Why is he so dumb 😭😩😭
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Why is he so dumb 😭😩😭
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we could talk about literally anything and i’d just be happy i got to talk to you
Wow it’s really been a while since I felt this kind of madness.
I can't express what it means to have found your "harmonic series" at this exact moment. I turned to tumblr in desperation, for a small enough morsel of emotion that I might actually be able to swallow it without feeling overwhelmed. I've been feeling very overwhelmed, you see. It seemed the right plan. Instead, your writing. Instead, what I needed. Thank you for sharing your humanity. Your literary ability is nothing to scoff at either. I hope both continue to develop in tandem.
Gosh, thank you so much. This is a hell of a compliment. I’m happy to hear that it resonated with you. And if you think it might help, don’t hesitate to hit me up off anon and tell me what’s on your mind. I’ve had a bit of luck helping people out in that regard.
The only surviving reminder of the way things used to be rests quietly, unnoticed for a while now, on the ledge above the dining room window: Family time at the beach, reads the caption, scrawled in their mother’s cursive beneath a faded colour photograph.
same/difference by nadine ijewere
I used to write more on here. Nowadays I feel like I need to have something substantial to say first. But I rarely do, at least nothing I can manage to get into a properly realised state. A state sufficiently realised for present me, that is. Realisation is subjective.
It strikes me, though, that in those days it took me very little time to say the things I needed to say in the ways I wanted to say them. There were also more of those things, and they were more interesting. You might say I was in a very different frame of mind back then. I had a very different mind back then, more properly captures the state of things. The change has been for the worse, and the unfolding of the loss is perhaps the one thing that has overborne my last four years.
But it’s whatever. Perhaps in the time to come I will rediscover something of what I was back then. Or maybe I’ll just keep drifting in directions over which I have no control. I’m not optimistic that they’ll be good ones, but life is strange.
Do you happen to have a Goodreads account?
Created one but have never quite done anything with it. I’m not good at writing reviews unfortunately. If you want book recommendations feel free to hit me up directly though, I’ve got a bunch.
Bury me with an mp3 of this on a USB drive. 🔥🔥🙌🏾
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I follow you.. and decided to send this on anon because idk how you're gonna take this but 😂😂 your brain is cute.
Lmao ah you’re a grown adult, you know? Thanks though I guess loool
There are a lot of people in the world. It kind of feels like were all in our own alternate reality. You come across multiple people, choices, worlds and they all lead to something. I don't really feel like i have a place..or a meaning or any of us really. You think it's possible to live the life we desire or do we only get the chance to make the best out of what happens?
Everyone has a place and a meaning. It's in the hearts and minds of the people who know you. That includes God if you believe in him. Whenever you act in a positive manner towards someone (ceteris paribus) you are turning that place into a better one. With enough time, and with the people closest to you, you eventually find a home in their heart. That level of fellow-feeling, I think, is one of the most fulfilling things anyone can ever experience. As to your question, let me put it this way. If you could pick your hand before each round of poker — i.e., if you could be certain of a royal flush each time — the game would get super boring really fast. You would eventually start dealing yourself more difficult hands to see if you could win. That's not to say that freedom or the fulfilment of desire is meaningless, but complete freedom and/or fulfilment of desire is impossible and overrated, and chances are that no matter the cards you've been given you've got the potential to play a better game than you think. This isn't true for everyone, though. There are many people living in extreme poverty, for instance. And I think we have a moral imperative to make that potential true for as many such people as possible. That's one great way to find fulfilment, by seeking to provide it to others.
That's so strange cause then like whats the point of pain or life or rules. Sometimes it feels like the rules of karma apply to me. What world are these assholes living in. I want in.
Lol, the thing is that nobody is really in control of where life goes for them. Some people are luckier than others, and some people make better choices than others. Idk if there's a world completely without consequences for anyone. Maybe it's out there and there's a password and I'm just unaware of it. But being a bad person and getting away with it doesn't sound like a virtuous existence to me. I am grateful for the existence of my empathic faculties lol. Consequently, I don't really know the instructions for living that kind of life, and can't be of much help with that. I think it's much better to be a good person and seek out good people. It might be hard to find them (take it from me lol) but they're around.
