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One Sided Love: Love is a Gamble.

Ever been in one? Not all of us are blessed with someone who loves us and someone we love in return. Most of the time we experience what most would call a one sided love. Either you were in love with that someone who is in love with someone who doesn’t love you or worse that he or she is already in love someone else.

So what are you really supposed to do if you ever find yourself in that position? Should you pursue it? Keep loving from a far?

No. Loving someone who wouldn’t love you in return is a waste of your time and affection. If they don’t give a fuck about you why should you? If they don’t appreciate you why should you push yourself in them and wait to be loved in return? That’s just stupid. If they have feelings for you, you wouldn’t be in this situation in the first place.

The thing is, this is tricky. Because sometimes, like one in a million, it works out just fine. That person realizes that they are actually in love with you and is so stupid for not being with you. But this usually ends in heart break. In listening to sad songs on repeat, feeling bitter of everyone who are blissfully in love, and just in moping in a corner, hoping that someday that person would turn their heads and see how great you are for them.

Well, it really is a gamble and you’re betting for something with a high probability of losing. Yes, winning might be one of the greatest feeling there is, but losing is so much more terrifying. Are you willing to bet everything?

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