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chaotic tired

@dragonetteeye / dragonetteeye.tumblr.com

Jay/June|They/Them/Theirs|INFP-T All I want is tea, good notebooks, and a nice flower crown
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purristocats

su-cryptical: Steven Universe obviously added the Rose-Pink Diamond twist at the last minute, even stole it from the fans, because there’s absolutely no hints to it from any episode before season 5

episode 1, Steven Universe: Cookie Cat! He left his family behind!

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reblogged

You are trapped in an elevator with the person on your lockscreen. Who is it?

Reblog with who you get stuck with~

Me and my friends from college. 

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bbs-butt

Venom snake

Beckett from vampire the masquerade

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bladeobrona

A sleeping Rowlet

Saeyoung!! X3

@nbshou !!!!

Killmonger…. I’m either getting fucked or killed 😩

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pidgeon-holt

T'Challa and Wonder Woman

Guys it’s pidge I’m totally fine with this

lotor, yes he’s evil but he’s Hot

Rainbow

Jeremy Heere, Evan Hansen, Veronica Sawyer and Alexander Hamilton.

HELL YEAH!

Lyrics from a musical. Does this mean I get music?

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The USPS is the fastest, cheapest, and most accurate mail service on the planet last I heard, and is the biggest employer of veterans in the entire country. 

On top of that, mail carriers:  -have wages that top out at over $30 an hour (and their wages go up in predictable steps based on how long they’ve been with the USPS) -have excellent benefits, including a shit-ton of vacation time, plus a pension, and they can retire after thirty years

But they also have one of the oldest, biggest, strongest unions in the country. That must piss off Republicans so much

Also, side note: they take zero taxpayer dollars. They’re entirely funded by postage. 

(”But I heard they were doing terribly!” They’re not. Congress saddled them with pre-funding their retirement 75 years out to intentionally put them in the red and make them look bad. I’m not joking or exaggerating. There’s tons of info, but here’s the USPS’s own info: https://about.usps.com/who-we-are/financials/annual-reports/fy2010/ar2010_4_002.htm )

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alfea

shoutout to the unsung heroes of vine, the ones who allowed the magic to happen: the employee who arranged the fre sha voca do letters, the road construction worker who put out the road work ahead sign, the folks who hosted the party where wrow happened…. let us not forget those who put the pieces in place to give us the gifts we have today

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taliabobalia

when millennials were first heading into high school and college there was a huge trend in news stories about how stressed out our kids are, how their backs are getting messed up from carrying so many books, how they’re sleeping less and doing more school work, and how we should do more to help our kids have the childhoods we had because our kids are falling apart from stress and being forced to be more productive than kids should be. but then once millennials started hitting the workforce all the news was about how millennials are lazy and narcissistic and entitled lmao you were real concerned about us until you found out a 23 year old is more qualified to do your job than you

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Anne Hathaway is the TRUE definition of what a white ally should be. Recognizing her own privilege and putting forth the effort to stand up for what she knows is right. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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nyaruto

I never thought I would have to ask for help, but I don’t have much of a choice anymore.

My parents are separated and are set to have a divorce. He decided to cheat on my mom after almost 21 years of marriage. For an entire year, he emotionally traumatized my whole family, apologizing for the things he’s done and telling us he would never see this woman again. He said he would go to counseling. He said he would pack up all of his things from the girl’s house and move to a neutral place for a few weeks. He made promise after promise, but they all fell short.

He lied to us and suddenly told us he was going back to her. He did this repeatedly over and over again, around 50 times or so. But this isn’t the end of what he has done to harm my family. There was a time last year where he physically assaulted us by throwing my mother and me on the pavement and viscously twisting my sister’s arm behind her back, hurting all three of us. He yelled at my sister and me that he never wanted to see us again. Everything I used to see in him had vanished. He was no longer the man I once knew.

