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The problem with other people is that I hate them.

@devour-your-own-empty-heart / devour-your-own-empty-heart.tumblr.com

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jackiefour

I hate doing this, but it’s cold and we cannot afford to refill our propane tank (which fuels our furnace) so I’m asking for help.

A couple of years ago my husband had a good job that paid enough we decided that we could make do with a single income so I could focus on our kids and home. I left my job and things were good for a few months until my husband list his job. It took a couple weeks longer than he’d hoped to get a new job and then a couple more weeks until the paychecks started up again. Our meager savings was depleted but he had a new job and we were confident that we’d get caught back up in no time. I even started picking up some odd jobs and selling some stuff on Etsy to help make ends meet.

Six months later and he was let go for unspecified reasons. This time he had two job offers within a week, which was a relief. Weighing our options, he chose to take the lower paying position with what he felt was a better company that would offer better opportunities in the long run. By now we were drowning in bills, juggling who would get paid to keep the cars and house and lights, etc. We entered into a debt relief program to consolidate and negotiate our credit card bills to a manageable amount, which locked all the cards and removed them as an option to pay for anything. Although this was the right thing to do, it has made a hard situation even more challenging. I was looking for work again, but full time would mean putting the kids in a summer camp program, and none of the jobs available paid enough for us to afford that. So I started gardening for my neighbors, weeding and trimming and whatnot, for cash. (Fun Fact: I sweated about 20x my body weight this summer.) While this paid for our groceries, it didn’t do much more than that.

Flash forward to now. We just managed to finish paying the past due amount owed to our propane company for last winter’s heating but need to have money to refill the propane tank so we can actually use our furnace. Up to this point we have been using two small electric heaters (the kind you use to heat your cubicle at work) to heat our 1100 sq ft home, and they do ok at keeping the house from freezing, but only with the aid of our oven (which I have filled with rocks to retain and slowly release heat)

and a clay pot heater I rigged up in front of our fireplace

“Hey, Jackie, why don’t you use the fireplace for warmth?”

Good question! The flue liner is cracked so it doesn’t draw properly and not only does the house stay cold, but it fills with smoke. Plus firewood isn’t free and I happened to have about 100 tea lights and all the other things needed to make this surprisingly efficient little radiator.

I had a phone interview last week for a good job and have my fingers crossed that it will work out, but realistically, if I do get the job, it won’t start paying until January and it is really cold now. Any help would be greatly appreciated, even just sharing this post. Thank you for reading this far! Happy (warm) Holidays to you all!

I’ve added the link to my Etsy shop for anyone who wants to see what I’m selling. Vintage geeky and what I refer to as “cottage chic” items. Sorry for all the reblogs, I’m going to try to keep them to a minimum.

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rocket-pool

Dying rn

He stopped in front of the mirror and sighed. His penis was just a little too large to be fashionable, and his balls were just a little lopsided. Most days it didn’t bother him, but today he pushed at his genitals, trying to make them look more normal, like the men in magazines. It was hopeless. He dropped his junk in resigned frustration. There were worse things than having too large of a penis, he thought.

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spellbound7

While, granted, some writers do take the breast thing too far, this comparison doesn’t even make sense. Men don’t obsess about their genitals the way women obsess about their breasts because they’re not in your face all the time (in the case of large boobs). Breasts are just more visible (closer to eye level).

Newsflash! Women don’t obsess about our breasts. 

No really, we live with them 24/7, we can see friends, and relatives breasts pretty much on demand, hell, we just have to go to get changed at the gym to be inundated with boobs. They are really boring to us (ad while we’re on it, nowhere near as sensitive as so many men seem to think!).

The only time a woman might obsess about her breasts is when they’re painful, such as when lactating or wearing an ill-fitting bra, and neither situation is at all sexy.

Men obsess over women’s breasts. Women don’t. 

I’m just loling about supposedly obsessing over my breasts because they’re near my face.

“In your face all the time (in case of large boobs)”

So apparently large breasts are gravity-defying objects that rise up to our face until eye level, huh??

Any women out there willing to draw out how this guy’s version of boob reality might look like, because this is just too ridiculous 😂😂😂

I needed this belly-laugh, I really did, so many you did too.

I..am..idk

🤣😂🤣

And before anyone says anything about women who are into women: breasts can be attractive, but they’re still mundane and we are perfectly able to not ogle or feel abashed when in the presence of bare-breasted people.

perfect cartoon is perfect. 

I also like that whoever that was claims "men don't obsess about their genitals." Literally so much of the world is about men's dicks and the need of men to feel good about them.

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profeminist

“Anti-gay senator caught with underage boy was wearing t-shirt with “Ephesians 5:22: Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord” on it. 

This is why you should NEVER listen to "Christians” scolding you about their “faith” in public.”

Oh and F****NG ROY MOORE WHILE WE’RE ON THE TOPIC OF “THE RELIGIOUS RIGHT WERE ALWAYS HATEMONGERS NEVER MORAL, AND NOW WITH GOP SUPPORT OF MOORE THEY’RE JUST ADMITTING IT.”

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profeminist

TW for pedophilia, csa

“If baking a cake for a gay wedding means you support gay marriage, then helping a pedophile get elected in Alabama means you support pedophilia. #RepublicanHypocrisy

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cheskamouse

Please do the following for net neutrality: This is an actual, effective thing everyone can do, a super quick and effective way to support net neutrality: 1. On your computer, not your phone! - go to: www.fcc.gov/ecfs/filings/express 2. Enter under Proceeding the numbers 17-108. 3. In comments, say you support Title 2 oversight of ISPs. Also say that you support net neutrality. *Fill in the form carefully; they’ve made it less friendly and impossible to fill in by phone, on purpose. *Don’t be silenced. Do it now. Pass it on. Copy and paste.

This is something everyone can do about net neutrality (open to international).

However please note that this requires you to list your full name and address to sign and it is public, meaning anyone can view it.

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