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just enough of a bastard

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gray | they/them | age: early thirties | white
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hungwy

we dont even get 9/11 off of work. like i guess you were never THAT sad about it

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funeral

Guattari’s idea is both refreshing and profound. He suggests that when a person experiences psychosis, her psychosis changes according to her surroundings, and, therefore, treating her with fear by locking her up, keeping her in restraints, overmedicating her, and exposing her to other methods of suppression only serves to change her psychosis to a psychosis of fear and paranoia. Who, psychotic or not, in the same situation wouldn’t also feel terror and paranoia? Indeed, there is a legitimate reason to be paranoid and afraid. Further, the shock of being treated inhumanly, the sense of alienation and of betrayal, and, perhaps paramountly, the realization that humans can and do treat other humans in this way, is itself shocking and traumatizing. It is a shock and trauma that alters the psyche, changing the personality of the person who undergoes it.

Cynthia CruzDisquieting: Essays on Silence

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Content warning for this article-- sympathetic and glorifying coverage of psychiatric abuse; systemic classism and racism

I remember seeing someone share this article when it came out with basically the same attitude as the author, and being horrified but not surprised reading through it. Descriptions of "dressing strangely" used as if they are supposed to scare and threaten the audience (which is the Seattle middle class, so, on target I suppose.) What got me most is the paranoid schizophrenic not getting better and refusing to take his meds...when someone paid by the fucking government is constantly showing up at his house trying to get him to take them.

It's called Assertive Community Treatment, or ACT nursing, and it's enough to get ANYONE in a tinfoil hat--psych nurses who's entire job is to track down, monitor, and push medication on impoverished and homeless people. When city governments talk about expanding mental health resources for the homeless, THIS is what they mean.

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stuckinapril

lol i hate today’s era of absolutely zero nuance takes. a friend didn’t behave exactly as you’d wanted them to? cut them off. a guy didn’t text you back instantly bc he has his own life? he’s just giving you breadcrumbs. doing something makes you uncomfortable? don’t do it anymore. someone isn’t instantly available for you? disinterest. just absolutist statements that often don’t apply to the multilayer situations of everyday life. like. stop. literally just stop it

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one of the most infuriating things about becoming an adult is when you realize that it actually is 10x easier to solve problems by making a phone call vs literally any other communication method

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weirdbertha

yall (meaning The State of Tumblr) are so so so weird about reading comprehension difficulties. like so fucking weird. do you know how common they are and how much shame people feel about them? seriously. yall go on and on about how not being able to do such and such is not a moral failing, except when we're talking about reading comprehension. get over yourself!

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g4yr4t

I've been working a job where I specifically teach reading on the page and reading comprehension for about seven years now. the kids (and sometimes adults) that I work with are mostly autistic and/or have learning/developmental/intellectual disabilities. they are not bad people for having low reading comprehension. in general, they're not even the people you're arguing with online! and if they are, it's generally not because of their low reading comprehension. like, if you genuinely think that a person has a problem with reading comprehension, maybe don't be an asshole about it. I - an autistic person who has always been good at reading - am not better than my students with low reading comprehension. you're not better than them, either. you're just finding a new way to call people the r-slur, and it's not cool.

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Anonymous asked:

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Ok but like. What the fuck is there to do on the internet anymore?

Idk when I was younger, you could just go and go and find exciting new websites full of whatever cool things you wanted to explore. An overabundance of ways to occupy your time online.

Now, it's just... Social media. That's it. Social media and news sites. And I'm tired of social media and I'm tired of the news.

Am I just like completely inept at finding new things or has the internet just fallen apart that much with the problems of SEO and web 3.0 turning everything into a same-site prison?

Long collection of resources under the cut.

ALSO you should consider browsing Virtual Pet List and seeing if there are any pet sites you might be interested in playing. There is a whole genre of browser games right under your nose

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biothreads

Another one that I just found recently is this, which is a whole collection of blogs, organized by topic!

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weirdbertha

yall (meaning The State of Tumblr) are so so so weird about reading comprehension difficulties. like so fucking weird. do you know how common they are and how much shame people feel about them? seriously. yall go on and on about how not being able to do such and such is not a moral failing, except when we're talking about reading comprehension. get over yourself!

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the songs Beyoncé writes about that man are crazy it's like watching someone build the sistine chapel for a possum they found in a gas station parking lot

having received a lot of feedback about this post in the last 24 hours I've realized that everyone is right and I genuinely do need to apologize. possums are lovely creatures and they don't deserve to be compared to Jay Z, that was a deeply uncool thing of me to say. I'm sorry possums, I love the way you eat ticks and I hope you'll forgive me someday.

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