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The Other Brova

@ohcaptainmycaptainkirk

Dogs and Star Trek mostly
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lluviagf

I been thinking a lot about what it's like to recover you know, like the process it is going to therapy and try your best to be okay and to get help, and every time I think about it that line that says "nobody will ever know the violence it took me to become this gentle" comes to my mind. like you have this person in front of you who you have to trust with the things u are struggling with and this person is going to let you know how you should act for your wellbeing, it's like "you should stay away from this person because it's hurting you" "you should change this behavior because is bad for u" you should do this and that for your wellbeing, even if its not what you want, even if its not what ur entire being wants! and I think that's the moment when it becomes really violent, you have to learn how to stop yourself from doing what you been doing for so much time to protect yourself (like bad habits, toxic behaviors, certain attitudes, harmful coping mechanisms etc.) and you have to stop yourself from wanting certain things that are bad for you, and you should teach yourself how to be vulnerable and you should alllow yourself to be tender and feel without judgment, and act out of fear and speak out loud and you should stop yourself from a lot of things and then you have to face such hard truths and learn how to deal with things in a healthy way and change your mind and you do have breakdowns and you feel so angry and sad and guilty and also tired!! it's such tiring process, but you are doing it for yourself and for being okay....... and I think that's such brave thing to do, helping yourself and wanting to be better and healthy and just everything that involves it, it's such violent but brave and powerful act that can't lead you anywhere but when you really are destinated to be. And I think it's also something to be proud really proud about!

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caelkid

time to say It... anti mexican racism is a specific problem in america that needs to be talked about NOW. there is a culture of fear and hatred very specifically focused on the fact that mexicans dare exist outside of mexico that even extends past white majority areas and into other communities of color. its going to lead to something that can never be undone if other people don't start actively and enthusiastically giving mexican people their support and solidarity. i'm begging you, go out of your way today to research what you can do to help struggling mexican people in your community (which i guarantee there are)

if you aren't mexican reblog this but don't add any dumb shit to it please

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Today I had a lengthy phone conversation with the IT manager (who works down the hall, that lazy ass) about getting some projects we've been working on together done before he leaves the company.

He jokingly threatened to kill me if I sent him files with errors in them that would make more work on his end. I laughed and said "oh ok. Got it." To which he replied he was only joking and he would actually just plant a virus on my computer.

I told him I preferred being murdered. Silence followed. I was happy to let that linger. Then I hear him mumble to himself that that is something he DEFINITELY would need to outsource.

A couple hours later an announcement went out that he had decided to stay with the company. I am not terrified this man is going to murder me.

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sporeblossom

“the millenium falcon would wipe out the enterprise in seconds” lmao the enterprise is just an innocent science class floating thru space…. all they wanna do is look at some rocks… kiss an alien…. find some space plants….. why would you fight that its not a battleship theyre just nerds…… leave them olone 

A friend of mine saw this and brought up some interesting arguments

so, in other words,

Pretty much.

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jaegerdelta

here have some size comparison

Who wins in a fight, a fully staffed Navy research vessel or your local weed man and his best friend in their souped up VW Bus?

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So the dude in our IT department is super grumpy all of the time but I remain nice to him and let him rant at me about various things that bug him.

This past Saturday he invited me to his bday party and I was like 'aw that's nice' and I went and it was fun and I gave him a plastic dinosaur which he declined but that's cool.

Monday morning the laptop request my boss put in for me 6 months ago was miraculously approved and it was waiting for me when I got to work.

So all-in-all, my dinosaur got rejected but I can work from home now so I'll take that as a win.

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