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Brook

@wings-inatrenchcoat / wings-inatrenchcoat.tumblr.com

sunshine n happiness
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As a teenage girl I’ve learned a lot of things. I’ve learned that heartbreak is not the only hurtful battle that’ll crash me over like waves. Losing friends and no self love will crash you just as bad. It will destroy you if you don’t love the curves on your body or the scars or the marks you are given from growing up. You will learn that making someone your entire world is either going to make them become a part of you forever or they will destroy you completely and you’ll feel like you have too many broken pieces to love or be loved ever again. Don’t make that not want you to love again, love is a great thing and you will be broken a million times until someone comes around and fixes all of those pieces. It’s gonna hurt until you find someone who is willing to stay around forever through the bad things, though your moodiness, and through the fights. When you find that person never let them go. Keep them around and love them with everything you got because when they go, they won’t come back. If someone if willing to go through hell and back for you, make sure you feel the same or leave. Don’t EVER let someone stick around if you don’t feel that way about them too, and if you know someone doesn’t feel that way about you, make sure you leave. It’ll hurt a lot less if you let them go. Being a teenager isn’t easy and none of us come with directions and you’re never gonna know what’s going to happen. Love is scary and parents don’t know much these days and loyalty is a hard thing to find and happiness sometimes doesn’t last long. But you’re gonna be okay and I need you to know that

M.A  (via girls-0ngirls)

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If you like someone, wait. Give lots of compliments, even if you’re shy. Everyone else is too. Change. Get a haircut, try new perfume, get new sheets. Become better than you were before. Eat healthier. Learn to cook something fancy. Get up earlier and watch the sun come up. Wear soft clothes, take a bath, drink something warm. Meet someone new, even just a friend. Become closer with your friends and your family. Call your mother. Cry with your best friend. Tell everyone how much you appreciate them. Keep your room clean. Buy some candles. Let the natural light in. Make a list of reasons why you’ll be better off without them. Believe they are true, because they are. Listen to new music. Write everything you’re thinking and feeling. Write letters. Write happy letters, sad letters, and angry letters, even if you’re never going to send them. It’s okay to be sad, but not forever. Sadness is not as beautiful as music makes it seem. Lack of sleep makes your eyes droopy, not deep. Wake up every morning and tell yourself you’re going to have a good day. Go to the library. Don’t forget to look in the music section. Remove them from your life. Get rid of the things they gave you if they make you sad. They’re not worth it. You will never be happy if you continue to hold on to the things that make you sad. Make new memories. Try to find something to appreciate in everything you do or experience. Being alone is okay, you don’t have to surround yourself with people. Become your own best friend. Buy yourself coffee and drink it alone in a cafe. Take your time. Learn to love every bit of yourself.

How to feel better and become better by me  (via seabelle)

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it’s crazy that people who meant the world to me a year ago are nothing but a passing thought to me now and some of the people who mean the most to me now didn’t even know I existed a year ago

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