from is there a sixth language of love? 

I love that the culture is shifting from the holidays being full of mandatory, uncomfortable, sometimes unbearable, family functions— to having an active hand in who you choose to celebrate with. I am glad to see a growing normalization of ‘Friendsgiving,’ sharing space with just one other special person, or even spending holidays alone, relaxing. All of these are acceptable options.

Spend time with people who love and respect you, even if that person is yourself.

Here to remind you that doing your best does not mean pushing yourself to your limits. There are times where we’re met with objectives that we were unable to accomolish despite having “done our best” … which usually means that we’ve pushed ourselves to our limits and have perhaps even exceeded them. This practice is harmful and unfair to yourself. When I say, “I did my best,” I do not mean that I pushed myself excessively or that I ignored my limitations. It means that I did everything I could do, excluding anything that could have jeopardized my mental health and emotional stability. Too often, do we feel that we didn’t do “enough” because we didn’t reach our breaking points whilst fulfilling an objective. This way of thinking usually arises when we fail at tasks, it is violent thinking that needs to be unlearned. You shouldn’t have to break yourself.

Keanu Reeves-1990 By Matthew rolston

The recipe: half an onion and a clove of garlic

Me:

*sees the same post 10 times because all the gays fuckin follow each other*

This is gay culture

It’s 5AM and I’m turning up…….. the oven to 425 to make some pizza rolls

an exact description of my experience on this site

— David Richo, How to Be an Adult (via oaluz)

how can I get payed for being gay and oversharing because those are my only skills

slam poetry

i’m also uncreative and can’t rhyme what do i do in that case

Slam poetry