Ståle Sandbech high five
Torgeir Bergrem
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all of us have been unlearning problematic things - it’s really malicious and in bad faith to purposefully dig up old posts by someone that do not reflect their current opinions and attack them over it out of context
Go get rid of your old terrible posts then. If I eat something I don’t keep the wrapper around. I get rid of it.
I have nearly 50,000 posts on my Tumblr blog which I have been running since 2011. It is literally impossible for me to sift through all of that for every single “problematic” post just for fear of some jerk dredging up something I said eight years ago.
And honestly? I shouldn’t anyway. You can literally make the opposite argument: that it’s wrong to hide your past. If we all keep pretending that ideological purity is possible and erasing the journeys we’ve gone though to learn from mistakes and become better, more educated people I feel like that does more harm than good.
Anyway, your attitude is victim blaming. We should not normalize a culture of fear where everyone is desperate to hide their flaws because someone might start a harassment campaign against them. The solution is ending that culture, not saddling people with the burden of dealing with it.
life has been a major härdelli lately don't you think
A hurlumhei u could even say
a hulabaloo if you will
Why, it’s a right old hässäkkä
A proper häslinki, I'd say
what men call “logic” is really just a lack of empathy
why do i need to come out ? if you still think im straight then that's on you
Life sucks a lot of the time, but sometimes it’s magical. Sometimes you’re laughing with someone you love or laying in the sun or listening to your favorite song in the car. And for a moment, you’re suddenly so aware of why you’re still here and why everything was worth it.
You know what?
I am annoying sometimes.
And that’s okay. It’s not the death sentence I was led to believe. People will love me even if I can’t read their signals sometimes. Not understanding is forgivable. I don’t have to hold myself back so I don’t annoy anyone ever.
The people who love me know I get excited. And I am still loved.
Well shit
i love night walks. its such a shame im a woman
The biggest scam your brain is telling you is that everybody else is human and allowed to make mistakes but that you yourself have to be perfect and flawless to deserve their company
“Ehkä ois helpompaa olla, jos ajatukset ei ois hirmumyrskyjä vaan tähdenlentoja.”
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for someone who loves sleep, i do not sleep enough at all