substance. i was reading a book one night and saw this word and right there and then I realized, that's what I want. i want someone with substance.
i want to talk to them about deeper things. i don't want someone who just agrees, i want someone who challenges me and my beliefs. i don't want someone who praises me for every single thing i do—i admit, it's nice but it's too much for me.
i want someone who recognizes that i have flaws, someone who doesn't put me in a pedestal. it's feels good to be showered with compliments but i don't want to be with a person who overlook everything else just because of their feelings. because i've been there and i'm not going back.
( almost a year since i've written here. hi? )