Be Understanding for Littles...

♡We’re just babies, sometimes we say things that we don’t mean negatively, we just small and don’t know better.

♡Don’t stay upset with us for too long.. You’re our everything and we need you.

♡Tell us when you’re upset, sometimes we dont know why, even if we caused it!

♡We’re very sensitive.. Please be gentle.

♡Don’t get too upset with us when we act up, sometimes we just really want your attention and don’t know how to get it.

♡Get to the bottom of it when we’re grumpy! Sometimes it’s something that really upset us that you didn’t even realize!

♡Don’t make us feel bad for wanting to be little or babied!! We want to feel safe and cared for, to be happy. ♡Don’t get too upset for things we copy from you. You’re our rolemodel, we look up to you like a child.

♡We try to seek out your approval at every turn.. Give us appreciation and praise! It will improve our confidence and make is the happiest little one in the world!

♡Don’t leave even if we say go away.. Stay close by. Sometimes we say it even though we really need your support.

♡We love you always, don’t think otherwise.

♡Littles can be big or small, but we’re still your little baby.. We are silly and grumpy, loving and cuddly! We just want you and your happiness.

Heheh… 😈

I made some matching cuffs, so now I can leave my little girl happily bouncing away without the fear of her falling out 😈

Caregiver headspace

*Searching for bottles and sippy cups scattered around to make sure they’re clean

*Putting all the crayons back in the box, and putting bandaids on the broken ones

*Cutting up various foods into tiny pieces

*Getting songs from kid’s shows stuck in your head

*Giving stern looks, but being secretly amused inside

*Chasing down a little one for bathtime

*Giving pushes on the swing

*Stomping around and looking under blankets during hide-and-seek

*Walking by the toy aisle and feeling a desperate urge to spoil

@nerdiepants

Daddy never raises a hand at me and threatens to spank me, when he wants me to do something or not do something he treats me like a literal child and smacks my hand away, uses reverse psychology, that calm stern voice to tell me i will do something and things like “well if you don’t clean your room then we wouldn’t go anywhere until it’s clean”, “its kind of bright in your room you should turn the lights out, oh and wheres your paci? Oh look it’s bedtime” and I’m in bed with a paci and sleepy before realizing it type of daddy methods.

His dominance comes from this caring place of knowing I can do better and because it’s not an angry or violent place I don’t do things out of fear or anxiety but so I can genuinely be a better person and to be a good girl and listen of course.

I truly have the bestest daddy in the whole wide world💕💕💕

@oregondykedaddy

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The thing most people don’t realize about Littles is that “little space” is a change in their mental state and capacity. It’s not all role play. They don’t really have control of it (other than forcing themselves uncomfortably into big space). And most importantly they aren’t “faking it”. 

As a Daddy I have to remember these things. When my Little is deep into little space I have to remember that to her the world is a very large and very scary place. The same things she sees every day can suddenly seem terrifying. And it’s my job to protect her. 

I also have to remember that sometimes she is literally to Little to make decisions and she needs me to make them. Sometimes it takes me a little bit for that to register and realize in some situations she really does need me to make the decisions, and most importantly not change them. 

By asking me to be her Daddy all those months ago she was asking for my help when she’s Little to navigate the world. To be there when she’s scared, to be there when she’s super hyper and happy and talking a mile a minute, to be there when she just needs a friend, and to be there when she needs guidance she can’t give herself. I’m not her Daddy to force her into being someone different. I’m her Daddy to cherish everything that makes her herself and help her be the best she can possibly be.

@thedaddycore

@nerdiepants

Wow. Even after reading this I’ll probably still never admit it…

Littles are full time commitments

I think a lot of people think it’d be a huge turn on and so awesome to be a daddy dom or a mommy domme or a caregiver in general. And I understand that. Us littles are awesome. We’re cute as pie and sassy as hell, plus we’re masters of the puppy dog pout and expert booty wigglers. But being a real caregiver is a LOT of work. Do you know how many times a day my daddy has to remind me to do basic things like drink enough water, take my medicine, eat, you know- really basic stuff? Like, all day. Then there’s other stuff like make sure my shoes are on the right feet, make sure I went potty before we go somewhere (I swear I have the bladder of a mouse), keep up with me and all the stuff I just HAD to bring with me anytime we go anywhere. Oh, and he also stays on top of my school schedule, while also remembering his own. So that’s 8 classes of due dates he remembers so he can remind me to get things done. Then there’s the dealing with my health issues, both emotional, mental and physical. He makes my doctors appointments because I will do anything in my power to not go to the doctor. He asks the important questions at the appointments because I’m too busy sulking about being there in the first place. There’s the temper tantrums, the breakdowns, the hissy fits and the pouting. Yeah, we are cute, fiercely loyal and adoring little lovebugs but we are work and commitment and require patience and attention and care. If you just want someone to put their hair in piggytails and call you daddy, that’s fine! No shaming here. But don’t lure a little in giving them the impression you will be their caregiver when you won’t be there after the sex is over. We are precious wonderful creatures who are in actuality full time jobs, so be kind and remember that.

This is so true and also so well written

So true. Beautifully written.

Reasons Why Little Girls Need Rules:

1. Rules give structure which is very comforting to a submissive mind. To be able to see what is expected, and what is forbidden, allows a little girl to navigate the relationship easily, and with less stress. 

2. Rules remind a submissive who is in charge. Whether she is obeying them, or breaking them, Daddy put them there, and she is reminded that every time she navigates around them, or takes one off the shelf and breaks it. 

3. Rules are useful tools to improve your submissive’s life, and make her a better person. Don’t like that she keeps a messy room? Make a rule that changes that. Don’t like that she eats sweets before bed, and that it makes it hard for her to fall asleep? It must be rule time. Rules help Dominants take care of their littles, because we can’t expect them to take care of themselves all the time.

JD🌹

Daddy Improvement Tip

It is important as a Daddy to be able to identify and admit what you need to improve on to become a better Daddy. Although sometimes a Daddy might not realize they aren’t doing something their little one needs.

Don’t be afraid to tell your Daddy if you need him to do something more or something differently. Whether its more butt pats, or more cuddles, or talking to you little more, or wanting bed time stories, or wanting him to dress you, or anything else. Dont be shy to ask, because a Daddy who truly cares about you will do his best to make his little one happier!