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@gyagyagyaaa / gyagyagyaaa.tumblr.com

ぺるしゃ猫★アゲ嬢+オラギャル☆V系★Moran/ギャロ/Fatima/LuLu/DIAURA/DEZERT/MALISEND/amber bullet/DEAD END/D'ERLANGER/L'Arc~en~Ciel/MEABEL/バラライカ those are all the bands I give a fuck about basically
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OK PEACE OUT GOING BACK TO TWITTER tumblr is boring AND everyone that gives fuck about me is on twitter see u next yeAR TUMBLR

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LIVE: 00

TODAY

IS VELVET DOLL’S LIVE

EXCITED FOR MY BABIES

THEY ARE MY BABIES minus teddy he is not my baby at all

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@gyagyagyaaa said: if u think loki looks like a mess u shud have seen him in sugar aka when he was a visual chola

holy shit I didn’t even realize that was the same person

idk I liked his chola eyebrows it’s a distinct look

but yeah his makeup looked bad and there was way too much going on with his costume and his entire ass was out which he did not have the personality/stage presence to pull off

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gyagyagyaaa

More is just a boring ass Sugar without Sizna And I love Sugar but damn I almost fell asleep when I saw More lmao

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when u have unreliable visual gei bandmen friends and they fuck up ur entire life

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Moran Hitomi: tiny dick crazy person R-shitei: everyone hates them, go back to Fukuoka R-shitei Z: drunk scoundrel R-shitei Kaede: the worst murderer (in reference to forcing girls to get abortions) Kuroyuri: Kuroyume ripoff, rotten toilet (I don’t know?) Scapegoat: kusoban always on tanuki Gossip: no sub  Damy: no sub XaaXaa: Kansai kusoban -> Kansai awaited band (lol make up your minds) Shellmy: Kansai kusoban, mentally ill band Sadie Mao: nomikai regular smarmy old man Vistlip Yuh: looks like an alpaca Dezert: “buta” knock out, “sakana” stank breath + phimosis, music stealer band (if this makes no sense check out the last post on them) AvelCain: no sub Gallo: always on tanuki and a shitty fan is staff Royz Koudai: buckteeth, make sure you bring a condom Royz Tomoya: a piglet in Vuitton Royz Kazuki: knocked a girl up and is a dad Royz Subaru: goodlooking gorilla lynch. Hazuki: (I can’t actually figure out what this mean, it says he’s a “beautiful BH and so nice” but who the fuck knows what a BH is? big head? big heart?) Matenrou Opera: they should do whatever the hell they want NoGoD: no sub Plastic Tree: no sub (older subs seem to be inside jokes?)

Royz had me in tears tbh what a lulzy band

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Another woman utterly failed by our society’s devaluation of women’s reproductive health. We can’t wait around for male doctors to decide what we need to know. This is why we need to take control and educate ourselves about our own bodies.

and here’s some comments i saw under the post. why is this a pattern?? why is this a recurring theme?? why is this information not common knowledge? what the fuck are doctors doing??

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sora2522

This is news to me so let’s share it so people will know!

Gross tmi: but i passed a pretty big clot after having my daughter. It was about the size of a baseball. It actually hurt worse because while 15 hours of labor opened my cervix, i passed the clot in 30 minutes. I knew it was a possibility because of my midwife and reading, but everyone Ive told after this (mostly other pregnant women) were shocked that this could happen.

In our culture, it’s much more common to do deep research about what family cars we want to buy than we do about childbirth when we ’re pregnant.

Tmi: I passed a huge clot after birth in the bathroom of my hospital room and called the nurse sobbing because I didn’t know it was normal. She treated me like an idiot, but NO ONE told me it was a possibility. And the pain associated with healing for the first couple of weeks after birth was worse than the labor imo. Again, I had no idea. They didn’t tell me a thing besides “sitz bath regularly and change your pads.” Before discharging me from the hospital.

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evashandor

I was most definitely told about this in school. Fucking hell, 4-6 weeks of bleeding? My periods were/are bad enough, why the hell don’t we get told this?

I didn’t know it could last so long, wtf? Is the bleeding inevitable after birth? 

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rosietwiggs

Bleeding is inevitable after birth - your uterine wall is shedding a fuck ton of lining. It can last from three to six weeks (possible longer) and it tapers off.

More TMI - I passed a MASSIVE clot after my fourth birth. At this point I already knew this could happen - it’s normal. What I DIDN’T know, was that I had caused it.

My post birth contractions were so bad after the birth that it felt like full transition labor. And they don’t give you anything for the pain. So I used a hot water bottle, without the nurses knowing, and it caused me to bleed even more. I lost so much blood that by the first time they sat me up to go to the bathroom, I fainted. It took three more tries until I could sit up.

