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Olivia
Buffalo, NY
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libra is paralysed in the middle of complexity and contradiction for the scales can always hold two opposites together exactly midline. libra is trying to rewrite life in reverse, and seek not to create personalities but to recover identities left behind. they are constantly in an operation of synthesis, duality, and third person perspective. an aura of mystique then accompanies libra because they appear as both somebody that you know and somebody you have never met before in one intriguing enigma 

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All facts though 🤷🏾‍♂️

Because [cishet]men don’t have or really understand indepth friendship. They depend on ALL of their emotional support from their parents (read: mothers) or their spouses (read: wives). So when they are expected to care about the well being and feelings of a woman they aren’t fucking they think the world is ending.

I GUARANTEE somebody got their feelings hurt after reading this LMAO

^Facts

For those who didn’t understand

10/10 post

“Women aren’t vending machines you put compliments into until sex comes out.”

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womanhood is having no clue what you actually look like because you look different everytime you look in the mirror depends on your mood

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I have so much love and respect for women who are honest about their own loneliness but also find the good in it like when audrey hepburn said “I have to be alone very often. I’d be quite happy if I spent from Saturday night until Monday morning alone in my apartment. That’s how I refuel” and when charlotte bronte said “I care for myself. The more solitary, the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself” and when jenny slate said “I think I’ve come to terms with the fact that there will always be a ribbon of loneliness running through who I am. But that’s why I want to do comedy, and why I want to connect with people. You can use that ribbon to be a part of a finer tapestry, or you can choke yourself out with it! Your choice!” and when mary oliver said “whoever you are, no matter how lonely, the world offers itself to your imagination, calls to you like the wild geese, harsh & exciting - over & over announcing your place in the family of things”

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5ummit
me: *worries that I'm Evil and Manipulative and tries very hard every day to be a good person*
me: oh my god
me: I'm manipulating people into thinking I'm good
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adhdbean

just because I spend some time doing nothing doesn’t mean I’m relaxing. I have not once relaxed

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a gentle reminder that you did well this year. you met new people, learned new things and felt new feelings. you did so many things that made you scared. you picked yourself up off the floor after feeling completely defeated or heartbroken. there were some really tough nights but you survived them all. you made people happy just by existing. you accepted many goodbyes but the serendipitous meetings made up for them. it was your own hard work that paid off but you always downplay it or compare yourself to others. that’s not fair on yourself. you’ve come so far from the first day of this year. you have more wisdom and strength now. yes, other people seem more “successful” but does that even matter? please don’t think so lowly of yourself to only think about your failures. 2018 was your year of growth. I hope you take a moment to be kind to yourself, and believe that 2019 will be even better.

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averagefairy

sad that I still deeply care about people who have no business taking up space in my heart anymore but they’re still there bitch!! they wont leave ! 

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im not INTERESTED anymore in seeing men’s perception of what female leisure time looks like, how we lounge around hairless and small and beautiful on our beds and couches in oversized shirts and lace underwear, unaware and unassuming and all the more beautiful for not Trying to be beautiful, i’m TIRED of it. even our most basic freedom of privacy, time alone with the self, has been butchered and ripped from us by the gaze of male photographers and artists

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