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Studying for Uni

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Emily. 21. She/her. 3rd Year University. IBDP Grad 2017. Pacific Northwest (US).
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“If a person can’t get out of bed, something is making them exhausted. If a student isn’t writing papers, there’s some aspect of the assignment that they can’t do without help. If an employee misses deadlines constantly, something is making organization and deadline-meeting difficult. Even if a person is actively choosing to self-sabotage, there’s a reason for it — some fear they’re working through, some need not being met, a lack of self-esteem being expressed. People do not choose to fail or disappoint. No one wants to feel incapable, apathetic, or ineffective. If you look at a person’s action (or inaction) and see only laziness, you are missing key details. There is always an explanation. There are always barriers. Just because you can’t see them, or don’t view them as legitimate, doesn’t mean they’re not there. Look harder. Maybe you weren’t always able to look at human behavior this way. That’s okay. Now you are. Give it a try.”

“Laziness Does Not Exist” by E Price on Medium

(And a footnote I didn’t see explicitly covered in the article: laziness still doesn’t exist when it is you yourself making no progress and not knowing why. You deserve that respect and consideration, too, even from yourself.)

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no language should be mocked other than french

Birds is “oiseaux” in French.

No letter is pronunced the way it should.

And there are seven of them.

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teaboot

ITS PRONOUNCED “WAZO” AND YES, I WILL DIE MAD ABOUT IT

oiseaux hits every vowel in the french alphabet and manages to only be pronounced with 2 goddamn syllables

got vowels coming out the oiseaux

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phoebe-does

on the days I have little to no motivation I remind myself that who I am tomorrow depends on what I do today and that if I want to I can make myself a weapon. I can do anything I want because today holds unlimited potential, I’ve just got to work for it. I can be unbreakable, undefeatable, unlimited and to be these things I have to do. Because I can and I will. Your brain holds unlimited capacity to hold information so why not be able to do all the things you want? I have the capability to be multilingual, so what’s stopping me? I have the capability to run marathons, so what’s stopping me? I have the capability to ace my exams, so what’s stopping me? What’s stopping me? That question is my motivator.

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eintsein

Getting Stuff Done: How to Deal With Lack of Motivation

“How can I stay disciplined?”

“How can I get things done if I don’t feel like doing them?”

“How can I overcome my lack of motivation?”

As a college student who has had their fair share of being absolutely unmotivated to do anything, I know it can be hard to get things done if you don’t feel like doing them. Luckily, there are some things you can do to become more motivated to finish your homework, write your paper, study for your exam, or whatever tasks you have on your plate.

Part 1: Increasing motivation

Break up your tasks

Just thinking about one huge task is going to intimidate you so much that you’d rather leave it till later, when the urgency of time pushes you to complete it, than start now.

Breaking up your big tasks into smaller ones will make your tasks seem less daunting. Since you won’t be as intimidated by the amount of effort it might take to complete these tasks, you’ll be more likely to start doing them.

For studying, this can be something like ‘make flashcards for units 1-3’ or ‘practice past exam papers: 2015 + 2016’. For writing papers, this could be writing an outline, doing research for each point of your outline, writing the first 3 paragraphs, etc.

Working on small tasks at a time will also make you less prone to distractions since you only need to focus for a short length of time.

Make small goals and reward yourself

These goals could be accomplishing one of the smaller subtasks above, or achieving a certain grade on a practice test, or finishing a section of your study plan - as long as you’re working towards something.

The rewards? Maybe going out to eat, watching something, or even just time off. Hopefully these rewards will motivate you to complete your task.

I know some people are more inclined to do their work if they’re punished for not doing it, rather than rewarded for doing it, so if you wanna take the ‘punishment’ approach, you could do something like not allowing yourself to use social media until you finish a set of tasks - this is essentially the same thing, just thought about in a different manner. However, you should always be careful with these punishments/restrictions, because sometimes they can end up harming your health and productivity (e.g. ‘I can’t take a break until I finish all of my homework’).

Part 2: Not relying on motivation

Of course, you can’t always expect yourself to be motivated all the time. In fact, it’s very ineffective to rely on motivation to get things done; motivation is fleeting. Here’s an alternative: self-discipline. But how does it work?

Establish a study routine

Humans are creatures of habit. Even if you’re a P-type (like me), habits are hard to break. So making a habit of accomplishing your tasks/studying at a set time every day will help you, well, accomplish them. For example, it’s a lot easier to get your homework done every day if you do it at the same time - e.g. once you come home from school - rather than doing it ‘whenever you have time’.