Anyway, that’s not the point. The point is, the next morning I passed a clot the SIZE OF ANOTHER PLACENTA I KID YOU NOT, and I know what is and is not normal. So I called for the nurse and through the door told her I had passed a huge clot, and her response was - “It’s not big. I know what big is.” She hadn’t even looked. So I rolled my eyes and said, “Yeah, no. It’s big, I’m telling you.”

So, sounding extremely put upon, she asked me to open the door. I did, and after a long pause she goes, “Okay, yeah, that’s a little big.”

YOU DON’T SAY.

The point I’m trying to get across is that this shit is so common - women not knowing this stuff is so expected, and it keeps getting reinforced. People don’t expect you to know anything, don’t teach you anything, and then make you feel like you’re totally ignorant and a burden for your lack of knowledge when THEY WON’T SHARE.

Fucking learn EVERYTHING you can when it comes to childbirth, girls. It is the single most empowering thing you can do for yourself. And if you missed something, that’s okay. But the more knowledge you arm yourself with, the more in control of your situation you’ll be.

A few post partum tips:

  • DON’T use a hot water bottle - lol.
  • ONLY pads - NO tampons. Tampons can cause severe infection, not to mention, you probably don’t want to be shoving anything up there any time soon.
  • If you’ve had stitches, sitz baths DO help relieve the pain. Another great pain reliever? Dampen some pads and freeze them. Let one thaw slightly and use it on top of another pad. This will help with the pain as well as reduce swelling. Change the pad out as soon as it’s thawed completely. This REALLY helps on the first couple days after giving birth.
  • If you pass a clot, don’t sweat it. Even the one I passed, which was fucking massive, just required that we keep an eye out to make sure it didn’t happen again. If it does, talk to your doctor.
  • Take a pain killer half an hour before nursing. Because YES - your uterus is contracting after you give birth, to get back to its original size, and nursing causes much stronger contractions. Taking nursing-safe painkillers won’t prevent the pain, but it will reduce it. 
  • Buy disposable underwear for the first few days after birth. They will get VERY dirty. Or use your ratty old pairs that you’re ready to get rid of. Double up on pads - line them all the way up your ass-crack. I am so serious. And wear dark pants.
  • Pee in the shower. You do NOT want to wipe down there right after birth because ow. Peeing in the shower lets you just rinse afterwards. Especially if you’ve had stitches, peeing in the shower, with the shower-head rinsing AS you go, keeps stinging to a minimum. And fuck everyone else - keep on peeing in the shower until you feel ready to move back to toilet paper. Middle of the night and need to pee? Get your pants off - get in the shower and just go.

This is just a few things, but PLEASE feel free to send me an ask if you have any questions about ANYTHING childbirth/pregnancy/nursing related. I have four incredible kids. I’ve done it all - c-section, vacuume birth, episiotimy, stitches, with an epidural, without an epidural. I’m here.

….I know I keep reblogging this but people keep adding super important information.

I feel like no one tells women this stuff because if a woman was even a little on the fence about having a baby before this would kinda make them run for the damn hills.

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kaxen

…..you are correct, typing.

300% EXTRA SURE I’M NOT HAVING BABIES. 

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petitedeath

peri bottles, witch hazel or anti-pain anticeptic spray are your friends. Also passing large clots after birth is a WARNING SIGN. Bigger than a half dollar is a sign that you have not passed your entire placenta (this is most common in hospital vaginal births where the mother is not allowed to naturally birth the placenta and instead has it ripped out by the doctor) if there is any placenta left in your uterus you can get extremely ill. This happened to both myself and my mother in law

WOW I didn’t know any of this and I’m terrified of what more I’m unaware of about my own body :( Honestly when will we fucking abolish this taboo about the female body…

I had pretty great sex ed in school (lots of contraceptive information, and totally acknowledged that teenagers might have sex) and all of this is news to me.

And, as a 28-year-old person with a uterus, I’m extremely appalled I’m just learning this.

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deanplease

Long, but very important information, even for those who don’t plan to have children, because you will almost certainly know someone who will, and you might be able to to help them. Or at least increase your level of empathy for them.

in the continuing spirit of encouraging tmi about uteri and vaginas

I have a terrible question I will regret. what… what is it like taking a shit after giving birth? is it bad. it’s bad isn’t it

I mean… if you give birth vaginally you’re probably going to shit while giving birth so… really all the shitting afterwards is nothing in comparison to that… haha

Seriously though shitting isn’t so bad unless you get constipated.

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