Ever since I was a little girl I knew I had to focus on my tumblr blog instead of a career
hot take but i actively miss when tv shows were like 20 episodes a season. slow down. let me get to know the characters. let them do something dumb and not consequential to the plot for one fucking second i'm begging you.
obsessed with bed.. i love bed. obsessed with pillows blankets and such literally love sleeping
I could get over anything as long as I have something new to be obsessed with
girls when they don’t have a new obsession that helps them dissociate from their problems and they’re actually forced to face their thoughts
“your partner isn’t responsible for your wellbeing”
“go tell this to a therapist”
“omg stop traumadumping” (after hearing a mild complaint)
can you guys hear yourselves? we are human beings. part of being in relationships (including friendships) with each other means looking after each other. we are responsible for each other. I look after your emotional needs when you need it, and you look after mine. sometimes things will be difficult and sometimes they’ll be outside my paygrade, and I’m allowed to step back from that. but you have to stop acting like it’s some massive toxic imposition on you to have to listen to someone talk about their feelings
eu não consigo parar de pensar nessa situação da the eras tour
E também to pensando muito no paralelo entre a taylor e o rbd, as duas turnês praticamente acontecendo ao mesmo tempo no brasil e além disso o rbd passou por uma tragédia muito parecida. E eles SEMPRE lidaram com a situação de uma forma muito sensível e respeitosa (eles, a imprensa não). Eles nunca deixaram a memória daqueles fãs se apagar, nunca fingiram que o que aconteceu não tjnha nada a ver com eles
enquanto isso o silêncio e a falta de ação da taylor são ofensivos. Fingir que nada aconteceu chega a ser nojento. Eu sei que é tudo recente, eu sei que não são decisões fáceis de se tomar, mas o mínimo é entrar em contato com a família, e manter a memória da Ana viva
enfim, nada disso significa que eu ache a taylor uma pessoa ruim ou que eu não seja fã dela. Mas ela não é criança, é uma bilionária de quase 34 anos que já enfrentou batalhas maiores por motivos menores. Ela é passível de criticas. Eu só acho que os fãs brasileiros merecem mais respeito, a família também e acima de tudo a Ana.
This is the point where I'm actually truly disappointed at Taylor.
Posting a small note on her stories without even mentioning Ana Clara's name is a choice, quite possibly one made not only by her. It hurts to see the distance that is being put between Taylor and Ana, but I can understand that this is a PR decision that goes beyond just her (even if, being honest, I think it's very wrong and cold and, at this point in Taylor's career, unnecessary).
Like everyone, I got emotional watching her singing Bigger Than The Whole Sky, seeing how emotional she was herself, seeing that the whole crowd was meaning every word while singing it with her.
But at the same time, we were first hearing the news that Ana's family isn't getting any support, not from the venue, not from the company and not from Taylor's team and this made the entire thing hollow. Because how can you spend you whole career preaching about the collaboration between your fans and still turn the blind eye when something like this happens?
Even if she still wanted to keep distance from that tragedy, something that I'd never think she should do, but that I could try to understand and see the reasons, she has all the means in the world to help. At this point, her word is worth a lot, even more when it comes to a fan in her concert. If she didn't want her name being associated further with this, an anonymous donation would be more than enough. Actually, it was the bare minimum we all not only hoped, but thought was already happening.
Distancing herself from this goes directly against everything Taylor went for her whole career and it's really really painful to see that the care she has for us has limits she could surpass with very little effort.
We are joining to help Ana's family, organizing a fundraiser to pay for everything they need, because once more, the fans have to do what people that SHOULD be doing things aren't moving. And we are still trying to get Taylor's team attention because if they can listen to the fans asking to turn off the pyrotechnics for Bad Blood, they can listen when we ask help to allow a family to have at least a bit of dignity when grieving a tragedy like this.
I hope Taylor can change my mind and we have some help from her team, better late than never, but until then,
Help Ana's family donating to this PayPal:
adrianabenevides28@hotmail.com
(this is the only official mean to donate, beware scammers)
And by the way, in no way I mean this as a way to blame Taylor Swift or her team when the true people to blame is T4F. I want this company to rot and declare bankruptcy before the year ends for all they are making us go though from beginning to end of this experience. I just feel like seeing their inaction, Taylor should be doing something.
the way people online have been treating Brazilian swifties is so insensitive and disgusting -to say the least
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