How do you tell when a relationship has run it’s course and it’s time to move on?
hmm, I think when the vibes feel off and you can’t connect anymore and like your stomach hurts even when they reassure you nothings wrong but it still feels like it is. It’s hard to know what side of things you’re on and what advice to give but if you aren’t elated at the thought of a future with them- or if they aren’t elated about a future with you... time to go
Have you ever considered doing an onlyfans?
i have considered it, but I don’t wanna have to promote myself on instagram and stuff lmao and they take a big cut so i don’t think i will end up doin that
How have you been! Long time no see! 💕
I am doin okay ! Just dealing with a lot of changes and trying to move forward gracefully <3
Do you think you’d ever go back to brown hair? I’ve been considering coloring my hair for a while but my hair is so healthy and I don’t wanna ruin that haha
ehhh I have considered it briefly but I would much rather be blonde than brown !! I feel like light hair looks so much better on me lol fortunately there is olaplex and new products that can minimize damage!! and conditioner <33 : )
I was getting really into weight lifting before the pandemic started. Now even though gyms are opening back up I’m not going to go back unless and until there’s a cure. But sadly weight lifting was the only type of exercise other than yoga that I liked doing :( do you have any advice for home exercise using just body weight, besides yoga?
it has been v frustrating for me too ! I only have lighter weights and so I did p90x during quarantine but I have recently been doing a lot of Buti yoga !! I highly recommend giving it a shot- it’s a great mix of dance, plyometrics, yoga, and strength training! and super fun : )
When I first went vegan one of the things (among many) that kept me motivated was your blog and your insta! It’s now been 6 years and I’m still vegan!! Woo! So thanks!!
omg that makes my heart so happy, thank you for messaging me this : ) <3
I got into yoga after following your blog years ago and I got really into it and pretty flexible. To the point that I was considering doing YTT after college. But then I got busy with school and stopped paying attention to my health completely. But now with the pandemic, having graduated, I have all this free time to rediscover yoga and I’m a total beginner again and it’s so fun!! At first I was bummed about all the lost progress but how often in life to we get to start completely over?
this pandemic has been great for my fitness too ! haha I am super glad to hear that and I am very excited for you! <33 keep me updated with your yoga journey!
Are you still dating Logan??
yes I am ! < 33
What program specifically are you doing at SMU?
i did their full stack web development program!
What do you think about Liberty University ignoring the CDC and making their students return to campus? I mean they eventually listened to reason and shut down but still. As someone who went there briefly do you think that’s totally something they’d do?
that place is whack af 100% something they would do
I’ve been doing yoga pretty consistently for 3 months, and while it’s helped me mentally I feel like physically I’m not improving. I’ve made no flexibility progress, and still can’t do a chaturanga despite practicing daily :/ any tips?
it takes time !! that’s one of the beautiful things about yoga.. it forces you to be patient and trust the process : ) i know it can be frustrating.. it took me quite a while of consistently going to classes to be able to do a chaturanga and not just flop on the floor! you will get there! keep practicing, modify when you need to, breathe and all will come your way : )
What have you been doing during the quarantine? Are you still working? What’s changed about your routine since this has started? Currently just quit drinking also so I’m struggling with new things to do during my time
I had a project I was working on up until this past week so now I am not working and don’t have much going on! I try to stay on a routine (wake up 7:30/8 ish, make coffee and breakfast, go on a walk, talk to a friend, do some coding, clean my room/kitchen/bathroom whatever needs it, workout, eat lunch, take a shower, do some sort of art project or face mask or something that just feels nice to do, and usually end the day chatting with someone!) im proud of you!!! Its definitely hard to not give in to drinking rn but it’s for the best!! I have been walking A LOT and listening to new podcasts and im listening to Jenny Slate’s book on audible rn too !! I ALWAYS have music going and keep it upbeat and stay outside as much as i can !!! Sending love your way!! You are strong <3
Need advice badly! I bought a house and let two friends move in. We’re going on our 3rd month here and I’m still doing their dishes and picking up the house after them daily. Clutter really hurts my mental health and I’ve tried talking to them multiple times but nothing gets resolved. They don’t take me seriously and try to make me feel bad for getting disrupted by clutter. How else can I possibly solve this?? My mental health is deteriorating and I don’t know what else to do ):
damn I have had similar situations : ( i’m sorry they aren’t respecting you and not cleaning up! in my last house we had like a note system where we would write on a dry erase board what was bothering us and then if you were the guilty party you fixed it and then erased the message, maybe hold a house meeting- express your feelings about how intensely it is hurting you ! They probably don’t understand the direness of the situation. Set up house rules and make boundaries and have it all written out and publicly listed to remind them. Say it’s a non-negotiable if they want to live there and just be clear about what you need from them! It’s hard to do that, but it seems very necessary in this situation ! Sending love your way <3
hi tumblr <3 This week I found out Karma has cancer and is scheduled to have surgery on monday. I am so anxious and with everything happening right now I am struggling to pay for everything. If you want to donate to help Karma my venmo is @veggiesandtea I love you all <3
me tryin to look professional haha
Do you have to take calculus or any math courses for your coding path ? What do you code in now ? curious to see if Maybe ur coursework is if similar to mine. Between bachelor degree or certificate, I chose to do certificate. cool that you’re going STEM too ! Keep with it girly !
Hello!! No i don’t have to take any math! I made sure of that when choosing this course :) haha- I am learning javascript currently!! It’s sooo much fun i love it! I wish I had learned it so long ago, and I’m thankful for the myspace days for getting me interesting in html and design! : ) Right now I’m learning SQL and more backend server stuff which is a bit harder for me but I’m tryin! : ) I’d love to hear more about what you’re learning! You are awesome!! <33
