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Grrrls Fighting Back

@grrrls-fighting-back / grrrls-fighting-back.tumblr.com

For Michael Hunter, Click Michael Hunter Info Tab A feminist, sex positive, body positive, women's rights blog. Producer of GRRRL ASYLUM zine.
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Hi Tumblr

I’m Joe, I’m a AMAB Trans femme person, who is permanently physically disabled and has mental health issues relating to anxiety.

I am currently on the UKs student loan system, this gives me enough to live off of per month if I stick to a very strict budget.

Due to several things arising…

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Does anyone know how to stop getting notifications for a post?

I get ones about Michael daily and it's really rough having to remind people he's passed on

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Call for submissions!!

We are seeking submissions for our latest project, "SEX WERK", an educational zine working to erase stigmas about sex workers and the sex industry. We are looking for poetry, essays, short stories, visual art, rants, raves, anything so long as it in some way relates to your experience as a sex worker. We encourage POC, Queer people, Non-binary/gender non conforming people, disabled people, and people of all body types to submit! You are welcome to remain completely anonymous in your submissions. Please send them to grrrlssmashpatriarchy@gmail.com

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fatgrltalk

And here it is! Our first ever Fatgrltalk Discussion video!

Special thanks to Brenna and Rebecca for being the first non-admin guest on our channel!

Also a huge thanks to our admins - Tanya, Lorraine, and Kay!

The video and audio are a bit off in the beginning, but it fixes itself.

Again, thank you all for your interest, and please share your experiences and fill out the application to be in our upcoming videos!

Janis

Friends, this is a new project that I am so proud to be a part of! FatGrlTalk is a regularly varied panel of six fat women from different backgrounds discussing issues that fat women face in today's society.

One of the things I love most about it is the emphasis on representation! In this video there are people of color, people of different age groups, a queer person and a mom! How radical!

Please take the time to watch our first video, comment, subscribe and follow the tumblr page, where you can fill out an application to be in our next panel!!

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fatgrltalk

And here it is! Our first ever Fatgrltalk Discussion video!

Special thanks to Brenna and Rebecca for being the first non-admin guest on our channel!

Also a huge thanks to our admins - Tanya, Lorraine, and Kay!

The video and audio are a bit off in the beginning, but it fixes itself.

Again, thank you all for your interest, and please share your experiences and fill out the application to be in our upcoming videos!

Janis

Friends, this is a new project that I am so proud to be a part of! FatGrlTalk is a regularly varied panel of six fat women from different backgrounds discussing issues that fat women face in today's society.

One of the things I love most about it is the emphasis on representation! In this video there are people of color, people of different age groups, a queer person and a mom! How radical!

Please take the time to watch our first video, comment, subscribe and follow the tumblr page, where you can fill out an application to be in our next panel!!

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So the indiegogo for a new social network that I’m helping create launched yesterday (Halloween)! So far we’ve had some very generous funders but we have a LONG way to go for our $100k goal! 

Why do we need to make a new social network you ask? Good question! So far all social networks are created by rich, cishet white men. They have no grasp on the safety and privacy needed for marginalized people. Due to this it is harder to stay safe and get people banned during harassment campaigns such as gerbergate. 

Not only that but social network sites like Facebook are requiring you to put in your “real name” if they deem it not “real” enough. This puts marginalized people even more at risk. Trans people and sex workers do not go by our government aliases for many valid reasons. If someone is being stalked they may use an alias so that their stalker can not find them as easily. 

These things are a serious flaw within the social network sites that we have available to us. That is because of who it is run by.

Quirell, on the other hand, is managed by collectqt which is a Queer/Trans collective. The founder of Quirell herself is a QTWoC and also has sex workers on the project (myself).  

We aren’t trying to replace twitter or tumblr. We’re trying to give people a safer space to run to when they have been triggered, harassed, or any reason for them to need to escape but still want to talk to their friends.

Funding for Quirell is needed. As of now, the Quirell team is working around the clock for basically no pay. All of us are already marginalized people and thus have the financial issues that most marginalized people face but we are still working for free to get Quirell up for everyone. 

The $100,000 will allow us to be paid for our job, give us money for server costs, let us hire outside contractors that we need to make Quirell even better, and allow us to have PAID moderators! 

So please donate. If you can’t, boost Quirell. Talk about it. Share the indiegogo with your friends and family who can donate. Get our name out there. 

Our IGG has made it past our first goal of $10k which we couldn’t have done without ya’ll but we still have a LONG way to go to our main goal of $100k and with not much time left! SO PLEASE DONATE!

There will be other ways to donate after the IGG is up but please please please help us out so we can make a social network that everyone can feel safe in! 

Signal Boost. This is so so important. 

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  • it’s okay to eat
  • it’s okay to have fat, because it’s natural and it doesn’t make you ugly or unlovable
  • stretch marks, scars, moles, etc are totally ok
  • your body is wonderful exactly the way it is
  • please be kind to yourself
  • i love you so much
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men don’t get to decide what is misogynistic

straight people don’t get to decide what it homophobic

cis people don’t get to decide what is transphobic

white people don’t get to decide what is racist

people in positions of power

don’t get to decide what is considered oppression

that’s how we move backwards, not forwards

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Inez Jasper talking about issues facing indigenous women is everything you need to see today. Watch the full episode of Rebel Music: Native America here.

