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EDWIN ZEE

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Transition Lenses

“Would you like transition lenses?”

Every time I go to the optometrist to get new glasses I get asked this question and every time I would respond, “No, thank you.” But after 10 years of declining, I finally relented this past visit and said, “Yes.”

This isn’t my first time getting transition lenses. 10 years ago, when I first was prescribed glasses, I also agreed. It seemed like a good idea at the time: the ability to see things both inside and outside despite having high astigmatism.

Unfortunately, I found transition lenses to be more inconvenient than helpful. While they transitioned into sunglasses quickly enough when I stepped outside, it could take almost a half-hour for them to revert back to eyeglasses after coming back inside. I always felt awkward presenting in meetings after lunch while my glasses were halfway between sunglasses and eyeglasses. I also found that there were certain times where it was dark outside but UV rays were still present, which would again cause my lenses to tint.

Overall, they made me feel self-conscious so when it was time to get a new pair of glasses, I opted to pass on transition lenses. I’d always hear how the technology was getting better, but I found a better solution: I would get both prescription eyeglasses and sunglasses. Problem solved, right?

Well, yes and no. While it was great to have normal eyewear for indoor settings and sunglasses for outdoors, I found two issues to this new approach. First, it’s expensive to invest in both eyeglasses and sunglasses. Not only do you have to purchase two sets of frames, but every time your prescription is updated, you now have two sets of lenses to update. However, vision insurance typically only covers one set of lenses per calendar year so every year I would alternate what lenses got updated, which meant always having a mismatched set of prescription eyewear.

Second, owning eyeglasses and sunglasses also means having to carry one while wearing the other. While this might seem like a trivial inconvenience, for someone who loses things a lot like myself, it means an increased opportunity to lose a pair, which I have unfortunately done on a few occasions.

In the end, I found myself not wearing sunglasses a lot. My mom would often call and tell me that I should wear my sunglasses more, but I’m a grown adult, right?

Wrong. Always listen to your mother. On one of my latest visits to my optometrist, I was told I had developed an ocular condition called pterygium, which is also sometimes called “Surfer’s Eye.” The condition is relatively harmless and starts off as a small growth called a pinguecula, which develops when the eye is exposed to wind and UV rays. The pinguecula will continue to grow to protect the eye from UV rays where it will eventually enter the iris and try to cover your pupil, thus turning into a pterygium. Surfers often develop this condition due to their exposure to the sun while surfing. Shamefully, I am not a cool surfer but just a lazy guy who didn’t like to carry around sunglasses.

Unfortunately, a pterygium is not curable. The only thing you can do is wear sunglasses to prevent additional UV exposure to your eye to stop the growth from growing, which brings me back to the optometrist and my decision to get transition lenses.

Originally, I was planning on updating the prescription on an old pair of sunglasses when I saw a photo of my friend Peter on Instagram. I enjoyed his whole outfit but was really drawn to his glasses, which I thought had smoked lenses. It was to my surprise to discover that they were actually transition lenses. Inspired (or I suppose I should say influenced) by this photo, I decided to give transition lenses another go.

Tips for transition lenses

I think the biggest trick to pulling off transition lenses is that you want to choose a frame that would make a good pair of sunglasses rather than optical. I’ve noticed that people tend to pick bigger and bolder frames for sunglasses compared to what they would use for eyeglasses. For my choice, I went with a pair of Molino 55s in Havana from Jacques Marie Mage. I’m a fan of “wayfarer” type frames and opted for the Havana color scheme to take a break from my usual choice in black eyewear.

And surprise! The optometrist was right. Transition technology has gotten a lot better in the past 10 years. In fact, I was surprised at how fast my lenses transitioned from sunglasses to eyeglasses that it took me several attempts to take the sunglass photo you see above.

So there you have it. Transition lenses are fast now, so don’t be afraid to try them out. And make sure you listen to your optometrist and more importantly, make sure you listen to your mom.

This is my Popo

This is my Popo (婆婆).

Popo is 96 years old and loves to eat, laugh, and watch Chinese soap operas. She grew up in China and lived in Hong Kong and eventually set roots in San Francisco. A while ago, Popo had a bad fall so my parents thought it would be safer if she moved to Sacramento and lived with them.

People have asked me how I’m doing with all the violence that’s happening towards Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders. In all honesty, it’s hard to set aside time to process it. It’s challenging enough working a full time job while raising two kids in the middle of global pandemic.

But when I do have a moment to reflect, I think about my Popo. I imagine what it would be like if she were still living in San Francisco. Where in the past few months, she could have been punched in the face or shoved violently to the ground for no reason other than existing.

And when I think about that, I get both sad and mad. I feel so sad that for the victims that must endure this pain and suffering and get reduced to tears. And I get so mad that someone could be so cruel to prey on someone so vulnerable and unable to defend themselves.

Lately, there are new stories about incidents where bystanders do nothing to intervene. I get upset reading and watching these, but also know that I don’t know why people chose not to help. However, even if you’re afraid for your own safety, there are still things you can do to reduce the trauma the victim experiences.

But most importantly, please remember that if you ever see and elderly Asian person who’s being harassed or assaulted and no one is doing anything, that person could be someone’s parent, grandparent, friend, or neighbor. This is my Popo - my grandma and my children’s great grandma. If she were in trouble, I would help in a heartbeat. But if I weren’t there, would you do it for me?

A Funny Thing About Algorithms

Lately, I’ve been amused by the people who appear in my Facebook friend suggestions. Among the coworkers and people I went to high school with, Facebook has started to recommend celebrities.

“Surely you must know Will Forte, Edwin.” Facebook says. “You have 7 mutual friends.”

I assure you I don’t. But that doesn’t stop Facebook. Every day a new celebrity appears.

Why does Facebook want these friendships to be forged so bad? What’s at stake for you, Zuckerberg?

Some might say that these Facebook accounts aren’t actually profiles. They’ll suggest that these celebrities created these profiles to use as fan pages before Facebook had official Fan Pages and simply accepted any friend request.

But I know the truth: Facebook wants to see which suggestion I finally try to add and then for the next three years, I’ll have nothing but Tim Meadow advertisements on Instagram.

Nice try, Facebook. This is why I use you only for marketplace.

The 10 Stages of Grief Over a Hole in Your Sweater (or How I Learned How To to Darn)

I noticed a small hole in my sweater the other day. I would have passed it off as a snag, if it weren't for the fact that there was  another hole right beside it.

Oh no. Moths.

My heart sank as I looked through my sweater drawer and discovered that moths have turned it into a buffet.

The most helpful thing you can do to prevent moths is to wash your clothes before storing them. My problem is that Bay Area weather is unpredictable. You can have 50 degree weather in July and 90 degree weather in October. As a result, I tend to wear most clothes year-round. When the cold weather finally stopped, I forgot to wash my sweaters before storing them, which led to mine and literally my sweaters’ undoing.

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How To Get A Mirror Shine On Your Shoes

You know that shoe care is important. You bought shoe trees and polish and are ready to put in some TLC. So how do you get that coveted mirror shine?

It can take as long as five hours of precise wax and water application before a shine appears, which makes it an exercise in patience and dedication. This sounds like a rewarding experience for someone who has free time on their hands. But as a new father, sometimes I don't have time to use the bathroom. Spending hours polishing a single pair of shoes isn't realistic.

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