T., 29, Southwestern U.S. | DO TELL

I love sex. I love giving and receiving oral sex, bringing a partner to orgasm, having at least two orgasms myself. I love kissing, flirting, touching, grabbing. I like when my sex partner talks dirty. I’m loud, and it turns me on to know that someone might hear. It actually turns me on just to write out what I love about sex!

So I am open and sex-positive. I’m not afraid to tell men what I want when I want it. I talk about sex with friends. I have a variety of solo toys. I firmly believe any teenage girl who wants one should be encouraged to own a vibrator.

There’s just one thing. I really, really want to have sex with a woman. And I have absolutely no idea how to make this happen.

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