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I'm A Ruin

@chafeeeel-blog / chafeeeel-blog.tumblr.com

Female, usa, cancer patient.
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things i wish were in the HP movies but weren’t:

  • mcgonagall getting stunned 5 times to the chest and surviving
  • lupin and harry fighting at grimmauld place in DH
  • sirius singing “god bless ye merry hippogriffs”
  • peeves
  • firenze teaching divination in a classroom that looked like the forest
  • the entire scene at st. mungos
  • S.P.E.W.
  • ludo bagman and fred and george’s bet with him
  • lupin asking harry to be teddy’s godfather
  • percy coming back to his family
  • molly fighting the boggart and seeing her family and harry dead
  • lupin comforting her
  • lupin’s entire storyline after poa basically
  • rita skeeter being kept in a bottle
  • sybill trelawney’s alcoholism
  • all the time harry spent with sirius in ootp
  • house elves fighting in the battle of hogwarts
  • snape calling lily a mudblood
  • dumbledore’s backstory with his family and grindelwald
  • sirius giving harry the mirror
  • ginny dating dean
  • fred and george pranking dudley
  • harry’s conversation with dumbledore after sirius dies
  • potterwatch
  • tonks and remus’ relationship
  • tom riddle’s full backstory
  • tonks, moody, and lupin seeing harry off at the train station
  • lupin having harry up to his office for tea
  • professor binns, ghost teacher
  • snape repeatedly harrassing his students
  • pigwidgeon
  • ron dressing up the family ghoul to serve as decoy while he was gone
  • de-gnoming
  • charlie weasley saving norberta and taking her to romania
  • harry talking to sirius and lupin about his parents
  • all instances where wizards are completely clueless about muggles
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97june

my kinda boyfriend person took me to build a bear today for my birthday and he chose a sound to put in it and like he wouldn’t let me know what sound it was and he said I couldn’t listen until we got in the car so I was kinda worried bc I thought it was going to be super vulgar or sappy and gross or whatever but we leave build a bear and I press my bear’s hand and it just makes this super loud velociraptor sound.

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seiphirai

A Surprise Pride and Prejudice Engagement

(Note: This isn’t me)

See? This is a tailor-made proposal. Not some “big screen of basketball game nonsense. This person took into account his girlfriend’s pastimes and favourite things in the world, knew how close to the family she was and engineered the perfect engagement proposal, without a doubt managing to make sure this would please her (surely her mother and sisters would know).

This is how you do big gestures.

This is so awesome I can’t even.  

Also, the look on her face as she came into the house.  Hehehehehehe! 

STILL THE MOST ADORABLE THING EVER

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alanapants

BANDELETTES, MOTHERFUCKERS

So for my fellow Northern hemisphere dwellers, it’s nearly summer. That means it is probably starting to get hot. Skirt season! Hot damn!

But YE GODS, THE THIGH CHAFING. Sweat plus friction equals pain, redness, and extremely unhappy legs. If you have experienced the dreaded ‘chub rub’, you know how much it fucking sucks.

Not anymore, bitches.

Slap on a pair of Bandelettes. They come in black, white, red, beige, and brown if you want lace – and trust me, you want lace – or black and beige if you want a solid fabric like the ones pictured above. But the lace is sexy as fuck. Trust me. Go with the lace. It isn’t the horrible and itchy stuff, it’s nice.

So what you do is you measure your thigh right at where the chafing happens, right at the thickest part of your leg. You compare that to the Bandelettes sizing chart, you pick your size, and you’re off. I bought a pair (Beige Onyx, size C) and they don’t move around on me. No slipping. But also, no digging in! I can wear these for hours and they’re still very comfy.

You slide them up into position and they just… stay there. And they protect your gorgeous thighs from the ravages of summer rubbin’. 

They’re lightweight, so you don’t feel like you’re wearing a ton of extra fabric. They’re washable – handwash and hang dry, but still washable! Did I mention they’re sexy as fuck? 

SEXY. AS. FUCK.

Seriously, if thigh chafing is an issue for you, try these. I am loving my pair so far.

Dude I got a black and a white pair and they are MAGIC. Get them now. Don’t just “like this so that I’ll always have this as a ref” or whatever. NOW. They look great with shorts too. The lace isn’t uncomfortable at all and it looks super cute. I have HUGE thighs and I am one size below the largest size so if you think they won’t fit you, they probably will. I’m probably gunna have a pair in every color by the time the summer is over. Get them get them get them. End of PSA

reblog to save a life

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huffpost

The best part of the video may be when Jackson addresses the comments she’s heard about her daughter and sets the record straight about statements like you “wanted a girl so you turned your child into one” and “kids have no idea what they want or who they are — my kids wants to be a dog, should I let him?”

Chills down my whole body. This is how parents should react.

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ellianderjoy

If Leelah Alcorn’s mother made you lose faith, then watch this video. I literally cried tears of happiness for the daughter of this wonderful woman.

“there is a difference between pretending to be something in imaginary play, and declaring who you are - insistently, consistently, and persistently.“ 

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Heads Up

If you have an iPhone, downloaded iOS 8.4, and signed up for the new Apple Music free 3-month trial, here is something you should do:

1. Go to the top left corner and click that button. 2. Click “View Apple ID.” 3. Under Subscriptions, click “Manage.” 4. Click “Apple Music Membership.” 5. Uncheck “Auto Renew.”

You have now saved yourself hundreds of dollars in frustration that you might not have realized until far beyond your 3-month free trial is over.

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Harnaam Kaur – “My beard has 100% become a part of my body. It is the source of my strength and confidence,” she said. “I keep my hair to show the world a different, confident, diverse and strong image of a woman… . I look at it and is it a sign to me that we are all different and none of us are born the same.“

Harnaam Kaur has been featured here before, but this is a great photoshoot. She has polycystic ovary syndrome, a disorder which can cause male pattern hair growth in women. As she is a Sikh, and her religion forbids hair removal, she has kept her facial hair untouched, through years of bullying (and even her parents’ opposition - they wanted her to have an easier life).

“All that matters to me at the moment is that I love myself,” she explained. “I love my beard and all my other little quirks – my tattoos, my scars, stretch marks and blemishes. I want other women to find the strength that I have. If I had any message it would be to live the way you want – it’s your journey and it’s your life.”

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the signs as literary heroines

Aries: arya stark
Taurus: katniss everdeen
Gemini: daisy buchannan
Cancer: daenerys targaryen
Leo: ginny weasley
Virgo: hermione granger
Libra: hazel grace lancaster
Scorpio: holly golightly
Sagittarius: violet baudelaire
Capricorn: elizabeth bennet
Aquarius: margo roth spiegelman
Pisces: luna lovegood
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