Everything Happens So Much

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straight men’s only personality traits are saying “I have a really dark sense of humor” and showing you racist memes on their phone

men will be like I made this woman do all the cooking and cleaning and washing and track all the bills and appointments and raise all my kids but I did 8 whole hours of work today so I get control of the thermostat, TV remote, emotional manipulation, car, mealtimes, how much money my wife spends, and also what scent of air freshener the car gets…..and that’s what makes me a good dad to….however many kids it is we have.

the guy who designed scythes definitely knew that shit was badass. he didnt care about wheat

https://www.refinery29.com/amp/2017/06/158962/celebrity-pride-rainbow-makeup-looks

how amazing would it be to go travelling with the love of your life and fuck every night

When you understand people’s actions have more to do with who they are than who you are, things become less personal and letting go becomes easier.

It is not possible that the cruelty you gave me was spun from the love I gave you. My compassion had nothing to do with your response to it. You were mean because you are miserable and you are miserable because you refuse to put in work to heal and change. I was not the catalyst and your treatment of me was never a reflection of my actual worth. My willingness to accept it was my lack of self-love. The act of walking away from it is the very beginning of a recognition that I am not a representation of your misery. 

this is the most important thing i’ve ever done.

One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.

if you don’t use this website right now and make a cute little pixel of yourself you hate democracy 

Autumn is here. I can feel powerful dyke energies returning.