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Las Cicatrices

@neoterictoxin / neoterictoxin.tumblr.com

"abstract." although, i won't let their credibility define me. i need more than a linguistically biased adjective.
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It’s such a precious, intimate experience, stumbling upon individuals that are actually capable of challenging our capacity to grow; and not as an egocentric defense mechanism, but as a vulnerable, self-aware, empathy-based compulsion because they understand what we are capable of, and will not allow us the excuses to squander our potential.

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late-term abortions are so gross. especially partial birth abortions. why the fuck would anyone do this for non-medical reasons? really, why?

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antiprolife

Fun fact: they don’t. 

Another fun fact: literally almost every medical procedure you can think of looks gross. Look up a video of wisdom teeth removal if you really want goosebumps.

“Partial Birth Abortions” actually called Intact Dilation and Extraction are illegal in the United States per the Partial Birth Abortion Ban. Before they were banned, they were generally used so that grieving parents could have a chance to hold their wanted child and mourn when a complication in pregnancy or with the fetus warranted a late term abortion. How disgusting that parents would want to mourn their wanted babies, right?

Less than 2% of abortions are performed at or after 21 weeks. 43 states have bans on late-term abortion (late-term abortion is defined by each state, but is usually 20 weeks, 24 weeks, or whenever they determine ‘viability’ to be) usually only with exceptions for the health of the pregnant person.

Why are you under the impression that so many people willingly, purposely wait until so late in their pregnancy that abortions become extremely hard, if even possible to access, much more expensive, and much more stigmatized for no reason?

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concept: me, 10 years from now, living in a pretty house with my love, sipping a hot cappuccino on a rainy autumn afternoon. our dog curls up next to me in the window bench while our cat snoozes on the bed. i’m financially stable and i’m never tired anymore. the bees are safe.

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All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt for saying no.

read it again and again

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lierdumoa

Understand that this applies even to non-sexual situations. Women are more likely to be asked for favors from coworkers. Regular “can you file this for me” / “can you cover my shift” / “can you finish up this paperwork” workplace favors. Men are less likely to return those favors. Women are more likely to be seen as “difficult to work with” if they refuse to do favors when requested. Being viewed as ungenerous has negative social and professional consequences.

So yes, even gay men benefit. All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt, not just physically, but also socially and professionally, for saying no to anything at all.

This is important.

Thinking a lot lately about how this stuff plays out in two circles where I spend a lot of time–the comics community, and the development / implementation of CoCs and harassment policies; and how it intersects with both of those for freelancers in particular.

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my dream 2016: Kesha wins her legal battle, is very happy chilling on the beach and drops a ground breaking rock album on us
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Yawning pelican. [imgur]

that’s so unnecessary for a bird that is already 400% ridiculous

What the fuck is this

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me @ every straight couple w/ a family on TV: 80% of your problems could be solved by having an honest, patient conversation with each other oh my god have you literally never communicated in your life??? why are you married? how did u have 2.5 kids together without discussing your feelings literally ever?????????
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