@stainedglassgardens / stainedglassgardens.tumblr.com
... and I’ve had this Tumblr for more than ten years at this point.
It’s time to leave it behind, together with the trouble and insecurity of some of the worst years of my life.
If you want to keep up with me please message me (off anon) and I’ll be glad to let you know where I might be posting from in future.
Poly Styrene, 1977
In reality it’s been a year and seven months and we still haven’t argued once. I wish “making concessions” wasn’t an excuse used to get women to accept everything their garbage partners put them through. Not saying that it’s not normal to argue sometimes in a long-term relationship (in fact I almost have trouble believing it’s never happened to us) but I just wish women would refuse to make concessions more often.
Pros and cons of office life being back in full swing after the holidays:
Cons:
Pros:
Secretly posting this here, shhhhhh 🤫
I dated a wonderful boy for awhile who unfortunately just wasn't quite the right fit for me. Gotta stay true to your feelings even if it's uncomfortable in the short term. I made this comic as a lil keepsake.
The Last Black Man in San Francisco Ikarie XB 1 The Beaches of Agnès (Les Plages d'Agnès) Fireball: Visitors From Darker Worlds Titane The Unseen River (Giòng sông không nhìn thấy) The Recorder Exam (리코더 시험) Brother (Брат) Lina from Lima (Lina de Lima) Cave of Forgotten Dreams
Lina from Lima (Lina de Lima, María Paz González, 2019)
Lina from Lima (Lina de Lima, María Paz González, 2019)
Still not a hundred percent sure how I got here, but I think I’ve become my friends’ stable friend now? The other day my bff said “You’re happy now, how did you do it?” and another time another friend asked me for tips on how to make it through the worst days of depression (which... there are no tips. You just get through the goddamn day). On top of which, people seem to look up to me for advice on food and exercise... So weird.
My boss stood up for me at work today and I thought “Is this what it feels like to have a mum?”
I got street-harassed again by one of the male customers at the loser bar I (used to) pass every day on my way to work so I decided to change my route. But. It’s fine.
The Recorder Exam (리코더 시험, Rikodeo siheom, Kim Bora, 2011)
The Unseen River (Giòng sông không nhìn thấy, Phạm Ngọc Lân, 2020)
The Unseen River (Giòng sông không nhìn thấy, Phạm Ngọc Lân, 2020)
The Unseen River (Giòng sông không nhìn thấy, Phạm Ngọc Lân, 2020)