Having a study routine will also make you less likely to be distracted since you know that that period of time had a purpose. If you’re trying this out for the first time, you might wanna completely get rid of distractions so that you can focus (e.g. putting your phone in your bag, on silent). However, with practice, I found that my phone or any other sources of distraction don’t really bother me anymore since I’ve had tons of practice resisting the urge to pick up my phone whenever there’s a notification, for example.

Schedule in time for breaks

This ties in well with the point about rewards: the break might be the reward for your studying. However, this doesn’t always have to be the case. You shouldn’t always think of relaxing as merely a reward for studying or accomplishing your tasks, but rather a necessity for the well-being of your mind. This sort of approach to breaks ensures that you actually let your brain rest once in a while.

After taking a break, your mind will be refreshed and revitalized, and you should have more than enough energy to continue with your other tasks.

Some of you asked - with regards to my previous post on The Mandatory Midday Break - how I can limit myself to exactly an hour, and to be honest, the answer is habit. It’s like having a habit of showering at the same time every day and not extend the length of time you spend in the bathroom (except in certain circumstances, like during a day off, I guess).

This is why it’s important to schedule your breaks and establish a study routine or habit - not only does it ensure you get enough rest, but it also prevents you from extending your break so that you don’t become unproductive and leave a ton of tasks unfinished.

It can be hard to motivate yourself to accomplish all your tasks, but there are things you can do to increase your motivation. However, you can’t expect to be motivated all the time, and you shouldn’t rely on motivation to get things done. Discipline and habit are the most important tools you can use to be efficient and productive without having to be motivated.

Hope this post has been helpful, and, as always, feel free to drop me an ask if you have an ask. Have an awesome week :)

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Brain Anatomy

Cerebellum - located at the back of the brain beneath the occipital lobes 

  • Functions: 
  • Fine tunes motor activity or movement
  • Assists in maintaining posture, sense of balance or equilibrium, by controlling the tone of muscles and the position of limbs 
  • Important in one’s ability to perform rapid and repetitive actions

Frontal Lobe -  largest of the four lobes 

  • Functions:
  • Motor skills such as voluntary movement, speech, intellectual and behavioral functions
  • Plays an important part in memory, intelligence, concentration, temper and personality

Occipital Lobe - located at the back of the brain 

  • Functions:
  • Enable humans to receive and process visual information
  • Influence how humans process colors and shapes

Temporal Lobe - located on each side of the brain at about ear level

  • Functions:
  • Involved in visual memory and helps humans recognize objects and peoples’ faces
  • Verbal memory and helps humans remember and understand language
  • Allows humans to interpret other people’s emotions and reactions.

Parietal Lobe

  • Functions: positioned above the temporal lobe and behind the frontal lobe
  • interpret simultaneously, signals received from other areas of the brain such as vision, hearing, motor, sensory and memory
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micdotcom

when you break a world record, but a man comes in second (x)

And it’s worth note that Ledecky didn’t just win the 800 freestyle- she obliterated it:

Thats her. And those specks in the distance are her competitors. The second place swimmer was 11 SECONDS behind her. 11 seconds is FOREVER in something like this. Most second place swimmers in most races finish fractions of a second behind the first place swimmer.

Her finishing with none of her competitors in sight. And that yellow line is the previous world record’s pace. Ledecky is more than a full body length ahead.

Which, btw, she did in the 400m freestyle earlier in the games. Seen here:

(The previous world record in this race was held by her, to begin with, btw. As well as the 3 world record times preceding that one.)

So to sum it up: Yeah, Phelps is one of the most decorated Olympic swimmers ever etc etc but him getting silver means jack in the face of the actual-human-avatar-of-Poseidon that is Katie Ledecky. 

11 (ELEVEN) SECONDS FUCK THE WHAT THIS IS NOT GETTING ENOUGH COVERAGE. i should have had that information before now

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kaytee-cakes

IM SO FUCKING PROUD OF KATIE IDC HOW MANY YEARS AGO THIS WAS

Kathleen Genevieve Ledecky is an American competitive swimmer. She has won five Olympic gold medals and 14 world championship gold medals, the most in history for a female swimmer. She is the current world record holder in the women’s 400-, 800-, and 1500-meter freestyle.

