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@lefancytuna / lefancytuna.tumblr.com

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powerburial

just realized you don’t need to say 6am or 6pm. we already know the m is there so just write like 6a or 6p. can’t believe no one figured this trick out before.

or you could do the easy thing and say 0600 and 1800

yeah like adding a bunch of unnecessary zeroes is easy. you piece of shit. you fucking coward

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1eos

'this book has gay rep' girl the us army got gay rep now you gone have to do better 😭😭😭😭

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gonzoguy

the day that tumblr learns that it isn’t progressive whatsoever to shame people for being attracted to men is the day the world heals. there’s nothing progressive about shaming gay and bisexual men using homophobic tactics and spreading biphobia toward bisexual women.

you know what? shaming straight women for liking men isn’t cute either. i genuinely hope that every straight girl has a fulfilling and happy relationship. when you put the blame on women for even dating “grrr evil men” in the first place you ignore the amount of abuse that women face in relationships and you excuse the men who are misogynistic and pieces of shit by emphasizing the idea that it’s normal for men to treat women like garbage.

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Some things it is A-OK to say to your doctor:

  • No
  • Wait
  • Stop 
  • (These are full sentences! You do not need to say any more) 
  • I am not comfortable. 
  • I am not comfortable, I would like… 
  • you to wait a moment.
  • another person in the room. 
  • everyone else out of the room. 
  • a doctor/nurse of my same gender to preform this test/procedure. 
  • the person who came with me to this appointment in the room. 
  • you to explain everything before you begin. 
  • you to tell me what you are doing as you go. 
  • to do this another day. 
  • I want to get a second opinion before we proceed.
  • I don’t understand, please repeat that. 
  • I don’t understand, please explain more simply. 
  • Please say that slower/spell that, I want to do some research myself.
  • I would like to talk to [someone in my life, ie my parents to SO] before making this decision. 
  • No, I do not need to talk to [anyone] before making this decision, I am confidant on my own and am ready to proceed. 
  • What are the side effects of this medication/procedure? What are the potential complications? 
  • Why are you recommending/prescribing this specific thing? 
  • What other treatment options are there? Why are you choosing this?
  • Would your treatment plan be different if I were a man/woman older/younger had kids, etc? Why are you choosing this one then?
  • IS there anything I should know about this treatment you have not yet told me?  
  • I understand you say not to, but If I choose to do X, against medical advice, what risks am I running? (ie taking recreational drugs while on medication)
  • How much will this cost? 
  • Are there any less expensive options/tests we can run first? 
  • Is there a generic of this medication you can prescribe instead?
  • I think you are not understanding me, I said…
  • You are not listening to me, please let me finish describing my symptoms. 
  • You are not understanding how much pain I am in, let me clarify… 
  • I do not think it is anxiety/depression/my weight/etc, what else could it potentially be? 
  • I think by assuming it is anxiety/depression/my weight/etc you are ignoring some symptoms. Please listen again and let’s discuss what else it could be. 
  • Please write in my chart that you are not testing for X and why not. 
  • I am in enough pain/this is detrimental enough to my life that non-treatment is not an option. If you can not treat this/figure out what is wrong, to whom can you refer me?
  • Please write (or help me write) a summary of what we did today so I don’t forget 
  • What are our next steps? 
  • If [what you are recommending] is ineffective, what would my next steps be? What other doctor should I talk to? 
  • What is the best way to contact you if I have additional questions or issues? 

Remember, a doctor is a person YOU pay because they know a lot about bodies in general, to help you figure out whats best for YOUR body. It is still your body, not theirs! They know about medicine but you are the expert in your body. Don’t let them act like they own you. Don’t leave if you’ve still got questions, don’t stay if you’re uncomfortable, and feel free to insist on ANY information you want. 

ask questions, advocate for yourself. Be aware!!

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candiikismet

Y’all don’t understand how important this is. In this last month I’ve had to pull out every one of these. And it’s no joke, you have to be alert and active in your care at allllll times.

Also:

“No I would not like to be weighed today.”

“Please face me away from the scale.”

“please document your refusal of treatment”

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usamirenko
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  •  nourishes it
  • keeps it warm
  • fills it with love
  • fills it with rice
  • refills sanity bar
  • grants it a blessing
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Pretty impressive that America has been at war for 20 fucking years and yet there have been essentially no anti-war films out of supposedly liberal Hollywood because it’s effectively impossible to make war movies without the consent of the US Military who only want to be depicted with jingoistic favourability.

…and no, “killing your children made our soldiers sad” flicks don’t count

There is actually a Director of Entertainment Media at the Pentagon and the US military will literally read scripts and only support the ones that portray them in a way they approve of. They will provide financial support, allow no-cost use of bases, weapons, military personnel as extras, etc. But they will also literally not cooperate and force rewrites if they don’t like anything. They’re literally controlling how the average person views the military.

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