where did this myth of the teenage temptress who lies about their age to seduce the older man come from?
grown men who dont want to take responsibility for their actions and like to place the blame on the most relevant easy target probably
where did this myth of the teenage temptress who lies about their age to seduce the older man come from?
grown men who dont want to take responsibility for their actions and like to place the blame on the most relevant easy target probably
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If owning a gun and knowing how to use it worked, the military would be the safest place for a woman. It’s not.
If women covering up their bodies worked, Afghanistan would have a lower rate of sexual assault than Polynesia. It doesn’t.
If not drinking alcohol worked, children would not be raped. They are.
If your advice to a woman to avoid rape is to be the most modestly dressed, soberest and first to go home, you may as well add “so the rapist will choose someone else”.
If your response to hearing a woman has been raped is “she didn’t have to go to that bar/nightclub/party” you are saying that you want bars, nightclubs and parties to have no women in them. Unless you want the women to show up, but wear kaftans and drink orange juice. Good luck selling either of those options to your friends.
Or you could just be honest and say that you don’t want less rape, you want (even) less prosecution of rapists.
do not support your friends who turn out to be rapists.
do not doubt your friends who have been raped.
unfriend the rapists.
protect the abused.
Yup. Had a friend/acquaintance a year ago who eventually admitted he tried to get women blacked out drunk at parties while he remained sober so that he could rape them. He actually eventually said he knew it was not ok, not consensual. I confirmed these things happened routinely by talking with that guy’s male best friend. I told all of our mutual friends, made a point of discussing it extensively with mutual lady friends. Then I unfriended him in social media, roommates agreed to never let him visit, my friends and I stopped going to parties where he’d be, and I made his best man friend have a serious intervention about it. I felt too uncomfortable & unsafe to do it myself; this guy had hit on me for months despite me stating my lack of interest and talking about my current long distance partner. That fucker still sends me Snapchat pics of him at work and shit because I don’t know how to block him on that. Fuck people like this.