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i needed the full songs worth of this not 15 seconds

Have an unproblematic cute. Definitely turn the song on.

[A section of the song “Hey Ya” by Outkast plays over the video]

in my experience men can’t retain significant growth mentally or emotionally in relationships with women bc they think all forms of compromise stem from u trying to control them. thts rlly childish to me. their egos make them too selfish for love which always includes sacrifice but they will play dumb long and passionately enough to wear u out so ur too tired or hurt to keep begging them to meet u halfway. then they somehow victimize themselves n turn it into u “tried to change/control them”…grow up. if I have to grow and sacrifice to make it work so do u, nobody expects u to be perfect but a lotta y'all not even puttin forth any effort like at all. n regardless of all tht, subconsciously men know ur the one expected to compromise not him so u either leave or end up compromising too much until u can’t anymore n this way they never have to actually change, improve, or be held accountable for anything n u end up doing all the work anyway.

Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at. This determines not only most relations between men and women but also the relation of women to themselves. The surveyor of woman in herself is male; the surveyed female. Thus she turns herself into an object—and most particularly an object of vision.

Helena Goscilo, Dehexing Sex: Russian Womanhood during and after Glasnost.

art, fashion and big bums :-)

i love myself but i dont love me back

Those lil black dots are all birds. We were driving down the highway and all of a sudden a storm of birds whirled above us in a giant cloud. A beautiful sight that I think about a lot.

can’t wait for 2017 so I can stop realizing things

2017 is about dealing with things

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