art takes hours to produce and seconds to consume so dont act suprised when artists get upset when their posts only get likes and no reblogs

similarly a piece of writing that takes a few minutes to read could have weeks of work behind it… dont take creativity for granted when ur getting it for free

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Upper Midwestern states (and lower Canada) are expected to be hit the worst by the projected polar vortex coming into the U.S. within the next week or so, so if you can, please donate to any homeless shelters in the states affected by it!

Here is the map of the states predicted to be hit by the vortex:

Most states near the great lakes are going to be hit the worst, with windchills thought to drop down below -20 to -30 degrees (with more northern states going so far as -40). That means a lot of homeless people are going to be facing either overcrowding in the shelters, or unsafe, sometimes life-threatening conditions on the streets.

Here are some charities & shelters to donate to in Ohio (my state). Feel free to add some for your state below, too. And don’t underestimate the help that spare blankets, coats, and other winter equipment you no longer use can be when given out as well.

Homeless Families Foundation (Columbus, OH): Website / Supplies Wishlist

Network of Hope (Columbus, OH): Website / Donate

Family Promise (Cleveland, OH): Website / Donate

Laura’s Home Women’s Crisis Center (Cleveland, OH): Website / Donate

Daybreak (runaway & homeless youth) (Dayton, OH): Website / Donate

Lighthouse Youth & Family Services (Cincinnati, OH): Website / Donate

Interfaith Hospitality (Cincinnati, OH): Website / Donate

Hey y’all this is important

don’t get a parrot because you couldn’t handle a cat or dog. birds aren’t disposable or easy to care for. in an idealized version of how we think of birds, sure; they sit in a little cage and sing and are happy. birds need to come out of the cage for tons of one on one time as well as time for flight and play. they need toys, they need specialized fresh diets, they need interaction. if you want an ‘easy’ pet please don’t get a parrot - even the “beginner” birds like budgies

A properly cared for budgie can live up to 20 years. The 8-ish year average lifespan is because most don’t get the diet and exercise they need, and end up dying early of fatty liver disease and other similar health problems. Budgies are a major commitment, same as any other parrot, and they deserve better than they usually get in the pet trade!

bad trans headcanon tropes to leave behind for 2018

Friendly but serious reminder to stay safe, FOR REAL, YES YOU ALL OF YOU in the eastern two-thirds of the United States who are getting hit with an arctic air mass this week. NOAA put out an alert calling it a “very dangerous and life-threatening arctic air mass;” this is for real.

I know from growing up in the cold that it can be Really Easy to assume you’ll be fine and not take proper precautions because it’s “just cold” and you’re used to it, but extreme cold affects the body in ways that even those of us who grew up with cold winters are not necessarily familiar with.

Extreme cold can be very dangerous–even if you’re physically healthy, even “just” outside in your own neighborhood, etc.

One of my (adult, not even elderly) relative’s feet got frostbite last winter from being outside too long in too cold weather (even though they were wearing socks and boots), and the thing is, frostbite is a type of injury to the skin that then lasts, so it still causes them pain. Sometimes we think of health risks in terms of very stark black-and-white life-threatening-or-not, but even cold that isn’t bad enough to kill you can cause long-lasting damage that will be a pain in the ass for a long time.

Elderly people in their homes during extreme cold are some of those most at risk, so check in with your elderly friends, neighbors or relatives.

Please stay safe out there <3 <3 <3

NOAA page on preparing for cold weather

NOAA’s list of things to have in your car:

NOAA page on hypothermia and frostbite prevention and first aid

“Frostbite can happen in minutes, especially on the extremities such as fingers, toes, nose and ears but can affect any area of exposed skin. If you suspect frostbite, immediately move inside to a heated location and begin warming the affected areas using warm water or body heat. Do not use hot water or radiant heat such as a fireplace since affected areas can be easily burned. Seek medical attention for severe frostbite.” More

“If your temperature is 96°F or less, you feel cold and sluggish, or are having trouble thinking clearly, see your doctor immediately or go to the nearest emergency room. It’s better to be overly cautious than to die of a disorder that doesn’t have to be deadly. If you are trying to help someone who may have hypothermia, first call an ambulance. Then lie close to the person and cover both of you with thick blankets. The hotter you get, the more warmth you can give the other person. Don’t rub the person or handle him or her roughly.” More

7 depression tips and why they work, from someone who’s been hardcore depressed for two years

hi so im recovering from a really mean depression and there are some things i learned and that i would like to tell you. 

1. you need to reappropriate your space and time. depression is lying to you and generally shrinks your living space (aka: you spend your time in bed/behind your computer/in your room…). visit and do something (even if its just scrolling down social media) in each room you have access to. expand your perception and space, you’ll breathe more easily.