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daddy issues = not funny

being traumatized by a father figure to the point where you can’t trust any man = not funny

getting scared of men raising their voices = not funny

living your whole life wondering why your dad abused you/left with no explanation = not funny

literally stop using the phrase daddy issues

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This is 12 year old Tamir Rice, who was shot and killed by a police officer in Cleveland for holding a toy gun.

Know his story. Remember his name.

My brother is Tamir’s age and ironically enough we are from a major city in Ohio. A few months ago he wanted to meet up with some friends at a high school football game. He didn’t really coordinate as well as he should have with his friends though because when my mom pulled up with him to drop him off he wasn’t sure where his friends were in a crowd of roughly 100+ people.

There were only white people in the crowd and my mom ended up telling him he couldn’t stay because he didn’t know where his friends were. She told me she didn’t want to run the risk of him being in this crowd without his friends and someone misinterpreting something he does as a threat.

My parents have to reiterate constantly when we go somewhere that he simply can’t be a goofy kid. Because the world doesn’t see black little boys the same. And sadly anything seems to be getting them killed nowadays.

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my name is BABY and you lean out of your car and spit at my feet it lands in a puddle in front of me and i am thirteen and in a suburban neighborhood on the way home from school and i gag and run with my backpack banging like the echo of your words against my back like you are chasing me all the way home my name is SWEETIE and i am fifteen in the city with my friends for the first time and we get a little lost and you follow us for a full block you name my friends HONEY and DARLING and WHY THE FUCK WON’T YOU TALK TO ME my name is NICE ASS and it’s two in the afternoon and i still feel my heart slam against my ribs because i am under a hundred and fifty pounds and i have weak lungs and weaker fists and while you saunter down the steps, swinging the beer bottle in your fist, my father who is walking behind me shouts, “she’s seventeen, you dipshit” and maybe i’m near my family but i don’t feel safe until we’re home again my name is JAILBAIT and my friend is laughing and we just graduated high school and we feel like we are on the brink of something beautiful and terrifying and she is in heels and about to throw up and you name her DRUNK ENOUGH and i have to physically drag you off and when we go home she cries for four hours because a night that should have been just teenage fun almost resulted in the end of her trust of humans my name is LOOK AT THOSE TITS and we are on a college campus and the boy i am with holds onto my waist just a little tighter while you drive up next to me. you name him THUG and throw a bottle at his forehead. i can’t stop shaking until long after it’s over. he says “it happens,” and i say, “it shouldn’t.” my name is DAMN GIRL and we are walking down the street. there are ten of you and two of us and you snap a picture when you think we’re not looking. you tell us to either come inside or you’ll fuck us on the street. you all laugh like this is funny. this is compliment. this is just something boys do to get ladies. my name is LITTLE LADY, my name is FINE MISS, my name is FUCK YOU AND FUCK YOUR FRIENDS, my name is LOOK ME IN THE FACE, my name is STOP FROWNING, my name is SMILE, my name is WHY DID YOU EVEN GLANCE AT HIM YOU WERE ASKING FOR IT, my name is THIS IS A COMPLIMENT so i looked it up according to Oxford that’s “a polite expression of praise or admiration” i think you’ve got the definitions mixed up my name is PRETTY THING, my name takes nice words and make them into bullet wounds my name is NICE BODY and no girl i know has dated a man who catcalled her, my name is GREAT RACK and it turns out that if you shout things at a stranger, they sound like knives more than flowers, my name is WOMEN LIKE YOU NEVER KNOW THEIR PLACE and every single “nice” thing you say to a woman is something you’d never utter to another man because you know that it’s derogatory, my name is PRINCESS and A REASON TO GET PUT IN PRISON and if another man spoke to your mother sister girlfriend like that, you’d kill him my name is SEXY and every time i hear someone raising their voice i am thirteen again and i don’t know who you are and i’m running home with a weight on my shoulders and your words like a slap to my spine and your laughter like a hanging, i am scared and alone and suddenly so small, and compliments are supposed to make me feel good not afraid for my life, compliments are a way of saying “i care and i appreciate you and i thought you should know it,” and if you really meant it as a compliment, you’d care about how i would take it - but you don’t mean it like that, you mean it to show off, you mean it to make us object, you mean it to shove our names into your back pocket so you can tell your friends “i saw the HOTTEST LITTLE THING yesterday” and they can groan about how we just walked away because you don’t see us go home with keys in our fists and all the lights on and we keep 911 dialed just in case and we triple-check our locks and we don’t fall asleep at all because your compliment knocked us over and took who we are if we are all saying “it doesn’t sound like a compliment, it sounds like a threat,” if you really wanted to make us feel good - wouldn’t you stop doing it?

COMPLIMENT =/= CATCALL // r.i.d (via inkskinned)

Almost in tears. This was fucking beautiful.

(via nastynadz)

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