when your anxiety is constant but you do a really good job of pretending it’s not there

pain demands to be felt when you’re inlove

such a gentle pupper

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When I’m married someday I want to be so in love that our kids are disgusted

six word story // (n.r)

He is too innocent for this world

I audibly gasped when the puppy looked into the camera

o-ohhh….. look…look at him… 

Oh my god my heart…

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// (n.r)

14 Things To Be Sure Of Before Falling In Love With Him

1. Make sure you love yourself before getting into a relationship.

As cliché as it sounds, self-love is required. You aren’t ready for a relationship if you just want to be in one in order to feel “whole.” We were told that our future partner is one who “completes” us, but not in the sense that we feel nothing when we are without them. A partner is supposed to help bring out the best we can be—not do all the work.

2. Start with friendship.

The key to a good relationship is obviously friendship. Is he interesting to talk to? Could you truly be yourself around him? Or are you just in it for the butterflies and lovey-dovey feelings? If that’s the case, then you might just be lusting over him. Or it may be infatuation.

3. Observe his work ethic.

If he’s still in school: I don’t want you to judge him by his grades, but I want you to see if he is at least trying to do his best with academics. Is he passing in his homework? Does he cut class? Do you know if he cooperates in group projects? Knowing these simple factors may tell a lot about his outlook on work itself—how he would look at his job in the future. After all, old habits follow you until you change them.

If he already has a job: How does he feel about going to work? Is he striving? Or is he doing it just because he has to?

4. Be aware of the type of people he purposely surrounds himself with.

We all know the saying, “Birds of a feather flock together.” We also have to admit that it is pretty accurate. What is his group of friends like? Does he even have a group of friends? How does he act when he’s around them? Can you imagine yourself hanging out with his type of crowd?

5. See if you could accept his hobbies and interests.

Respect is the key. If you could respect what he is into—unless it is illegal—then your relationship might flourish smoothly. If you can’t accept him now, what more in the future? You can’t just force him to “unlike” something. Changing him isn’t a form of love; acceptance is. Well, unless you are “changing him for the better”; but be careful—you may be the only one who thinks it’s for the better.

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shoutout to me for ruining my own life

Whats the difference of love and infatuation?

INFATUATION → What you feel

Infatuation feels like love. In fact, love includes romantic feelings. But the basis for each is entirely different. Infatuation stems from a superficial reaction to surface qualities. Also, it is blind to the other person’s weaknesses and exaggerates his or her strengths. As a result, infatuation is about as stable as a castle made of sand. “It doesn’t last long. You can be attracted to someone one day, and then a month later you feel the same way—but toward someone else.“

LOVE → What you know

Love is based on a well-rounded knowledge of a person’s strengths and weaknesses. It’s hardly surprising, then, that the Bible describes love as much more than a feeling. It states that love is, among other things, “long-suffering and kind… . It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” (1 Corinthians 13:4, 7, 8) And love makes a person act in these ways based on knowledge—not on credulity or ignorance.

me reading my own posts: hmm..  That’s an embarrassing thing 2 post on the internet