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Being online I get compliments daily, & it’s truly a blessing but Ive also come to see the downside of the social world. I’ve said this before but doesn’t hurt to remind you. I’ll say to you all what I’ll say to my future daughter: “SEE YOUR BEAUTY, WITHOUT A COMPLIMENT, OR A MIRROR. MIRRORS ONLY SHOW US WHAT WE LOOK LIKE, NOT WHO WE ARE.” As women & sometimes men, we focus a lot on our exterior & compare our behind the scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel on social media. Many of us don’t stop to see the reality. Reality is… You only see my good pictures, good days, my smiles, my good looking model husband & beautiful child. You cant compare what you’re experiencing daily, with an online world of perfection. Celebrities online, makeup gurus, online personalities, myself and others… We all go through crappy moments you never witness. Be a realist, ask yourself “when do you ever feel like 💩 then post it for the world to see”? NEVER. Who wants to takes a picture when their sad and going through personal issues? Not me. Just remember that. ————————————————- Estando en el Internet/Social yo recibo muchas palabras de alabanza y amor diario, y es una bendición, pero también me he dado cuenta de la baja en el mundo social. voy a decirle a ustedes lo que le dire a mi propia futura hija: “TIENES QUE VER TU BELLEZA, SIN COMENTARIOS FISICOS O UN ESPEJO. LOS ESPEJOS SOLAMENTE NOS MUÉSTRAN COMO NOS VEMOS, NO QUIENES SOMOS “. Aveces, nos concentramos mucho en nuestro exterior y comparamos nuestra vida adentro de las escenas de nuestra propia vida, con las escenas social en photos/Internet de todos los demás más. La realidad es que en el Internet/social ustedes sólo ven los buenos días, mis sonrisas, mi bello modelo/esposo y mi hermoso niño. Ustedes no son testigos en los malos momentos en no vida. Las celebridades, gurús de maquillaje, personalidades en internet, yo misma y otros… pasamos por momentos dificiles y malos también. Sea realista y pregunta “¿cuándo te sientes como💩 quien puede publicarlo para que el mundo vea”… NADIE. ¿Quién quiere publicar una imagen, cuando esta triste o pasando por problemas personales? Yo no. Recuerden esto. (at Youtube.com/SunKissAlba)

"There is a fine line between what is funny and disrespectful. Someone said something about my hair at the Oscars that left me in awe. Not because I was relishing in rave outfit reviews, but because I was hit with ignorant slurs and pure disrespect. There is already harsh criticism of African American hair in society without the help of ignorant people who choose to judge others based on the curl of their hair. My wearing my hair in locs on an Oscar red carpet was to showcase them in a positive light, to remind people of color that our hair is good enough. To me locs are a symbol of strength and beauty, almost like a lion’s mane.”

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im lowkey a librarian who works at the your local greenhouse ; come find me at the young adult section reading hot gimmick sipping green tea.