hey i was wondering if you could take a look at my recent post. im a veterinarian assistant in texas and i just really need some advice. thanks
I’m sorry you went through that. I can’t give you a great answer for situations like it, just commiseration. I would feel as angry and helpless as you when faced with an oblivious owner. You’re not alone—this is one of the worst causes of compassion fatigue. Education and conversation are sometimes the only way to get through, and only if they’re receptive.
I may have shared this story before, but once had a physical therapist bring in his dog for limping. I did my exam, ultimately determined that it was probably a soft tissue injury, and offered pain medication. The physical therapist looked at me and said the dog didn’t seem in pain. This man, educated in the physical signs of a broken body and how to treat it, didn’t recognize what I saw.
How I got him to take medication home wasn’t the most politic method. But I stared at him and just asked “Do you limp for no reason?” When he said no, I continued. “Then why would you expect your dog to do so?”
I don’t think that would have worked for you, but vet med is a weird balance of gentle education and blunt honesty. It’s also a lot of human interaction, and trying to figure out which path is the best one.