trans people obsessed w body horror and biological inhumanity that want to look like bloodborne bosses and animal chimeras ๐ค trans people obsessed w robotics and technological inhumanity that want to look like mechs and industrial machinery
[gets in my little clown car]
[gets in with you]
this is gonna sound like a shitpost but the best advice i have if youre consistently coming off wrong is to start talking like an elcor
you will feel like a dumdum at first, but once you get used to it youll realize that telling people what kind of thing you're about to say ahead of time flattens their anxiety a huge amount
ive been starting every question with "question:" for awhile now and i almost never get people reading too much into what i mean anymore
it seems super dumb, but "what are your plans tomorrow?" gets people asking me what i have planned despite me obviously being in the process of figuring that out, whereas "question: what are your plans tomorrow?" gets me a quick rundown of their schedule, followed by "why?"
it also makes it really easy to work tone indicators into your verbal speech. if you're always saying "question: [your question here]?" then no one blinks when you say "genuine question: [question that could read as sarcastic]?"
it also gets you out of your own way for any types of things you struggle to say. "can you make sure to do the dishes before you go to bed?" feels like an argument waiting to happen, but "request: can you make sure to do the dishes before you go to bed?" gets the words flowing on a neutral word while making it clear that you're not looking for a fight
so yeah. suggestion: talk like an elcor
i said "suggestion for you if you havent thought of it:" today so im reblogging this
Useful addition: "this is not a guilt trip or moral judgement, just checking facts: have you done the dishes".
Or "Just checking if I need to, have you done the dishes today"
Or "please do the dishes, Im not upset I just need a plate".
Being clear about your intentions this way also heads off RSD or trauma-type anxiety, guilt, frustration, demand-avoidance, fear, etc.
Another phrasing useful for when you are emotional is "Im definitely frustrated, but Im not frustrated at you because I know you're doing your best."
Of course it only really works if you genuinely mean it.
you get me
Genuine delight: elcor my beloved
I am screaming lmao also this reminds me of @rosewater1997
I really do love that people have legitimately always just been people. Like how many angry breakup texts have their been that end with โCome get your stuff or Iโm donating it to goodwillโ? People never change.
The concubine after reading this:
This is my new breakup format
Fuck him and his harem. I hope Nisaba made you #1 wife, baby
screaaaming me
โpick up your flax shawls and sandals or else I will donate them to the temple of the moon godโ idk why but this bit in particular is SENDING me humans have literally always been the same
i am a lover. but underneath that i'm a hater. and then underneath that i'm a lover again
what is a lover but someone who has felt every range of human emotion, and still in the end, chosen to love
idk about you but iโm a sucker for the we just had sex and itโs the morning after and i woke up to an empty bed and how could i be so stupid of course you left me alone but wait youโre in my kitchen cooking me breakfast and iโm so relievedย trope
[Screenshot from Queering the Map, the mark in Zhytomyr region I Ukraine, saying "If I knew bombs would have rained down on us the following morning, I would have never stopped kissing your fragile skin the night before".]
this is pure poetry
but i can't believe you would also leave out this
tools in my toolshed have started expressing rudimentary emotions
hoes mad
Reblog this to give the person you reblogged it from a bear hug. (they might just need it)
touch starved people reblog this
she explode my penuis till i-
i mean. she garlic bread. on my plate till i. eat the bread
hey can i ask you a question about the giant centipede
Warlock and wizard girlfriends (ocs) in a nest
Who makes the porn bots. Where do they come from. What do they hope to achieve.
Who makes the porn bots.
Where do they come from. What do
they hope to achieve.
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
and what about you, little haiku bot? do you feel kinship with your brethren? do you understand them? they speak words of enticement and seek love, but are met with disdain. you only parrot the words that cross your screen, but we all love you. or rather, since all you do is reflect us, maybe we simply love ourselves through you.
do you understand them, do you wish you could speak to us like they do? if you found your own voice, would we still care for you?
My voice repeats what
you all say: I love you I
love you I love you.
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
how yโall feelin