Source: mic.com
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i feel like the most important piece of wisdom i can impart on teenagers is that no one–no one–knows what the fuck they’re doing

my brother is 26 years old, makes $200k a year, and just bought a house with his fiance. he’s the success story you hear about but never actually meet in person, but it all happened by accident. he wanted to go to college for clarinet performance, but he got rejected from all the top schools. so he decided to major in physics instead, and then went on to get a doctorate to put off being an adult for a few more years. but then he ended up dropping out halfway through the program and accepting a job with google as a software engineer. so to reiterate: my brother majored in something he was not interested in, and then he got a job that had nothing to do with his degree. 

he isn’t successful because he had some master plan he followed, he just stumbled around blindly until something worked out. and that’s what we’re all doing–i majored in political science and now i do customer service for a company that makes industrial-sized gas detection monitors. the marketing director at my company has a degree in biology, and my mom has an MBA and works at a middle school.  no one knows what they’re doing, we’re all just trying different things until something works out.

so if you don’t have a plan, that’s fine. most of us don’t. and even those of us who do, don’t usually end up doing the thing they thought they would. it’s okay to relax and let life carry you wherever it’s gonna carry you. because even though a lot of us don’t end up doing the thing we wanted, most of us end up happy anyway.

I’ve been thinking about this post since I made it a few hours ago, and I realized that I literally don’t know anyone who’s doing what they thought they’d be doing at this point in their life. I know a girl that has a degree in neuroscience and works in a restaurant (and makes quite a bit more money than I do, might I add), and a guy who wanted to be a parole officer but is now a security guard. I know people who wanted to be lawyers but ended up not having the grades for law school. I have a friend who’s 24 and just finished her bachelor’s, and two friends who decided to go to grad school because the idea of joining the adult world terrified them.

When I was seventeen, I was 100% sure that I was going to get a job as a bureaucrat and save the world. When I was a 21-year-old recent college grad, I found out that it’s impossible to get a government job unless you know someone. So I gave up and found something else. I know my teenage self would be disappointed if she could see where I’m at, but you know what? I don’t care. Because teenage me was an idiot. She didn’t know anything about the world or how it worked, and she couldn’t have possibly predicted the curveballs that life would throw at her. And because I don’t know a single person who’s doing the thing they wanted to do when they were teenagers.

I know a thousand people who aren’t where they thought they’d be, and zero people who are following the path they set out for themselves. All of us are confused and all of us are scared, and it’s okay if you are too.

Honestly thank u, i needed to hear this again

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Today I learned

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ouijubell

Free Audiobooks and Ebooks on OVERDRIVE.

Free Graphic Novels (DC, Marvel, Image, etc), Music, TV shows, and music on HOOPLA.

Free music that you can KEEP on FREEGAL

You are PAYING for all this with your tax money - USE THEM. Most likely systems will have all 3 or 2 out of 3, so if you aren’t sure call your local library’s reference/information desk and how you can get set-up or started.

Hey, highkey from a library worker: 

Overdrive has a new mobile app called LIBBY I find it easier to use.  It’s the same content as Overdrive just better for mobile.  Overdrive and Libby both let you send items to your kindle as well.  

Can confirm Overdrive is amazing. 

I work in the largest library system in my state (17 branches in total).

I use it not only for ebooks, but movies as well.

Other FREE resources to check with your library for are:

  • Freegal Music (download and keep music, including current music)
  • Hoopla Digital (borrow ebooks, e-audiobooks, e-graphic novels, stream movies)
  • Kanopy (stream movies; also available on Roku!)
  • Axis360 (usually hot or just released ebooks)

If you don’t have a library card…

GET ONE!

If someone says libraries are a thing of the past…

BOOP THEM IN THE NOSE WITH YOUR KINDLE!

Don’t discount libraries as “quiet” places. 

THEY ARE ALIVE!!!

THEY ARE LOUD!!!

THEY ARE YOUR DOORWAYS TO KNOWLEDGE!!

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turnabout

Even if you’re an avid library user! Check and see what your library has! I didn’t know I could use Kanopy and Freegle, and the DC Library has A TON of other stuff. (Like Lynda, you should totally check that out, too.)

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Just in case this needs to be said:

It’s the first draft. Use the word “suddenly.” Put as many dialogue tags and adverbs as you want. Say “he saw” “she remembered” “she felt” “they wondered” as many times as you need to. Put the em dash there, put in too many commas, use semi-colons with reckless abandon. Type in [whatever] instead of thinking up a title for something. Just write it. If you worry too much about the particulars, about all the advice posts you’ve seen saying whatever you’re doing is wrong or not good enough, you won’t get anything done. It will slow you down as you go back and try to reword what you just wrote to make it better, proper. The first draft doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be done. And when you get to the end, you’ll find that all those “mistakes” are just clues for your future self to put together to make it all better.

