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Henri Manguin (French, 1874-1949) • Les Oliviers à Cavalière • 1906 • Sotheby's

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theambitiouswoman

The wrong people in your life will teach you how to do everything all by yourself. The right people will know you can, but will still help you so you don’t have to.

You do not have to do everything. Just because you can does not mean you should. It is okay to let people help you.

I can do absolutely everything on my own. I’ve built everything on my own. I had a lot of bad people in my past that forced me into that position.

It left me hurt. Defensive. Angry and tired.

If you read my posts you know that this is not conducive to happiness or a positive driver to confidence.

Change started when I realized that they were the wrong people. And when I decided to take accountability for the role I played in that dynamic. When I forgave myself for those experiences and when I stopped living life on hurt mode from past experiences. When I learned to choose better people, and expect better of people. When I stopped holding on to negative dynamics and knew that it wasn’t good for me so I let them go without guilt or fear of loss. Because I knew I deserved better for myself.

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40 Tips For Becoming More Disciplined 📌💡🚀📝

Know what you want to achieve soon and in the future. This helps you know where to go and stay motivated.
Do the most important things first to save time and energy.
Have a daily plan that includes work, rest, exercise, and learning.
Make big tasks smaller so they're not scary, and you can see progress.
Use methods like the Pomodoro Technique (working for a while, then resting) or blocking time to get more done.
Notice when you're avoiding work and make yourself start.
Control yourself from getting distracted or doing things just for fun.
Say no politely when you can't do more things without getting stressed.
Stay healthy by eating well, exercising, and sleeping enough.
Keep learning by reading, taking classes, or trying new things.
Check how you're doing with your goals and change plans if needed.
Tell a friend or mentor your goals so they can help you stay on track.
Keep your spaces tidy to help you focus better.
Learning discipline takes time, and it's okay if things don't go perfectly.
Think good thoughts about yourself instead of bad ones.
Imagine doing well to get motivated.
Mistakes are chances to learn, not reasons to give up.
Be happy about even small successes to stay positive.
Listen to advice from others to get better.
Be ready to change your plans but keep your main goals.
Try mindfulness to concentrate, be calm, and know yourself better.
Write about your progress and plans in a journal.
Turn off things like social media when you work or study.
Think about things you're thankful for to stay happy.
Do quick tasks right away instead of waiting.
Spend time with people who help you and make you want to be better.
Let others do tasks that you don't need to do, so you can focus.
Get better at handling problems without giving up.
Picture doing well to stay motivated.
Drink water to think clearly and stay healthy.
Have a special place to work or study to help you focus.
Wait for bigger rewards instead of quick ones.
Keep things simple, both around you and in your mind, so you can concentrate.
Listen to advice without feeling bad about yourself.
Use apps and tools to manage your tasks and time.
Reading helps you learn and think better.
Decide what's good enough for you and stick to it.
Believe you can get smarter and better with practice.
Do creative things to stay imaginative and interested.
Listen carefully to others to be better at talking and understanding.