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right now you might be in a situation that you think you won’t survive but six months ago you were in a situation that you didn’t think you’d survive and two years before that you were in a situation you didn’t think you’d survive and the point is you will always surprise yourself and you will always make it through
thinkin abt how yongguk’s contract ended 5 months ago and he’s releasing his solo music now and he launched his own website and started a new company with friends and updated his twitter profile for it all… and he cut his bio down….. to “b.a.p leader prod”
My brother was diagnosed with depression years before I was, and because of that he started therapy years before I did.
I still remember when I was a young teen and he was playing a Nirvana song and he stopped it at this one line: “I miss the comfort of being sad”
He told me that when you start to get better, there’s a part of you that misses being sad and that if you start feeling that way you have to be extra extra aware and careful because if you indulge the feeling you’ll go down a self-destructive spiral
And even though that was years and years ago, I think about it all the time. Especially when I’m reading discourse on the idea of getting so attached to mental illness as an identity that you don’t want to improve things because you feel safe in it and don’t know who you are without it
I always think of that line “I miss the comfort of being sad” and my brother’s warning
I think one of the main reasons why my brain has been screaming “B.A.P we came from Hell” for the past week isn’t just that that line is Iconic but Also….. it’s kinda true, bap has been through hell a million times over and theyve come out of it every time and they’ll continue to come back no matter how many times the world tries to drag them back down there they will claw their way out of hell again and again just to release another certified bop
B.A.P we came from hell and we’ll keep coming back no matter how many times you send us down there
all i want for christmas is to see yoo youngjae’s drama
every day is a new day to cry over moon jongup’s existence
B.A.P x IG ( 10 | ~ )
Me: *shows basic human decency to cashier
Cashier: ??!?! Thank you! You’re the nicest person ever!
Me: are you ok
Reblog if politeness to retail and service workers is important to you.
honestly
2004 was such an iconic year in film. We had Mean Girls, Princess Diaries 2, Ella Enchanted, 13 Going On 30, A Cinderella Story, The Incredibles, Shrek 2, Prisoner of Azkaban, Spiderman 2, Napoleon Dynamite, White Chicks. Like 2004 really Did That™
Why don’t we discuss the vast amount of underaged dating within the LGBT community? We only crucify creepy men preying on young girls, but it doesn’t stop there.
For example:
I know of a couple that met when one was 15-16, and according to my calculations, that would make her partner at least 26 at the time they got together. Now, they receive a lot of praise on here but every time I saw their pix, I felt sick to my stomach.
Because we don’t talk about it, we young people walking around thinking this behaviour is okay.
I had a girl try to get at me one time who said she was 21 and ended up being 17. When I found out her real age I ceased communication and dead the shit immediately. She kept trying to contact me because she couldn’t wrap her mind around it…saying she was “grown” and that she’s “been with older women before,” like that makes it okay.
I’m in NO WAY blaming her…I blame all of us who see this shit going on and don’t speak up. When we see men seeking out younger women, we’re all up in arms and are quick to drag them. But when it’s a same-gender couple, why don’t we have the same reaction?
When I went to Pride I remember there was a girl in her 20s who thought I was cute and tried to flirt with me. When she asked my age and I said I was 17 she immediately backed off.
This is how people need to react to this shit. Stop flirting with minors when you’re an adult. Just because you’re gay doesn’t mean that it isn’t just as creepy as when college guys flirt with high school girls
may 2019 bring you your “i’m doing better than i ever was” moment
disney meme | 2 locations: San Fransokyo
What a legend
free my man santa
Throwback: Daehyun imitates Hyosung "B.A.P Kim Him Chan”
Bang Yongguk -
I don’t think he’d really care or think about much since you knew you were just shy and that eventually you’ll warm up to the guys on your own time and wouldn’t push you to get to know them or talk to them because he knew you how it took you time to feel comfortable around new people.
Kim Himchan -
A lot like Yongguk, he wouldn’t really mind and knew you’d come around eventually but might give you encouraging comments like “You’re doing well baby.” or similar stuff just so you don’t feel as pressured.
Jung Daehyun -
He’d try and make you more comfortable and tell that they won’t bit and not to be afraid. He might unintentionally come off as pushing but it’s only because he wants his significant other and his members to get along. However if you mention that his pushing is bugging you then he’d tone it down.
Yoo Youngjae -
Kind of like Daehyun when it comes to making you more comfortable and talk more but in a more encouraging way and not s pushy way. He’d know your limits and that you’d would eventually come around, he just want to make you feel more comfortable as you were coming around.
Moon Jongup -
Seeing as he’s pretty quiet himself he probably wouldn’t mind. He’d let the members before hand that your shy so they didn’t start asking a bunch of question or anything when you got there.
Choi Junhong \ Zelo -
He’d just be encouraging by answer the members when you couldn’t or just holding your hand when he noticed your nervousness. He’d also try to do moat of the talking so you wouldn’t have to.