Putting in adverbs and certain dialogue tags are a note for you as to who is saying something and how they’re saying it. When you’re editing, you can make sure it shows through the story instead. The word “suddenly” is a reminder to make things more abrupt. The first draft is just you mapping out where you want to go and how you want to get there. Don’t waste time trying to get it 100% right now, because then it will never get done. Don’t think too much– just write. Save the thinking for editing later.

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closet-keys

The first draft doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be done

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warmstudiess

For those of you starting college soon:

- everyone is scared - I’m scared of college and it’s my 3rd year - but I know it will be okay once I get into the routine - people don’t care what you do - people sleep in weird places - and wear pajamas to lots of places - and you make friends in unlikely places and times - friends will come and go - you might change your mind on majors - but you will be okay - you are going to do so great 💕

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psychlu

I have generalized anxiety disorder; when you have to live with an anxiety disorder, it’s about making your anxiety work with you and not against you. I am by no means an expert or a therapist (but I’m studying psychology to become one) but I have years of experience living with anxiety and I have been to therapy for 5 years, so I know some ways you can manage anxiety and study in a better way without having it ruin your school career.

First of all, realize that anxiety is not evil; our bodies are made to react in a certain way when something could be dangerous to us. It’s the “fight or flight” reaction. When you feel anxious, this fight or flight mechanism is activated, even if there is nothing dangerous in the environment. My therapist always said to me that the goal, when in therapy for an anxiety disorder, it’s not to eliminate completely the anxiety but to keep it under control, so it’s active only on adequate situations. (When there is an actual danger, not just a pile of homework that you don’t know how to deal with.)

So, you have anxiety and you realize that you need to conquer it and control it. How?

  • Seek help: obviously, the best option is going to therapy. I do understand, though, that that may be not possible for anyone. I live in a country where healthcare is free, so it has been easy for me; also, my parents pay for my therapy and they are very supportive of it.  There isn’t only therapy: for some people, meds could work, if there is a chemical unbalance in your brain. (Always remember, tho, that in anxiety disorders meds are very rarely used alone without therapy.) Other things you can and should do: talk about it with your parents, peers, friends; try and see if there are counseling programs at your school/college; seek for people with the same issue, that you can relate to. Read forums, get informed, become an expert on your condition. An official diagnosis is better, but if you prefer to self-diagnose I want you to be super informed, I want you to know everything about it.
  • Understand your symptoms: what happens when you have anxiety? You breathe faster, your heartbeat is augmenting, you tremble? Learn what are your symptoms, so you can anticipate the anxiety and calm yourself in time before the anxiety attack even comes. Not everyone’s anxiety disorder is the same, it manifests in many symptoms,, concerning both body and mind. Here is a list. Never start working or studying when you are feeling your symptoms. Stop and calm yourself, distract yourself and return to what you were doing when you feel better; you don’t work well if you are anxious.
  • Be organized: to manage anxiety, to avoid feeling overwhelmed by all the things you need to do, be an organization master. Get a planner, make a bullet journal if decorating it calms you. Write down everything you need to do, everywhere you need to be. Decide when you are going to do these things and stick to it. If it helps, write down every single thing. Even eating, if that helps. Plan your meals, your shopping. Having an organized life will avoid you hours of laying in bed, doing nothing because you have no clue where to start, struggling with anxiety while works piles up.  Make lists for everything. Lists are your best friends.
  • Find a calming method: what calms you down? Breathing, looking at specific images or objects, talking with someone that calms you down and you trust? Identify what works for you and practice it when you feel the anxiety coming.  Go here to see a compilation of calming pictures and gifs. Read here about a very interesting method. Build a safe space in your mind.
  • Surround yourself with things that do not make you anxious: don’t take a class if it makes you feel too much anxious; drop classes that stress you out. Do not hang out with toxic people, you’ll feel worse. (Check out my post about how toxic friends affect your life). Do not buy a lot of fancy stationery and notebooks, having too much unused stuff could make you anxious because you don’t know what to do with it. Declutter your life; I will also make a list of things you should be decluttering soon. Honestly decluttering makes me feel so calm and in control. 
  • Stop being a perfectionist; accept failure, it’s a part of life. Make realistic goals, understand your limits and you will feel more at peace. Perfection is an unreachable goal that will only make you more anxious. Reach high, but take into consideration your possibilities. If you are not ready for something, don’t do it, it’s not the right timing and failing will put you in a bad mental place. 

Build a toolbox in your mind: put in it your symptoms list, your calming methods, a picture of your safe space, your stable organization method. Remember that you have all of this to help you get through life. When in need, go through the box and use the items in it. You need to think about all of these resources you made for yourself as the things you need to manage your anxiety and live a quieter life. 

