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Silly Slacker Person

@silly-slacker-person / silly-slacker-person.tumblr.com

Icon made by @desperado-raspado. White. Nonbinary (They/Them)
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every time i have a manic episode i blow like $500 on supplies for some random activity like yes this will be the hobby that saves me

PSA ! if u search 'hobby swap' 'neurodivergent hobby swap' or 'adhd hobby swap' on facebook there are tons of groups where u can trade supplies from ur old abandoned hyperfixation hobbies so they don't go to waste

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Check the notes of any post about hating men for a free blocklist, because I guarantee you it's choc full of TERFs.

You really can't rely on Shinigami Eyes alone to spot TERFs. A TERF doesn't get marked for everyone on Shinigami Eyes until several users flag them and the page gets reviewed. It's not automatic and it's not universal so you should learn to spot dogwhistles too.

Does she define her feminism by hatred rather than equality and liberation? She's probably a TERF.

Do all her discussions of gender frame it as a rivalry in which men are the aggressors? She's probably a TERF.

Is she particularly gleeful about hating men? She's probably a TERF.

Does she frequently reblog from other TERFs? She's probably a TERF.

Does she treat femininity and womanhood as some kind of monolith rather than a diverse spectrum of experiences? She's probably a TERF.

Similarly, does she routinely paint men with the same broad strokes of suspicion and hatred? She's probably a TERF.

Does she center biology and anatomy in her so-called "feminist" language, including a weird focus on vaginas and uteruses? She's probably a TERF.

TERFs are frequently loud and proud of being ~difficult~ women, or regard themselves as some kind of warrior. Their language will speak of female dominance or separatism rather than empowerment or equality. That's not universal, but I always check their posts if I see that kind of attitude right off the bat from the username, title, description, or the imagery of the banner or PFP.

Keep an eye out for terms like "gender critical", "misandry" (which while not a real form of oppression has been claimed by TERFs as an attitude to celebrate), talking about women as "goddesses" or other female-mysticizing type language. Obviously watch out for the word "rad" or "radical" even if separate from the word "feminist." They may try to bury the "rad" in their name or description in another word.

TERFs also frequently use the labrys or "battleaxe" lesbian flag, and you can learn a bit about that here. Again, these aren't universal signals but they're things to look out for and double-check.

You should also block the "radblr" and "radfem" and "radfem safe" hashtags, and if posts blocked under those tags show up frequently on her blog? She's probably a TERF!

TERFs don't actually care about feminism. They want superiority. Superiority not just for cis women, but for the particular brand of cis white woman they represent and are willing to trample anyone who doesn't fit their perfect framework of cis white femininity.

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yeah yeah girlcock this girlcock that, but are you sitting next to her on the couch when you dont want to fuck her? are you holding her in platonic comfort when shes sad? are you grabbing her by the wrist at the function so she doesnt get separated from the rest of the girls? are you helping her zip up her dress? is she invited to girls night?

are you doing it when you don't want to fuck her? when she's not your girlfriend or your type or hot or skinny or goofy? are you doing it when she's just your friend?

are you treating her like Just Some Chick? the one who you're Not in love with but just like in a normal way?

are you being a girl friend to her when she's just a girl and a friend? when the thought doesn't make you have couvidh?

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SO UMMM there may be a new glitch that deletes blogs??????? @tizzymcwizzy just saved a draft and when the page reloaded it said her blog was terminated 😰

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tizzymcwizzy

IM BACK!!

they told me my blog was marked as spam by an automated system so i really have no idea what happened

i was just on my phone and i saved a draft then went back to my dash and it told me i was logged out, and then when i tried to log back in it said my account was terminated

thank god it's fixed tho,, im gonna start archiving my shit.....

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This is breaking containment into the TERF enclosures which I very much expected, but I will happily shout from the rooftops that furry porn artists are more productive and beneficial to society than JKR’s incessant whining on the elon musk dick riding app about how much she hates trans people

1439 votes but 288 reblogs because the TERFs are afraid of the truth so they're just linking it directly to each other lmao

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You can donate to the Palestine Children's Relief Fund for as little as $1.00.

There is a fee you can choose to apply to cover processing.

Which if you choose to do leaves you with a total of ~$1.35 (USD) depending on the type of card you have.

PCRF has a score of 97% on Charity Navigator.

Adults and children alike are currently dying in Palestine due to starvation. (World Health Organization Link)

The Gaza Strip is one of two places in the entire world that is categorized as Phase 5 (the highest phase) on the Integrated Food Security Phase Classification scale.

So even if you think it isn't enough, remember that donating even as little as $1.35 helps! It's $1.35 they wouldn't have had otherwise. So donate if you can. 🇵🇸

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demilypyro

Ok wait let her speak

Please give evidence beyond “I hate them” or “I like sleeping in” or “I have to get up early”, none of which is actual evidence

Signed

an actual morning person

Night person who needs to see a doctor/get your car worked on/go to the bank/buy groceries, etc? You're gonna have to sacrifice sleep for it. Because for some reason it was decided that most places of business should open in the morning and close in the evening. Fewer and fewer places are 24/7. Wanna go for a nice stroll in the park? Tough shit, they close at sundown. Hell, want to just go for a walk in general? Fair chance of being harassed by the cops because being out and about in the dark is "suspicious" behavior. Want something that's not fast food and don't want to/can't cook for yourself? Best we can do is a diner like Denny's or IHOP. Got a loved one in the hospital you want to visit between work and sleep? Either gotta get up early or stay up late to meet visiting hours.

And let's not forget, no matter how little you actually sleep and how much you actually get done, if you're not awake during certain hours it means you're a lazy good-for-nothing. Express a desire for more places open 24/7? Selfish and entitled. Complain about how noisy your neighbors are during your sleep hours? Well you can't expect the world to tiptoe around you. But also you'd better keep it down at night because other people are sleeping!

But don't worry! There are plenty of guides on how to "fix" your sleep schedule out there! You just have to follow a strict, often disruptive routine that you can never stray from even a little or else you'll fall back to your natural sleep schedule lazy, undisciplined ways.

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doomhamster

And at that, good luck finding a job that doesn't expect you to be in by 9 AM at the latest. Which means getting up at 7:30 AM at the latest, earlier if you have a commute. Which means getting to bed at 11:30 PM at the latest.

Which means night owls have a straight choice between self-employment/freelance work, with all its insecurities, or constant self-torture. (Oh yeah, sleep deprivation does count as torture, per the UN.)

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