Kink Praxis

I am Corey Alexander. I am a white queer polyamorous transgender stone butch. I am a New York Jew who moved to Oakland so that I could build a life with other fat disabled queers who care about interdependence and access intimacy.I am invested in a concept of sex positivity that honors desire, multiplicity and complexity, embodied wholeness, critical analysis, and self determination.I am often changing, and often a catalyst for change. I value being caring, careful, intentional and present in my connections and life choices. I recognize that nonconsensual violence is common in all communities, am committed to fighting oppression and recognizing privilege, and am invested in endeavoring to only enact power in a deeply consensual and conscious manner.I teach classes on kink, sex, relationships and anti-oppression activism..I write queer kink erotica under the name Xan West.