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@sammietumbls / sammietumbls.tumblr.com

"she is a sunflower, strong and bold and true to herself; not as lovely as a rose but not as a fragile."
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Hello, old friend.

Talking about tumblr with some friends of mine got me looking back on this blog and definitely reminiscing about earlier times in my life. I feel like a lot of it has been blocked out of my memory, maybe due to trauma or perhaps object permanence (out of sight out of mind). Regardless, I still look back at the people I've met (at least most of them) quite fondly. And all the times, conversations, all the same.

I will forever be grateful for this little corner of the internet for allowing me an outlet for my feelings and creativity. A lot of the times I find myself missing the ability to come here & write out what I'm thinking. And chasing that ever cathartic feeling.

Anyways, if you somehow find this post. I hope you're well, wherever you are in the world & in life.

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kireiharuka

*:・゚✧ Studio Ghibli Storybook gfx insp [0/1]:   Kiki’s Delivery Service 1989 

              —  ❝ We Need To Find Our Own  i n s p i r a t i o n   And Sometimes It is Not Easy….. ❞  

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if a person of color is telling you you that you’re being racist you need to recognize it and apologize. if a gay/bisexual person is telling you that you’re being homophobic/biphobic you need to recognize it and apologize. if a transgender person is telling you that you’re being transphobic, recognize it and apologize. if a woman is telling you you’re being sexist, recognize it and apologize. the line is not yours to be drawn.

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purposely choosing to ignore current events about the murder of black lives, for the sake of not wanting to see any “negativity” is so fucking stupid. blocking that out doesn’t make your fantasy bubble dreamy, it only shows willful ignorance and/or being blinded by your own privilege. that also goes for those who say police brutality is an american problem and it doesn’t affect them— the lack of sympathy is truly telling and anti-blackness exists everywhere so that’s relevant. if you’re present on social media, i guarantee you’re just one click away from at least knowing what the hell is going on. it’s so important these days since misinformation spreads like wildfire.

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You CANNOT serve from an empty vessel but go off I guess

OP what does this mean?

When your friends are hungry, you cannot serve them from an empty breadbasket, no matter how good your intentions. When they're thirsty, you cannot serve them from an empty pitcher, no matter the effort you put in.

We have to stock ourselves with good things before we are able to give them away, and if we are too exhausted to make bread, we must rest before we can make it to serve our friends. If we are too hungry to serve, we must eat some bread ourselves first.

It's a metaphor for emotional exhaustion. When we wear ourselves down it makes it difficult or impossible to help the people around us, and all the effort and good intentions in the world can't make up for the fact that our vessels are empty. It's hard to not want to serve when our friends are in trouble, but trying to serve from an empty vessel often leaves both of you floundering.

On the contrary, when we care for ourselves and are kind to our body and mind, we are full vessels, and serving the people around us becomes easier. That's why it's important to take time for ourselves once in a while, to refill ourselves with good things.

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cluegrrl

In the event of a sudden pressure change, put on your own oxygen mask before helping a companion with theirs if needed.

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ailithnight

I have never seen this concept so perfectly and eloquently articulated.

You cannot serve from an empty vessel.

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