Hey I was looking at the question you answered below and i'm interested in what you think becomes of a person who does harm/cheating with no remorse..?
That's the thing, see, you never really know. Maybe they get tangled up in the consequences of their actions. But then again maybe they don't. Maybe after you guys break up they get with someone else — perhaps even the person they cheated on you with — and suddenly all the love and faithfulness and devotion you always wanted but never got from them ends up going to someone who isn't you, and they and their new person live happy ever after and you don't. And now you're even more hurt than before, because you can't console yourself with the thought that being an incorrigible demon is simply in their nature, that it's not you it's them. Maybe it is you. That's life, sometimes.It's no use stressing out about what happens to someone like that, lol. Just try your best not to get with them in the first place. If that doesn't work don't be moving colourblind if and when you see red flags. If that doesn't work and you get screwed over, it's okay to be angry but eventually you have to find a way to move on. Alternatively you could try to get back at them. But when you're coming for someone like that you'd better not miss, and if you miss you'd better not leave them an opportunity to retaliate, and if you leave them that chance you'd better watch your back for the rest of your life. Personally I think detachment is far superior to revenge. Vengeance is mine, says the Lord. If you can go beyond detachment and reach forgiveness, that's even better. Your reward shall await you in heaven.What I don't encourage at all is self-pity, internalised anger, wallowing in your injury, etc. But even this has some use, as I see it, for three things: as a form of catharsis, as motivation for self-improvement (because, like I said, maybe it is you), and as motivation for revenge (in case you do choose revenge). In each case, though, the aim should ultimately be to get the anger or self-pity out of your system, because it's toxic and it will fester if you keep it in. So if you must feel sorry for yourself or brood over your anger, think of it as homework, or medicine: a salutary sort of cure, something unpleasant to get over with so that you can get better.And now a final word. You might be tempted to keep in your resentment long enough so that it's extra strong when you take your revenge. Much as in Call of Duty you might wait after taking out the pin so that your grenade explodes as soon as it reaches the other person. Don't do this. It is a very risky and dumb thing to do. Life no be game. You will probably miss the window and your grenade will blow up in your face. That's all for today, beloved.
ΔxΔp≥h/4π
It's the equation for Heisenberg's uncertainty principle, lol. Which is about as illuminating as I can get. I haven't taken quantum mechanics yet lol. But thanks for reminding me, I should probably get a blog title I can explain in greater detail lmao
Do guys regret cheating or is it easy for them to just dip out and act like nothing ever happened? I truly just want to understand if they go through moments of introspection where they see themselves for who they really are because in my experience its like dudes act non human and it can't really be that way can it? I get men go through things and they get scared and they fear things.. how is it that it's easier to fuck someone over than to tell them how they feel? It's confusing.
Mpanyinfo taa ka sɛ nnipa dasani yɛ forken. There are many candidate explanations for this — it's a complicated phenomenon. But I want to change the subject a bit. It sounds like you expect people to feel remorse for cheating by default. So when it doesn't happen, maybe you are puzzled, or angry. But once you stop thinking of remorselessness as something strange or inhuman or abnormal, the reason for it becomes less important. There's a reason why it rains, but one rarely feels the need to ask "Why is it raining?" because it is understood and accepted that rain happens from time to time. One simply keeps an umbrella handy, and a weather app. In this sense remorselessness is like rainy weather. Not everyone will be remorseful, much as not every day will be sunny. Understanding why, in either case. won't make it less convenient, or less likely to happen. The important thing is finding a way to cope. Luckily, meteorology is possible, and so is discernment. With all this in mind, trust God alone, and please, please, protect your neck.
Hi there :) I saw that you took Math 55 at Harvard. Can you tell me your experience with it?
Hey anon. Incidentally, I did not take 55. I wimped out in the first week and took 25 instead, which was a good decision. I highly enjoyed 25, but if I'd had a bit more foreknowledge I might have read up on linear algebra and group theory over the summer, and then taken 55. That said, I do have quite a bit of perspective on the nature of the course. Come off anon and I'll give you a longer response and/or find someone who could give you more of an insider's perspective. Cheers ✌🏾