Anonymous asked: Yeah because when you're 19 and having fun you totally think to yourself "gosh, I'd better not hang out with these people I enjoy being around and having fun with because it might affect my future, gee diddle doo bob" Give me a fucking break. He was a 19yo boy having fun with his friends like TONS of other kids in college. It wasn't his "deadbeat friends" that caused this, it was a misguided notion that fighting violence with violence would change anything. Ya'll be judgmental af sometimes.

Some college students know how to balance work and play. Jahar’s scale weighed more on one side, and so did mine. My mindset in college was that I didn’t go there to party. I sometimes wish I’d set myself free a few times.