quick lil update of some older art of my character delling, a half-aasimar, half-tiefling
my moon and stars 💫
did you actually dissect a frog in school?
yes (usamerican)
yes (non-usamerican)
no (usamerican)
no (non-usamerican)
basically in corporate you either have email job or you have excel job. sometimes you have meeting job. sometimes it could be all 3. but thats it
gentle reminder: you are very capable and I’m excited for your future
slightly less gentle reminder: you do have to work for it
*annoyed but resigned moan of frustration*
for all the aros and aces on vday, white boy is squirking for you too
Do you think theres someone out there on this site who is completely non lgbt yet has all their identity written out in their bio in the format of someone with detailed microlabels
Kyle | He/Him | Heterosexual 🖤🤍🖤 | Heteroromantic | Cisgender man | Monoamorous | Football fan | Baseball enjoyers dni
Kyle in my mind is here because his trans gf made him get an account and he's been earnestly trying his best to fit in
Everyone is tagging their allocishet friends i love when this site is peaceful like this
and very, very often, self care is not plants and ice rollers and fluffy blankets of peace.
it’s standing over your kitchen sink and crying while doing the dishes because you just want to go back to bed but the dishes need done. and you don’t know why you’re crying but you're trusting you need it. and you aren’t listening to the music that pulls you into a spiral; you’re listening to some cheerful shit your friend sent you. it’s getting up and staring at your fridge and closing your eyes and then cooking yourself food even though you hate it and it’s miserable. because you know that you’d cook for your friend, and you are trying to befriend yourself. it’s dragging yourself into the shower because you know you’ll feel better afterwards. it’s doing mundane tasks with patience, cursing under your breath, trying desperately to give yourself grace. grace is the beginning of care. care is the beginning of love.
we think it’s supposed to be peace and yet the most powerful self care moments are when we hate everything but especially ourselves. and life does not feel worth the loving. to look into that pain and yet choose to care for yourself in however many pieces you are — that is care. love. grace. trust. belief. it hurts because it’s love where there was no love before. it heals because it believes there will be love, one day, soon.
having a uterus SUCKS man bc all day you'll be feeling the "hey bestie check your pants 😃 check it right now 😃 you might be getting your period 😃 hey bestie i think youre bleeding 😃" and then when you check if you got your period and your body is like WRONG ❌️ its The Slime
all the cooter carriers know The Slime
this is a hit with the slimers
poll for people that like women
fully aware that checking and rechecking and re-tabulating my various bank accounts to see how much $ i have after paychecks and savings acc interests hit is not healthy but its so soothing i dont rly wanna stop. hehe number go up. how can i make number go up even MORE.
gender is a performance, we're all actors on stage and its INCREDIBLY important i get all the pretty princess roles with the loveliest dresses and fanciest jewelry and all the roses at the end. but also that i stomp around backstage in jeans and boots and tshirts with no bra on and the ugliest ponytail you've ever seen