2. plan depression outfits. a depression outfit is a comfy one you still can go out in. to me, it’s old ripped jeans and a turtleneck, my old work uniforms, sweaters. dressing up is one of the most important parts of managing depression. first of all, you’ll feel less like pathetic with proper clothes on (nothing worse than staying in your pj all day). secondly, and it’s a crucial point: it allows you to get out to run some errands. imagine you have to go grocery shopping or to the post office. if you’re in your unwashed pajamas you’ve been wearing for three days or more (been there done that) what you have to do is to undress, shower (if you can), and put on real, clean clothes. which is three things. depression messes wih one’s ability to start things, so it’s very likely you’ll drop your errands and just stay at home feeling like shit. but if you’re already wearing clothes, you just have to put on a coat and get out of the house. which is, trust me, 10 times easier than doing the whole dressing up thing.

3. it’s okay if you stay the whole day in bed but force yourself to get up in the morning (anytime before noon) and drink a glass of water/juice. again, depression messes up with your ability to start doing things, but if you concentrate your will to just get up and drink something before going back to bed, i promise you’ll feel less shitty and might actually end up getting up for good since you’ve been through the trouble of getting up. You’ll feel better (and also you need water!)

4. do one (1) physical, material thing that will improve your life conditions per day. aka: washing a single glass, scrubbing the mirror, etc. you’ll feel proud of yourself, and the tidiest your environment, the less shitty your brain will be. plus, again: if you manage to wash a single dish, maybe you’ll find yourself cleaning the whole kitchen without noticing. and thats a good thing. no pressure: just do one single thing. and don’t beat yourself up if you can’t, of course, but try, it’s gonna be better that way. 

5. open the window (especially at night, i personally find it very soothing) and just… breathe fresh air, looking at the horizon or closing your eyes, and breathe in and out slowly. it’s great to take fresh air. bonus if you have anxiety/ptsd, honestly. opening the windows is one of the easiest ways i know to stop a panic attack.

6. brush your teeth everyday, even if it’s the only thing you manage to do. i know every depression guide recommends it, but it’s really important. not showering for a few days is okay, you’re not gonna get sick that way. but dental hygiene is capital. not to mention you’ll feel less rotting in the inside if you’re less rotting in the outside. you can use your phone to schedule your teeth brushing of the day! really helps. 

7. think about your hobbies and force yourself to do something related to an old hobby of yours. i know it’s no fun. i know you can’t feel anything, so why bother? but really, do bother. do it and eventually as you recover it will be fun again. you haven’t lost your passion, your goals, your motivation. it’s still there, but depression is like a blanket that covers it all. forcing yourself to still act on your hobbies (especially if those are not screen-related: books, gardening, etc.) will help digging through the depression layers to expose your will to live again. trust me on this one. i really thought i was just an apathetic mess, but actually depression was just mean. i believe in you! 

and finally: hold tight and it’s gonna be okay! recovery is possible, and it’s gonna arrive sooner than you expect. energy and motivation are good things and they’re still around here waiting for you! 

feel free to add your own! you’re all gonna make it i promise.

The advice about dental care is really important. I’ve recovered from my depression, but I still have trouble remembering to brush my teeth because I got out of the habit while I was depressed.

2019 COMM GUIDE! thank you for all the follows last year everyone! i added a cheap 15 euro sketch option for anyone who would just like a small drawing!

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To: @ghost-renren

From: @shiyumi-neruka

Dear Ghost ren-ren, 

I was Secret Santa this year and I really hope you like your gift <3 I had lots of fun drawing it! I drew modern AU Dia and Phos hugging Cinnabar and Antarcticite in a group hug!

I hardly draw artworks with more than one person and this is my first time in a long time drawing something with four people, so I hope the composition turned out alright!

Have a Merry Christmas c:

From your Secret Santa,  

Shiyuka

My gift to @ghost-renren for this year’s HnK Secret Santa!! :D

To: @shiyumi-neruka

From: @gadridel

Here is my submission for the exchange! My giftee is @shiyumi-neruka , and I applied for the exchange as @gadridel. I will be posting this to my main blog (@gadridel again) and tagging you guys in the post! This is simply my confirmation to show that I am finished. 

Thank you to the mods for putting this on, this was fun and I’m glad I had the opportunity to participate ! 

Thank you so much for this gift!! I love how peaceful and content Phos and Cinnabar are with each other, it makes me so happy!!! <333 Cinnabar smiling while looking at Phos makes me so warm aaaaaaaaaahhhh!! Merry Christmas @gadridel , I hope you’re having/you had a great one!!! :DD

I lost the original meme this is based off of oops

Also! Reminder that Cinnaphos Week is in under a month!!

have you ever seen a gem so perfect u wanna cry

foggy day Jade