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sometimes i feel like an alien.

@nappysupastar / nappysupastar.tumblr.com

Talencia here. im one of the most misunderstood people i know. but thats totally ok with me . see the problem is everybody wants to be like everybody else but i cant fathom why.i love being me. i thank GOD everyday for myself. i talk about things that others dont even think about. i wear my hair natural but thats still foreign to some people( yes. even black people damn niggaboos!) but i wouldnt change for the world. i will never assimilate to societal beauty standards! whos with me? then follow me and get a glimpse(just a glimspe) into my world, my beliefs, and my way of thinking. god bless! p.s. was that a little too formal for you guys? well i am a virgo and we are known for being just that- formal but i deviate every once in a while.
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African Americans everywhere we have found a secret language our ancestors from slavery developed to keep between us so we can have dialects between each other . Would bring a sense of community .

A lot of us have been learning it fast in just a few days of knowing about it . It somewhat comes natural . We also have our own heritage flag . We create group chats and have a vetting process to make sure the people are African Americans only so we can learn between us

Our heritage flag

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and the Iraqi people welcomed the Americans with flowers. I wanted to set a historical event to teach Bush a lesson from the Iraqis, telling him you lied, we did not welcome you with flowers, and instead we are saying goodbye with our shoes.“ 

Muntaza Al Zaidi, the Iraqi reporter who became known as the guy who threw a shoe at Bush and later ended up in jail for three years because of it. 

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scientxsts

happy 12 years to bush shoeing incident

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When you start making + receiving money, use it to get your health in line!

I am dead serious about this, I see far too many women who are obsessed with buying the latest Chanel purse or those cute Hermés Oran sandals when they should be using their money to improve their health. Luxury goods don't matter if you can't enjoy them and what's the point of neglecting your health for material items? It makes no sense, you need to be healthy and you need to put your money where it matters the most. So invest in yourself and make all of the necessary appointments you need to have so that you're able to consider yourself healthy.

What you should immediately do with your first sudden influx of currency is make a dental appointment to have your teeth professionally cleaned, have your x-rays done, have a consultation for Invisalign if you feel you need it, and have your teeth gently whitened. I promise you, it's not worth putting off a dental appointment in order to buy fancy things, you don't want to be put in a position where you'll have to be buying fancy dentures in a few years. If you do already have dentures, veneers, or dental implants, level them up! Spend your money on newer and more expensive products that will increase your comfort and improve your quality of life! Having dental discomfort is an unnecessary evil!

You should also make an eye appointment, you need to visit an eye doctor at least once yearly and you can take the opportunity to get a cute new pair of glasses with frames you actually like or those hydrating contact lenses that are considered to be luxurious so your insurance refuses to cover them. Life is so much better when you can wake up in the morning, put on your glasses, and enjoy crystal clear vision. There's nothing like being able to live and enjoy your life and investing in yourself is the smartest decision you can make, I promise that luxury items can't even begin to compare to a healthy, whole, and healed body. It just doesn't make sense to buy luxury goods when you are a luxury good, you need to care for yourself well.

Take yourself to a podiatrist, you're too young to have that knee pain and custom made shoe inserts could legitimately improve your life. I thought it was all very silly but I recently got a pair of the custom made inserts and tennis shoes that my cousin uses and I can actually walk with ease now. I don't have the weird pain that comes from always wearing heels and I can finally put my feet flat on the ground instead of always walking on the tips of my toes. Go to a chiropractor as well, having my hips aligned helped make my life so much nicer, for the first time in modern history, I can walk and enjoy walking instead of hobbling around because my bones have a horrid ache. Chiropractors and Podiatrists are key!

I would also make an appointment with a hearing doctor, hearing loss can happen early and you can even be born with mild hearing loss so why not take the time to have your ears checked and see if you need hearing aids? You can buy the fancy invisible kind that just go inside of your ear and disappear but they'll make your hearing impeccable and you'll be able to have clear conversations and watch movies without subtitles and just generally have a nicer life. No one needs to know, you don't need to get the big clunky ones that are offered with public health insurance or the slightly less clunky ones offered with private health insurance, you can get the nice hidden streamlined ones and go about your day to day business with the added benefit of hearing. There's nothing like enjoying yourself and going out without the fear of being unable to hear important things.

Have your blood drawn and have your labs run, get the full panel drawn up and look at your levels. Blood tests can reveal so many things and really give you clues as to where you should improve your health. A lot of the tests aren't covered by insurance and have to be asked for and, as soon as you have the opportunity, you need to ask to have those tests run. Have an allergy test, there's probably a reason as to why you feel shitty after you eat certain foods, not every allergic reaction comes with anaphylactic shock, some allergic reactions just give you a headache, make your heart race, hurt your stomach, and make you feel horrid for days. There's a clear reason as to why you don't always feel the best but cost is a huge barrier in medicine. The second you have the opportunity, take it in hand immediately.

I have a friend who has scoliosis but also sugars and one of the first things she did was save up so that she could spend $15,000 on the luxury version of the back brace she has to wear to sleep and a new mattress and bed frame to support her back and she started to feel whole again. She didn't have to deal with debilitating back pain due to having to skimp and save when it came to her medical aids, she could do fun things like sports without having to sit on the sidelines, and her life really took a turn for the better because she was able to finally have the things that she needed without thinking of the cost of them.

All of my cousins sugar and marry well, I don't have a single one who hasn't, the first thing they always tell me to do is invest in their bodies. Will an Hermés Birkin increase in value if you hold onto it and keep it in good shape? Yes, but what's the point of having a purse when you're living in pain to the point where enjoying life is a laughable concept and your teeth are damaged and feel like they're about to fall out? There will always be time to buy things, we live in a capitalist society that pushes purchases like there's no tomorrow, you don't have unlimited time to enjoy your body though. If you get yourself into peak physical health while you're young and take care of yourself, you're setting yourself up for easier days later on and you're also improving your life in the moment. You can't tell me that health isn't a precious commodity, everyone wants to be healthy and health is considered to be a true luxury in most of the world.

Lots of Love,

Linsi.

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Anonymous asked:

why do black people use you in the wrong context? such is "you ugly" instead of "you're ugly" I know u guys can differentiate, it's a nuisance

It’s called copula deletion, or zero copula. Many languages and dialects, including Ancient Greek and Russian, delete the copula (the verb to be) when the context is obvious.

So an utterance like “you a bitch” in AAVE is not an example of a misused you, but an example of a sentence that deletes the copular verb (are), which is a perfectly valid thing to do in that dialect, just as deleting an /r/ after a vowel is a perfectly valid thing to do in an upper-class British dialect.

What’s more, it’s been shown that copula deletion occurs in AAVE exactly in those contexts where copula contraction occurs in so-called “Standard American English.” That is, the basic sentence “You are great” can become “You’re great” in SAE and “You great” in AAVE, but “I know who you are” cannot become “I know who you’re” in SAE, and according to reports, neither can you get “I know who you” in AAVE.

In other words, AAVE is a set of grammatical rules just as complex and systematic as SAE, and the widespread belief that it is not is nothing more than yet another manifestation of deeply internalized racism.

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kingkunta-md

This is the most intellectual drag I’ve ever read.

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Represent! #4 - “Believe You” (2021)

written by Nadira Jamerson art by Brittney Williams & Andrew Dalhouse
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hb-pickle

This is so important. There are literal studies proving white doctors don’t think black patients (especially black woman) feel pain the same way white people do. Please advocate for yourself and stay safe.

I’m glad to see she didn’t give up. She listened to her body. And didn’t dismiss it.

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