romantic orientation.” [Romantic orientation] makes finding the “right person” more complicated than it has to be, to be quite honest.
  3. kinkypolyfeminist said: IDK, I think that the distinction between romantic and sexual orientation is relevant sometimes. Like I know a guy who sleeps with both guys and girls, but is only interested in dating girls.
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