hello! i really need some advice for my clear cosplay. im going to comic-con in new orleans of january 2016! but im super nervous because im actually quite quite young to be cosplaying for dmmd. i have the whole costume including the wig, but im just super nervous because i have a feeling i might not fit in with others. or just in general not a good cosplayer at all. any advice? it just kinda makes me feel nervous thinking about it.
Most cosplayers don’t really care about your age, as long as you’re not loud and obnoxious and you’re pretty mature. If you’re underage, I honestly advise you to suggest you only watched the anime, since, yeah, DMMd is pretty much porn and a lot of the adult fans frown upon minors looking at it. See, I don’t know you at all, so I can’t really help with anything specific, but I totally understand where the worries come from.
Something that used to make me ease into cosplaying back when I was younger was costesting the characters at home and practicing my makeup and wig styling constantly before the con, making sure everything was perfect to me. I took lots of pictures and was like “damn, that cosplay is so nice. Damn, that cosplayer is me.” This obviously doesn’t work for everyone, but it’s worth a shot!
In the end, you need to remember that cons are for fun and that’s the only thing you should really worry about. I totally understand where the nervousness from fitting in comes from, but I’m sure you’ll meet great people and have fun! Remember: you don’t have to stick to talking to people from the fanbase you’re cosplaying from.
I’ve never seen your cosplay, but I’m sure it looks great!
I hope my rambling encouraged you or helped in some way. I hope your con goes great and that your nerves are calmed soon!