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Hail Daft Punk

@haildaftpunk / haildaftpunk.tumblr.com

Teto / 21 / stressed as fuck all the time / hate social media, its lame
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depression symptoms that need to be brought to attention, supported and not demonized:

  • not showering/bathing for days or even weeks. (this has nothing to do with laziness - a main symptom of depression is being unable to be motivated)
  • not engaging in any social actvities
  • staying up and sleeping in till late 
  • not being able to eat
  • neglecting self care as a whole 
  • spending entire weeks at home, in the same pajamas, in the same bed
  • disregarding help/support (nothing against you. we’re just really fucking down.)

don’t shame us. we’re having a hard time managing being depressed in general.

Reblogging this again because it’s so damn important.

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“why aren’t u talking abt this one Problematic thing involving that actor/show u like??”

listen. i am tired. im putting down my pitchfork. i’ll acknowledge that thing was bad if it was but im tired of vilifying ppl for their mistakes just bc they’re famous. i want to enjoy things. i want Peace

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exfoliate

For a long time I was second guessing everything I liked because they did this or that wrong, the actors did this, the writers did that, they left out this or ignored that… It’s just too much.

It’s just so tiring. Acknowledge where they can do better, but give yourself a break for the things you like. No one is perfect and you can like things that aren’t perfect.

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shrineart

Boom, there it is.

All-or-nothing thinking is so draining and toxic. It’s okay to say “I’m aware of x, y, and z, but I really like a, b, and c.” It’s okay to have a multi-faceted, nuanced understanding of the people and things around you.

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frostyemma

I just can’t get behind the whole “this person said/did this one bad thing this one time, therefore they are literal human trash #deleted forever bye!” all-or-nothing culture it’s toxic and it’s draining, and it puts people in the awful position of being a hair’s breadth from “unproblematic fave” to “garbage person” with zero possibility of being allowed to grow or change this kind of all-or-nothing thinking is *exhausting*. people fuck up. people grow. people make mistakes and sometimes say imperfect things and sometimes act shitty. people can also learn and change and move on but it takes grace and compassion

Also because it’s a dangerous way to think about ourselves. If only pieces of shit do bad things, then you are faced with being a piece of shit when you make a mistake. This means either blowing mistakes out of proportion and having an existential crisis instead of learning, apologizing, and moving on, OR refusing to acknowledge mistakes because you, a Good Person, would never do something Bad. 

It’s the reason people think being called racist is the worst insult, because if they were racist, they would be a Bad Person, and they know they’re not. But that also means they refuse to consider they might be a good person (note the lack of caps) who sometimes behaves badly. 

Just… chill. We’re all doing the best we can, and we’re all fucking it up sometimes. 

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i hate this pic bc everyone is staring @ zayn but zayn is only looking at liam

he only got two eyes

every day. every single day i think about this post. i’ve been on this website for 5 years and no post has ever changed me the way this post has.

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For obvious reasons, I’m fucking pissed about this.

I am so disgusted by this…like wtf is this bs

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clarknokent

This is what cultural appropriation looks like. It’s not only that they steal our culture. They then bastardize it and make it so only on them it is seen as good enough. Like WTF?!

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araneaserket

other video game companies can fuck up but no video game company can fuck up as bad as konami. imagine being known as the company that fired their most valuable asset and cancelled one of the most anticipated horror games of all time….. think about that when other game companies fuck up. honestly think about that when YOU fuck up. at least u didn’t cancel silent hills. you can’t be all that bad

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Okay non-European tumblr, I’m gonna explain to you why ‘white’ isn’t as simple here as it is in the rest of the world

- Shades of white in Europe range from ‘freshly fallen snow’ to ‘I am frequently mistaken as being from the Middle East’

- White European is a thing. When you fill out a form, under ethnicity, there are several options for white; white British, white European, white other. Because people make that distinction

- There are Europeans who don’t class their ethnicity as their skin colour, but as their nationality. I have family who don’t think of themselves as white, they just think of themselves as Italian and don’t really give much thought to their skin colour

- People here in Britain always question if darker skinned white Europeans are ‘actually white’. I get it a lot myself. My response is always ‘well I’m not anything else, so obviously I must be’

- Despite being white, a lot of Europeans from Italy, Greece, Spain etc, don’t feel white in the traditional sense. We’re not white like white British people. We’re not white like white Americans. We’re our own white. White British is one thing. White Italian is another thing. White Greek is another, etc

- Which is why we have this notion here in Europe of ‘nationality over race’. Being white isn’t as important as where you’re from

- So this really only becomes an issue if you’re an immigrant

- So being white in Europe doesn’t save you from racial discrimination, because sure, you’re technically white, but you’re not white white. Not the right white

- Here in England, Europeans with really blatantly foreign names, such as myself, find it more difficult to get job interviews, because they take one look at our name and don’t bother reading the rest of the CV. A guy I know was actually told by his boss to reduce the pile of CVs he had by ‘chucking away any with a name you can’t fucking pronounce’

