tall girl. short boy

bibi40 asked: Okay so I just found this blog and it has been really helpful because my current boyfriend is around 5.5 and im 5.7 and really height has never matter to me but lately I have felt really stress out sense he decide that he wanted to meet my family and at first I oppose because I know my family and how judgmental they can be specially my a uncles sense they are big guys truly big and sense I'm the oldest of all my cousins they expect a big 6 foot guy and I just don't know what to do I don't want m

Listen babe, families can be weird. As much as they love and support you, their actions can seem like the total opposite. You’re better off being out and proud with your relationship. Stand up to your family and let them know this person is kind to you, respects you and treats you well. That is worth so much more than a couple of inches. If they can’t see that, then let them stew in their negativity, but don’t let it get to you. If you have to distance yourself for awhile until they understand, then do that. Family will come around, they have to. If they persist with the negativity, sit them down personally and tell them how much their words and judgements hurt you. Your love life literally has no effect on their lives whatsoever, and it’s unfair for them to make you feel anything less than special.