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people are way too comfortable being dismissive of children and teenagers. if a toddler comes up to you and starts explaining skibidi toilet lore or if a 13 year old asks you if you want to hear about their mha ocs you have to listen with utmost sincerity or at least pretend to. this is the only way you will get into heaven.

genuinely depressing how people will dismiss the interests kids have because all it does is make them retreat into shame and never want to talk to you about anything again

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ot3

one of the funniest trends to me is seeing people make posts like 'why don't people talk more about [comic relief character who exists to further the plot]? i guess it's because theyre not as shippable as [main character with 3 dimensional writing and character arc] so nobody cares :/'

hey, it worked to get us better call saul made

oh fuck me you're right

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gayspock

a gentleman so flat and boobless you could skip him across the water like a prized stone

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sunnyvicky

And he swims back to you, like playing fetch

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the world would literally be a better place if cis people could just get trans surgeries "by mistake" rather than forcing trans people to jump through ten million hoops to get it.

Like show me one cis man who wants to get vaginoplasty. I’ll wait. Also, he should be able to get it anyway, so shut up.

Really though, this entire argument neglects the elephant in the room in all this, which is that it’s never been about protecting these hypothetical effeminate cis men. It’s never been about protecting butch lesbians. It’s just about punishing queerness.

It's the same as how disabled people have to jump through ten million hoops for government aid because "but what if someone scams the system". They just hate disabled people. It's always about hate and power, all the "but what if" arguments are just concern trolling.

It’s true and you should fucking say it

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hollowedskin

Genuinely if a cis perisex dude wants to go get a vaginoplasty, with all the healing and dilating and stuff, why shouldn't he? It's his body.

I can get fake tits the size of my head with 7 grand and no psychologist, and thats great! Everyone should be allowed to get a pair of whoppers if they want them! I shouldn't need to have had breast cancer, or a breast deformity, or some other medical condition that needs reconstructing to get breast implants, because it's my body. I should be able to get them removed completely if I want as well.

What's the difference though? "Ohhhh he might be doing it for fetish reasons..." So? Lots of cis women get breast implants because having huge tits is hot and it makes them feel sexy. They want to have huge tits while they fuck bc it turns them on and they're more comfortable with their body that way. That's totally fine! Literally who cares!

Yeah a vaginoplasty is a lot more complex but at the end of the day it's a surgical body modification and genuinely, it's no one else's fucking business what someone has in their pants.

Let the cis guy get a pussy! Let everyone get the body they want to have, we have the technology.

If an artist can get 9 facial cosmetic surgeries done as an art project, then a cis guy should be able to get a vaginoplasty for art or kink or whatever reasons.

That's not a hypothetical btw, that's just ORLAN doing her thing:

This is all nice and well and I agree with the sentiment, but as someone who pays social support to people who have never worked a day in their life, smoke, drink, can barely sign the support check and still get more money than me because they have 8 kids they don't even bother to raise...

The process is way too convoluted, but it is there for a reason. If it wasn't in place, nobody would get a penny, simply because there isn't enough money to go around for that many freeloaders.

This stuff is a very delicate balancing act between making the system as accessible for the people who need it as possible, while being difficult enough to navigate for entitled asshats to exploit it so those who need it can actually get something.

A balancing act you can never master.

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faggoty-andi

Actually I changed my mind. I wanna give this the attention of a full reblog.

#so why do you think that is? #why isn't there enough money? #do you think it's because money is a made up concept that is artificially restricted? #or is it because we already have enough money to go around and it's being allocated to other things we don't need #and why do you think those people who are too uneducated to sign their names have so many kids? #is it because they live somewhere or with people that limit their access to education which would include sex education? #please tell me more about how these people are malicious leeches #and how they're not having important resources like education and food and housing systematically withheld from them

Yes. We need better education. Not just sex ed, though sex ed needs arguably the most work. See, where I'm from, it's mandatory for kids to go to school for at least 9 years. Reading, writing, counting, all the way up to chemistry and IT. And because it's mandatory (meaning illegal to not get your kids this basic education), it's free. The fact that the kids don't go there isn't just a problem, it's against the law.

They are not having affordable housing systematically withheld from them. They dominate city-owned houses around here. Comfortable, maintained, very affordable. You could easily pay double their cost of living on rent alone if the apartment was owned privately. I know, because I'm the one they go to when they pay them.

As for money, I actually don't think it's either! Money is a trust system we humans developed to simplify trade. It's not made up, even though it technically is artificially restricted to avoid what happened to Spain around the times of oversea exploration. That said, there isn't, in fact, enough money to go around. I don't think there can ever really be. And the problem isn't that we can't make more, it's that there isn't enough value to offset it to avoid completely ruining a pretty large portion of the population. And the money that is there isn't exactly being allocated that well, you said that yourself, you know all this already.

I'd also like to mention that if your sole source of monthly income hangs on you being able to write your own signature, I'd expect that as the years go on, you get better at it, not worse. Certainly not to the point where you're incapable of writing it. ESPECIALLY if the citizen ID you brought with you isn't even a year old and has a perfectly OK signature on it. I know it's annoying to need to sign the check, but just like password requirements and two-factor authentication, it's there for a reason.

We do get people who can't write because of things like head trauma or injury or blindness. They have people with them who can assist them, serve as a wittness and sign the check so the person can get the money, be they dedicated assistants, family members or even neighbours. One lady has this awesome little rubber stamp she carries with her that's just her signature, but I'm sure it cost a pretty penny and thus isn't exactly an option here.

So when a middle-aged lady comes in alone, skips queue, demands her check, claims to be unable to sign it and starts yelling about how we're stealing her money while we explain to her what she needs to do to pick it up, you'll have to forgive me for moving her from the "disabled/in need" to "just an asshole," at least for the moment.

You can have as many kids as you want. But if you have them, you should at least try to take care of them, not use them as a bargaining chip for extra priviledges. And I believe it is morally imperative to deny them those priviledges should they try that, or some other sleazy tactic like dragging a mentally disabled person into a busy as fuck mall to use their disability as a get out of jail free card (this did, in fact, happen. I wish I was making it up). These systems are there for people who need them, and their functionality relies on them being used only when morally justifiable.

I'm not saying they are malicious. Definitely not all the time. Usually, it's not even their fault. But what they're doing is wrong. It is hurting those who would actually need to use these systems. And often enough, they aren't open to explanations or cooperation. Which sucks, but the only thing I can do about that is showing them that it's wrong by denying the priviledges they're demanding. The lady who can't sign herself doesn't get their money until she can either sign the check or fetch someone as a witness, the guy with an invalid ID can get his money if a cop vouches for his identity and the person who thought bringing their disabled mom along was a good idea can have fun waiting for their turn like every other customer.

And thank you for deciding to engage with me rather than just making fun of what I said. I appreciate you taking your time to ask about my viewpoint and I hope I can learn from your feedback.

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fattributes

Genuinely, I don’t know how else to get the word out, but I feel like if your home-cooked dinners don’t taste right, you're missing either paprika, sugar, butter, or chicken bouillon.

Still not right? It might be missing one of these: Mustard powder, soy sauce, fish sauce, vinegar. MSG. Ketchup. Mushroom powder. Maple syrup. Honey.

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daedricsheep

When it comes to cooking meat, I have been missing coriander for YEARS its so so so underrated

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