This was supposed to be more about studying, but it became more about life in general, but I don’t mind. I hope my advice was useful. Personally, all of this works for me and I am a textbook anxious, I check all the boxes on the DSM diagnosis. If you ever wanna talk about your anxiety and your experiece or you want some more advice, feel free to contact me.

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missmentelle

This is a big, giant list of Youtube tutorials that will teach you all the basic life skills you need to know in order to be a functional adult. There are a lot of important skills that aren’t included in this list, but this should be enough of a basic guide to get you started and prevent you from making a total mess of yourself. Happy adulting! Household Skills:

Cooking Skills:

Health Skills:

Mental Health Skills:

Relationship and Social Skills:

Job Hunting Skills:

Other Skills:

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Dear language learners,

Random reminder not to consider your language learning as a race, because it simply isn’t one. Look around you : you can hear some native speakers speaking your mother language and making grammar mistakes ; and sometimes, you have to face a word you don’t know in your mother language. All of this happens because language learning is endless and even native speakers keep on learning their native language, which means there is no such things as being late in your learning or being too slow or anything. It’s just you learning a language you love at your own pace and you’re doing good. So don’t put too much pressure on yourself comparing yourself to others especially comparing the level you mastered (more like the level you haven’t mastered) to the level others mastered. Don’t forget that you don’t need to be bilingual to be able to communicate in the language you’re learning, to be able to make those sounds and write those words you find beautiful, because communication happens way before bilingualism. So close your book if you need ! Watch a movie ! Drink your favorite drink ! Take a break !!! You’re doing great !!

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One of the more profound things I’ve heard recently came from a Mr. Rogers documentary. In a clip from his show, Mr. Rogers had just visited with a musician, and tells his audience that some people play music, and some people don’t, and that’s okay.

And then he said, “The important thing is to find something you feel good about doing.”

That phrasing struck me. “Something you feel good about doing”. Most people would have phrased it as “something you enjoy doing”. Or “something you’re good at doing”. But Mr. Rogers’ subtly different phrasing leads to a profoundly different connotation. Something you feel good about doingmay not be enjoyable–people who work in hospitals or in disaster zones might not enjoy much of their day, but they probably feel good about helping people. “Something you feel good about doingmay not be something you’re particularly good at–you may be a terrible artist by any objective standard, but if you feel good about making your art, then it’s a worthwhile endeavor. Looking for “something you feel good about doing” can help you find a truly satisfying life path.

That phrase is also helpful with daily decision-making. Too often, I can make choices based on “what feels good.” I put aside tasks that are too stressful or avoid activities that seem too difficult, in favor of mindlessly browsing the internet. And I enjoy myself. I feel good while I’m doing that. But at the end of the day, I don’t feel good about how I spent my time. However, reminding myself to do “something I feel good about doing” can motivate me to accomplish those more difficult tasks. It can push me to do something outside of my comfort zone, to try something new that I might not be much good at. And maybe this is a blindingly obvious philosophy to everyone else. But I’m grateful for the reminder. 

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  1. GET EXCITED. Find some books that you really want to read and make a list of them to motivate yourself. Remind yourself why you like to read. Dredge up that childhood excitement and love.
  2. MAKE IT A PRIORITY. Reading is not a difficult task. It’s just that most of us fail to make it a priority when we factor in the rest of our responsibilities.
  3. ALWAYS CARRY A BOOK WITH YOU. You’re more likely to read if you have a book within reach, for practical reasons and because it’ll remind you of your reading. Bring a novel with you to school or a cafe just in case you find a few minutes to read.
  4. TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE LITTLE SLOTS OF TIME. If you take public transportation, read on the bus. Read in the five minutes before class starts. If there is a time slot when you’d usually be browsing your social media to pass the time, read instead. I promise it’ll make you feel a lot better about yourself.
  5. MAKE IT A HABIT. If you’ve decided that you’re going to read on the bus every day, read on the bus every day. Block out a time that is dedicated to reading and make it a habit.
  6. GET OUT OF READING SLUMPS by reading short books, pageturners, or graphic novels to build momentum.
  7. TRACK YOUR PROGRESS. Get a goodreads, make a spread in your bullet journal, keep a spreadsheet, or keep a piece of paper to track what books you’ve read and whether you liked them. It’s satisfying to look back on your year and see how many books you’ve read. You can even keep track of how long you’ve read in a day, or how many pages you’ve read in a day.
  8. INVOLVE OTHER PEOPLE. Buddy read with someone (be it your mom or an internet friend). Watch booktube videos. Join a reading group on Goodreads. Friend me on Goodreads! Involve other people so reading becomes integrated into other aspects of your life.
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