- And then even when you do get an interview, half the time you walk into the joint several shades darker than everyone else and feel like you’ve walked into the ‘Swedish supermodel’ clubhouse and you just know you’re not getting hired

This is all basic stuff and it’s very much taken for granted here. Race and ethnicity are not as clear cut, so it can be very confusing for non-Europeans to wrap their heads around. Which is fine. But I implore you to stay in your lane, because when you say things like ‘no white person anywhere in the world ever knows what it’s like to face racial discrimination’, it’s really fucking offensive to all of the European immigrants who are denied jobs, harassed by the police and beaten by racists, because foreign is foreign to these people, and they don’t give a shit if you’re technically white. So when you mean white American, say white American. 

This doesn’t just apply to “darker skin” Europeans either (which I’m sure some Americans would argue are POC for some reason or other). Try being slavic in Western Europe. Hell, try being Sinti or Roma in any part of Europe.

Especially in the UK you can be as white as you like but if you aren’t from Britain (or in some cases just England) then you face discrimination. It really isn’t that clear cut in Europe and it drives me mad when people say white people can’t experience racism because that’s such a US-centric idea.

And if you’re from anywhere in South-East Europe then you should prepare for your country to be slandered in every UK paper. Seriously, you can’t turn on the news, go on the internet, read a newspaper, without being told how Romanian, Ukrainian, Polish people are a drain on the UK’s resources and they should be banned from the country. And guess what?

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(That’s Mila Kunis. She was born in the Ukraine.)

(Sebastian Stan. From Constanta, Romania.)

(Mia Wasikowska, from Poland)

(Nina Dobrev, who was born in Bulgaria.)

They are white! Just because they are white, it doesn’t mean people from their countries cannot face horrible discrimination, and it doesn’t mean that they can’t be constantly told that they don’t work as hard as people from Western Europe, and that they don’t deserve basic human rights.

So just before you force your ignorance onto people who don’t hold the same views as you due to where they live operating in a different way, just remember that not everybody lives in America.

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stealthydice

Here it is guys, the post that finally puts what I’ve been trying to say for far too long into words!

It’s the exact same thing that happens in Latin America!, I’m a “white-passing latina” (or so I’ve been called, I never believed in that term) here it’s not really your skin color but from where you’re from. Colombians get a lot of shit because of the drugs and inside wars. Peruvians and Ecuadorians have ongoing beef due to territory Issues Argentinians are all prejudiced as bigots Venezuelans are prejudiced as stealers and downright doomed Ecuadorians are badly looked because of the whole “Latin Socialism of the 21st century” And so on with each country. It’s not always Race, nationality is a big factor.

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y'all need to help me, should I spend 200$ on concert tickets to see Lionel Richie or nah? I mean, his "Hello" is one of the greatest songs of all time ?

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nooby-banana

GUYS I HAVE TO TELL YOU ABOUT THIS AMAZING THING I FOUND AT MEGACON

i’m definitely gonna sound like a salesman but i need to give this new company a signal boost. i’ve never seen anything like this on the con floor and it’s such an obvious idea once i saw it.

there’s a company called Cut/Sew and they specialize in making patterns. but their real goal is getting newbies to try using patterns! ok ok let me elaborate: the big pattern companies like Simplicity, McCall’s, etc etc. are fine, but they can be super intimidating to someone who’s never used a pattern before. like sure, patterns are basically a tutorial on how to make a garment, but where’s the tutorial on how to correctly interpret the pattern?  that’s where these guys come in!

they include very clear instructions, lists for everything you’ll need, and even a QR code you can scan and input your measurements to get a custom fit for your garment!!

and sure, the big companies also include what you’ll need, but frankly it’s laid out very poorly and newbies probably won’t know to look for it on the pattern.  Cut/Sew has everything laid out very clearly and very friendly for beginners (or honestly, for any skill level! I think everyone would want clear pattern instructions, not just beginners).

and look how cute the packaging is omg!!

this is the back of their card that i got at megacon, as well as the frickin adorable packaging for the seifuku pattern i bought from them.  they have a bunch of patterns available for purchase and a lot of them are for hard-to-find things, like flight suits and high-waisted puff pants.

please give them a look-see, they are a very new company and i think there’s a very viable market for stuff like this!

This is fantastic!!! As someone who has a degree in costuming, I completely agree that patterns aren’t made necessarily for complete beginners! We spent a week or two at the start of one of my first classes on just learning how to read patterns and know what they mean and what they intend. Professional patterns also assume you know sewing fundamentals, which you may not. So a company that’s working on establishing itself as a kind of stepping stone to that is super awesome, plus cosplay specific creators! Boosting!

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you dont just play the sims. you go on a sims binge for three days straight then put the game down for 5 months

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