ya feel

Chanel | Fall/Winter 2018 Couture

I just can’t be with someone who isn’t fun. I need goofiness and the unusual to keep me going.

i live for older girls who take care of you and give you advice on weird things w/o judging bc they’ve experienced it and are just so warm. my only goal in life is to be that for others one day

Why do people say their worst nightmare is “having all girls”…? Like could your misogyny be any more obvious ?

oh Jeeze i have a story

my dad went to my sister’s cheerleading game and he meets an old friend

they talk about their kids. dad’s friend asks, “so..do you only have all girls?”

dad nods, and the old friend makes a grimace sayin “eugh….” as if it was disgusting to have 3 daughters and no sons. funny how just little things like that remind me that im worth less than if i was born a son. i wanted to fight his disgusting ass cuz he had a daughter.

Ugh or when they say “I’m sorry! You poor guy!” And then people wonder why girls and women hate themselves…

Yeah dude. In psychology the other day a bunch of dudes and this one girl were talking about how they would absolutely hate having a girl because they are dramatic and difficult to raise and just basically unreasonable creatures. So yeah, anyone who says shit like that is disgusting.

And it’s like… Parents are the ones who raise their daughters off of misogyny so it’s like… DUH she’s not gonna turn out like YOU wanted.. It’s ur own damn fault.

Parents who have only sons are far more likely to wind up alone and destitute in their old age.  But, yes, girls are such a burden.

Last night I heard my mom say, “If I was born a boy, there are three things I definitely would have done. I would have been a baseball player, a runner, or a boxer”. This is how the society we live in makes us feel. Whether you’re a child or a grown woman, patriarchy and misogyny makes you feel that being female isn’t enough and will never be enough.

My father has 4 daughters and always tells this to every stranger willing to listen and how we are the reason for his grey hair. Very nice, like WE collectively decided to be born and to be born as women, not HIM making 4 kids with two women…

this reminds me how my dad who was very progressive still believed a woman couldn’t be president of the U.S. cause she wouldn’t be able to deal with war situations….for some reason. he’s dead now so i can’t ask him about it but it was the first time i realized I was seen as less capable mentally then men. i also remember a teacher laughing at me saying I’d be the first female president, but I just thought she laughed cause someone would be first before me not cause it’s funny a woman would be president of the US. 

I’ve had my dad tell me him and my mom wanted three kids but didn’t want to “risk” having another girl.. I had a doctor laugh and tell me the reason my dad goes out and plays golf for hours everyday is because he wants to get away from a house full of women.. Not like that’s basically telling me he’d really only want to spend time with me if I was a son or like that makes me feel like he doesn’t love me..

THIS SHOULD HAVE MORE NOTES BECAUSE ITS SO TRUE

My dad literally does may accept this shit and I’m SO GLAD that my dad is as great as he is. He has four girls and when people find that out they always go “poor guy” or “ugh that must be hard” and my dad always sets them straight. He always responds with “well at least I know my daughter has a better loving families than yours” or “I don’t know why having boys would be better. They’re my kids and I would have raised my boys the exact same way” and the others just shut up or chuckle nervously and walk away

my dad has been complaining about what a nightmare me and my sister are because of our “hormones” since we were about seven. I grew up before facebook, but my sister’s still going through it, and while she’s not allowed to have facebook, he posts photos of her, and any one where she’s not smiling, him and his friends make snide remarks about how pissy and moody she is (she’s 13), when I know from experience that particularly with women he likes to get photos by harassing you when you’re busy or not in the mood so that you take a bad photo (he enjoys the idea of embarrassing people, and obviously for a woman that must be people seeing bad photos of you). Whenever I’ve worked for him, he introduces me to his fucking clients as “my incredibly moody eldest daughter”.

the worst there is when they accuse youof being unreasonable, moody and bitchy, u cannot defend urself. bc every defense will be not listened to and shut down with “haha yea ur just bitchy lol” thats such an obvious way men try to get away from listening to us so they can further do whatever they want to without having to care about our feelings.

when my sister died and my brother was born 10 months later, someone at my church told my dad “God took your little girl so he could finally give you a little boy”

Anyone who thinks the sexes aren’t socialized differently and girls aren’t blatantly told they’re inferior isn’t paying attention.

this was our pupper the first time we put his booties on him.

I love him

DRESSAGE

whunt L’FUCKE have u done of mine PAWSE

I love when my friends close their eyes and put their heads on my shoulder.. rest bitch