Society’s Burden on Personal Style

One of the most outspoken clichés when it comes to style and personality (or many of life’s aspects for that matter), is undoubtedly to “be yourself” and “pay no attention to what other people think”. This motto is considered one of life’s lessons and to actually achieve it, an elevated form of enlightenment available only to a select few. While it sounds like common sense and resonates with the vast majority of us, the truth is that to some extent, we are all subject to society’s pre-conceptions. Now, I’m not referring to the notions of what is socially acceptable or demandable; I’m focusing on much shallower, superfluous criteria of what is considered “normal” or generally expected as a variation of it.

Whereas adapting his attire to the occasion or established protocol is a requirement for a sharp dresser, no other rules (apart from his own good taste), should dictate what to wear when. Those fortunate enough to live in major cities or fashion capitals, enjoy a freedom of expression which is not widespread throughout the globe. Regardless of the style that best represents your true self, chances are you’ve experienced the social judgment of normality first hand: it can translate through a simple awkward glance, a lengthy head-to-toe reproving stare or even mischievious remarks. I’ve experienced them all and still do on almost a daily basis. Does it bear a burden? Definitely. Has it changed my personal style? Hardly. While it’s been a long journey where time and age have proven to be powerful allies, I’ve come to a point when third party’s opinions have little saying in how I dress; namely because I dress for the sheer pleasure of it, not to please or provoke…simply to feel good when I look in the mirror and step out the door. Ralph Waldo Emerson put it best: “The sense of being perfectly well-dressed gives a feeling of tranquility that religion is powerless to bestow”.

As social beings, it is virtually impossible to remain indifferent to the surrounding environment one is inserted into. With clothing and style comprising such an important medium to portray personality and individuality, just how much of it is restrained by social influence?

M.A.V.

(Source: beyondfabric)