My mom has been a stay at home mom since I was young and is now one for my little sister, which has unfortunately prevented her from working. He was the provider and brought in money for us, but now he officially is no longer a part of the household. Due to this, my mom, little sister, and I are struggling because we can no longer depend on him. Luckily, we are on food stamps and have basic insurance for our medications and doctor visits, as well as a little bit of social security which is used completely for rent, utilities, and basic necessities. I have a job that pays for my car payment, gas for my car, and my phone bill, but that’s it.

However, my car recently broke down and I have no extra money to fix it. I’m trying to figure out a way to get another car or to try and fix the one I have, but for now, I have no way to get to my job, which means no income coming in for me either. In addition to all of this, I owe my college around $150 to be able to register for classes again, after dropping out last year to care for my mother post-surgery. He did not help. Everything was up to me. She’s much better now, but with that, I’m behind in college.

As expected, my depression and anxiety have worsened over the past year and I’m at a loss. I’ve been seeing a psychiatrist and counselor to try and manage this, but that can only do so much. I desperately need some help while I try and get my life back together.  So, honestly, anything helps. I completely understand if you can’t donate, but if you could share this to get more exposure I would greatly appreciate it. Huge thanks to anyone who decides to send any money my way! It truly means so much to me and my gratitude cannot be expressed enough. Thank you so, so much.

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bilations

Lesbians that complain about bi women dating men instead of them are officially the “nice guys” of biphobia.

“Why would she date a smelly BOY when she could date me instead? I’d treat her so much better than any man could! I don’t understand what she could possibly see in a MAN!”

if u say this shit, imma leave u for a man immediately. the first one on sight. period.

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pantaro

The same applies to gay men that complain about bi men dating women instead of them.

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ok but seriously, who the fuck can tell what gender a freaking baby is? Y’all know that’s why moms tape bows to their babies’ heads or shove them into pink frilly things or tiny little suits?  ‘cause without society’s external trappings of gender, no one can freaking tell what the heck a baby is. Not only is this some transphobic bullshit, it’s also just a stupid strategy to begin with. 

P.S. OP none of those lovely ladies ‘were once men.’ They were just once told that their gender was determined by their genitals and forced to behave accordingly. Fortunately, they’re way stronger than you and broke free of that to live as the gorgeous women they always were. 

(unless any id as genderfluid or bigender of course)

transphobes are so stupid.

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hot take: moms need to learn how to listen to and comfort their daughters without making everything about their own traumas

a classic example

daughter: hey this thing you do bothers me very much and i wish you wouldn’t do it

mom: well my parents abused me and im not even as bad as they were and i had to sit through it so you gotta sit through whatever i do to you too

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daeranilen

a common variant

mom: well i’m having a really hard time right now and you know that i’m doing my best and that i didn’t mean to hurt you ergo you are in fact the asshole for asking me to consider your feelings and change my behavior during this hard hard time i’m having

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lierdumoa

This is a very important post about how to recognize problematic behavior in narcissistic mothers. It is also something we all need to watch out for in ourselves, especially if we were raised by a narcissistic parent.

Because if that’s what you’re used to, you can grow up wrongly believing that this is what sympathy is supposed to sound like.

I have, numerous times, talked about having a bad day, and had a well-meaning acquaintance tell me how much worse their day was, honestly believing that they were being sympathetic – that telling me how much worse their day was would somehow make me feel relieved, or grateful, that my day wasn’t as bad as theirs.

Of course, it did not make me feel better. It made me feel like my experiences were being trivialized, and like my feelings were being invalidated.

I know these people weren’t trying to be cruel. They truly just didn’t know better. They thought they were empathizing.

If you didn’t grow up learning what genuine sympathy looks/sounds/feels like, it’s hard to know how to show genuine sympathy for other people, even when you really do care about them.

I tell you what, even if my own mother isn’t like this, I can definitely see these behaviours in my live-in landlady. She is a nightmare to live and deal with, and she honestly believes she’s a kind and caring person.

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