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Metropolitan Museum of Art Met Gala, New York (May 2, 2016) ~ The back of Claire Danes’ lit up gown on the red carpet.

http://million-dollar-goals.tumblr.com/

I’ve been waiting all year for this

can u imagine coming to cal layin in bed half asleep watching something on netflix on the tv and he’ll see you and smile and be like ‘hey baby how are you? i missed you’ and smiling real big when u say youre good and climb into bed next to him and he wraps you up in his arms and promises youre not leaving for another 24 hours

ryan reynolds’ tweets about his daughter are my absolute favorite

me as a parent

if a guy is hitting on u and he is clearly the alpha in his group of guys.. go for the third in command and undermine their whole power structure

Oh god, I used this tactic so often. Because in most cases I was trying to pull dudes for my friends, rather than myself. You figure out who their leader is, go for #3 or #4 in the group, who is generally much cuter and a bit more shy. This is why he ranks high, but not too high. You go hard on this dude. You hold his hand and smile at him. You don’t even have to go further. Dude #3 is just bewildered you brushed off #1. This makes the dude at the top antsy. It causes dissent in the ranks. Your friends can now swoop in, picking from the remaining dudes as they start to scatter in the wind. They have lost all sense of self. You have secured free drinks for the rest of the night. And whatever else your genitals desire.

“It’s not our clothes you don’t respect, it’s us”

Boom

i’m mostly posting this as a reminder to myself, but i think other men struggling with body image or people who are dysphoric about their hips can benefit from seeing this too.

this is part of a body positivity campaign launched by clothing company dressman called #justthewayyouare and if you click that link there’s more body types being represented in their ads.

i have never seen any body positivity for men like this before, marketing ploy or not it DOES help me seeing my body type (wide hips and chub and all) being represented in a public space like this, especially with the word “perfect” attached to it.

i’ve came back to this picture for a while now as a reminder that my body is a valid body, and i hope it will help someone else too.

(credits to @oneflewovergeorgieboysnest for taking this picture and putting it on facebook)

This is important.

For mah dudes

Because men need body positivity too

Signal boost cause all you gents need to be happy in your skin too okay?

so when my agent and manager called they said, ‘you’ve been offered this thing on the walking dead. It’s to play a big bad.’ and at that time they didn’t know the character’s name ‘cause i think it was supposed to be a secret. and I’m like, ‘is it fuckin’ negan?’ and they’re like, ‘i don’t know, we’re gonna have to call you back. hang on a second.’ and i’m like, ’no, it’s fuckin’ negan. and i’m fuckin’ doing it.’

What did we do to deserve him?