Life lately
I’m typing these thoughts because I can’t seem to tell them to anyone.
Ever since the quarantine happened, my life has gone crazier than usual. I became busier, more stressed, there are a lot of ups and downs but most of all, I became more depressed.
The passing of my father is one of the reasons why. I slightly blamed and regretted that I wasn’t there for 2 years before he passed away. I should visited and took care of him when he was having a hard time. My heart aches so much. It’s been almost a year.
Another one is my career. I’ve been juggling jobs since quarantine, I took freelancing gigs while doing my corporate job. I also opened a business and planning to open another one next month. I admit, I am a slave for money. It is not because I’m greedy but I need to work 4 times more because I have a family of 4 to support and feed. My stress mostly come from this, from being the eldest child and having loads of responsibilities.
I am tired. I wanna quit my corporate job because it doesn’t pay well and it’s not good for my mental health anymore. But even if it doesn’t pay a lot, I still need it. I was planning to quit it because I thought my business was going well not until this year. Sales were down, engagements and also my motivation in continuing the business. I became busier with work that I wasn’t able to pay attention to it.
Living this life is mentally exhausting because I feel like I’m running out of time and that I am not good enough for anything. I am trying to learn. I work 12 hours a day plus learn some new things on the side. But I am not really getting what I wanna achieve. Sometimes conditioning myself that “good things take time” isn’t helpful. I am hating myself for it. I also know that every person has their own timeline, but I get insecure and jealous over the people who got what they want without actually working for it. I am also hating myself for it. I tried not to look at other people, believe me. I also admit that I am my own life’s toxicity. I hate it.
Sorry, I just want to let these out because going to therapy is very expensive for me. I tried, but I can’t. Okay, I’m out.